I suffered the BIGGEST, ego shattering L in my Life (SEX related)

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I really only drink water. I don't fukk with soda like I use to. For my fitness I do HIIT cardio 2-3 times a week on my best week while mixing it push ups and sit ups. It's obviously a mental thing and I gotta blame porn for that. So that's why I'm stopping. I havrn't busted a nut in about 3 1/2 weeks, however I did beat my meat a bit this past week, but not to the point of busting.

A horrible thing I never wanna experience again. And yea I did panic when I went soft cause it never happened before. With that thought in my head I couldn't rebound. :sadbron:

Still a little depressed from it, but I was worse earlier at work. Now I'm determined to get my juices flowing. No porn. No jagging. Going for intense cardio and exercises. Gotta get my drive up.

And no, she's not my girl.
 

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i was having issues getting it up so i talked to a couple guys i knew were decent or great at sex. its all about how you handle your meat to get it hard soft underneath touches and a lot of ball touching. i had them show me how they "play" with themself to get hard under pressure and how to keep it there.

this one guy who showed me that i grew up with literally stood there with a hard on while i watched for 5 solid minutes without touching

its all nerves. oh yeah shave your shyt it makes it more sensitive and easier to get hard
:sitdown:
 

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i was having issues getting it up so i talked to a couple guys i knew were decent or great at sex. its all about how you handle your meat to get it hard soft underneath touches and a lot of ball touching. i had them show me how they "play" with themself to get hard under pressure and how to keep it there.

this one guy who showed me that i grew up with literally stood there with a hard on while i watched for 5 solid minutes without touching

its all nerves. oh yeah shave your shyt it makes it more sensitive and easier to get hard

:wtf:

if you are healthy male then this was prob just a fluke. You must have other things on your mind.

exactly

I feel your pain bro...

one of my boys is currently seeking treatment for similar issue. He has porn on his phone, PC and has a massive porn collection. His girlfriend is a serious 9.5 or a 10 at least!:whoo: Straight up dime but he tells me he can barely even get 50% hard... with her and has to resort to eating the puss to make up for it :scusthov:.

Doctors are giving him depression medication to see what happens before they put him on Viagra or cialis.
27 year old on Viagra that's what he is facing.:beli:

PORN is dangerous....Don't get me wrong. I watch it maybe once or twice every 2 weeks or so but that sh!t is trouble

Breh it's psychological. He should not be taking Viagra at 27; his doctor must not know shyt. I thought for a long time I was having sex problems, but in reality it was stress, anxiety, and plus I was having issues with this rare bladder disease that I didn't know that I had. Once I got medicine for that, my sex problems went away. I was bleeding internally and that shyt was affecting my prostate.

The point is, unless you're having some serious pain somewhere, it's probably psychological. I wouldn't be too embarrassed. If it is a girl who's really feelin' you, then she probably felt worse then you did. Girls get real sensitive about that shyt; they think it's them.
 

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if you are really serious about this problem, seek some real help. not busting a nut in four months seems like something is wrong

evaluate your age
your health/disease stauts (diabetes/smoking/obesity)
your supplements and diet

then take it from there
 

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i was having issues getting it up so i talked to a couple guys i knew were decent or great at sex. its all about how you handle your meat to get it hard soft underneath touches and a lot of ball touching. i had them show me how they "play" with themself to get hard under pressure and how to keep it there....this one guy who showed me that i grew up with literally stood there with a hard on while i watched for 5 solid minutes without touching

:wtf::huhldup::what::dead:
 

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the last L i ever took was not being able to get it up but then i knew the direct reason why: i was taking the max dose of a certain testosterone booster (which is now banned lol) that made my body looks amazing in 2 1/2 weeks but wreaked havoc on my sex drive..i had no control of getting it up or anything and it happened when a chick came up to visit me :sadcam:..i was glad i got a second chance to right that wrong :bryan:

but yeah that porn desensitization is real talk..i went through a bout of that last year...all those years of porn downloading, watching, jerking off to it and whatnot..it started to fukk with me..it made me complacent and not aggressive...like my gf was the one initiating all the sex and whatnot and hated that...im a gym rat so i know my testosterone levels were already high enough..but yeah def had to curb back on the porn and detox the mind and focus on being more relaxed which ended up working great
 

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I had the same problem breh from watching porn....then my Chinese girlfriend put me on to this......

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you're supposed to pop one every day but you only need one every other day. It's nature's Viagra. Any brand will probably do. Your dikk gets super hard instantly. You'll even find your dikk getting hard often during the day when doing random things and you're not even thinking bout sex.
 

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I had the same problem randomly but it was due to the pre-workout supplement I was taking.

Now everything is back to normal. :whew:

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