i swear to god black females always trying to get a free meal on dates

[DanielAlfredsson]

Yeah I'm not with letting a female pay either, but it's nice when they offer. I took a nice slim lil' kindergarten teacher out last weekend to dinner. We then walked around downtown and went for a few drinks at a more upscale spot. When it came time to pay she wanted to pay for them. I said nahh.

 

[Listen]

what type of women do u men deal with on here? I swear at times I feel that I'm in the twilight zone where everything is flipped when I log onto the coli

explain to me why u feel that a woman should offer to pay ON A DATE?

You ever have someone in your family come up to you and tell you what they want you to buy them for their birthday or Christmas?

You ever hear them tell you what they want and suddenly not want to but it for them anymore?

It's the same feeling when a woman just 'expects' dinner and for you to pay.

A woman who expects you to buy her food takes all the fun out of actually buying her food.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Yeah I'm not with letting a female pay either, but it's nice when they offer. I took a nice slim lil' kindergarten teacher out last weekend to dinner. We then walked around downtown and went for a few drinks at a more upscale spot. When it came time to pay she wanted to pay for them. I said nahh.

I feel hella emasculated when anyone does anything for me, let alone pays for something for me. I can't let it happen. My pride levels are through the roof.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

what type of women do u men deal with on here? I swear at times I feel that I'm in the twilight zone where everything is flipped when I log onto the coli

explain to me why u feel that a woman should offer to pay ON A DATE?

i went on dates where i paid everything and a nikka couldnt even get a text reply

i was like whoaa what part of the game is this

so ya no more dinner dates

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I feel hella emasculated when anyone does anything for me, let alone pays for something for me. I can't let it happen. My pride levels are through the roof.

you live in atlanta breh most sisters are thirsty and looking to marry
plus you hipster..you got homecourt advantage

..id eat in that city

 

[Listen]

I feel hella emasculated when anyone does anything for me, let alone pays for something for me. I can't let it happen. My pride levels are through the roof.

Paying because you choose to pay versus because someone expects you to is the difference.

 

[marcuz]

explain to me why u feel that a woman should offer to pay ON A DATE?

because y'all want to be treated as equals. you don't buy your equal meals just off GP.

 

[Malfoy]

bowling is more interactive and it doesnt feel like some interview process where i gotta talk about my job-my love life and the coli



ohh i been single for 7mths now..just didnt work..

You talk about the coli on dates??????!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Stop trolling Malc. That sucks it didn't work out. Bowling is something fun but it can get dry after a while if it's just the two of you, I find it works better in a group.

oh and to start this shyt off right.
I'm not paying for shyt. shout out to @PrnzHakeem

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

self

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You talk about the coli on dates??????!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Stop trolling Malc. That sucks it didn't work out. Bowling is something fun but it can get dry after a while if it's just the two of you, I find it works better in a group.

oh and to start this shyt off right.
I'm not paying for shyt. shout out to @PrnzHakeem

lilnikkah was inviting him over for dinner on the first date

dude won

 

[Malfoy]

lilnikkah was inviting him over for dinner on the first date

dude won

and even woke up to a continental breakfast...yep he won all right.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

you live in atlanta breh most sisters are thirsty and looking to marry
plus you hipster..you got homecourt advantage

..id eat in that city

I haven't lived in Atlanta for years. I just visit occasionally. I still be eatin' though.

I just wasn't raised that way. My mama never pays for shyt.

Edit: I aint no hipster.

 

[HookersandIceCream]

I feel hella emasculated when anyone does anything for me, let alone pays for something for me. I can't let it happen. My pride levels are through the roof.

Your on your parents insurance

Probably still live at home

 

[Sinnerman]

I've never had a woman pay for a date. I make enough money and it feels unmanly to me. To each their own.

straight up. I hate anyone paying for me tbh

 

[Ooh Marty]

You ever have someone in your family come up to you and tell you what they want you to buy them for their birthday or Christmas?

You ever hear them tell you what they want and suddenly not want to but it for them anymore?

It's the same feeling when a woman just 'expects' dinner and for you to pay.

A woman who expects you to buy her food takes all the fun out of actually buying her food.

Well its diff experiences for diff ppl. Most of the dates Ive been on in my lifetime, the guy either asks me what I want to do for the first date or tell me where hes going to take me and 10/10 its a dinner or lunch date or sometimes brunch

i went on dates where i paid everything and a nikka couldnt even get a text reply

i was like whoaa what part of the game is this

so ya no more dinner dates

well is it the money aspect malc or u feel that a bowling date, u'd be able to interact with her more?

because y'all want to be treated as equals. you don't buy your equal meals just off GP.

Stop trying to turn this into a feminism bullshyt debate.

If you ask a woman out on a date, ITS UR OBLIGATION TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING!

I can see if yall were a couple and yall go out on a date, then yea she should offer to pay here and there and even take u out on a date. Ive treated my exes out on dates plenty of times.

But if this is a new guy and he asked me out on a date, whether its dinner and a movie or dinner and bowling, he WILL be paying.