I see your points though--tbr if you are dating a girl and you are serious...you have to present a routine/preview of your life together that you will be comfortable with long-term. If you don't want to live your life providing a certain type of lifestyle, it's better not to even create that expectation.
Ideally, the woman you're dating won't be that superficial, but how many times you hear about men marrying women who end up shocked that they don't get this or that anymore after they get married. You should be honest about who you are and what you want out of a relationship in the dating process.