This is The Thirst Age...
Both genders have it relatively easier than previous generations.
But guys have (and always will) have it harder getting the attention of a woman, let alone
multiple women; than it is for a girl to get a man's attention.
A guy getting the attention and exclusivity of a woman- let alone a good looking woman- let alone a good looking woman with more redeeming qualities other than her looks- guys are gonna be like
"Damn son, you got
her?
"
Because it takes a certain amount of skill, charm, and charisma to get a good woman.
Even if it's because they have money or a nice car, outside of being born into money, guys don't just get cars for nothing. He had to work for it.
While females are gonna be like
"Damn, I wonder what he has that that girl is willing to be with him..."
Because females always want someone a man who's 'off the market,' so to speak.
Fellas, remember when you got in a relationship and all of a sudden, females started giving you WAAAAAYYYY more attention?
For women, all they have to do is look presentable and
someone will talk to her at some point in the day.
And most women (99%, IMO) will not put themselves out there and actively persue a man because
A) They don't have to, and
B) Women suck, SUCK at handling rejection.
So the majority sit back and hope that guy sitting across from them in Starbucks gets up and asks them out in the right way... If not, there will be somebody tomorrow, right?
A guy could look like Edris Elba/Channing Tatum/ whatever guy females find sexy...
If he's shy or quiet...
He dresses bummy...
He's bad with words...
Or the girl(s) who he's interested in just has a bad day...
He will be a very lonely man.
A girl can be dumb as dirt...
Stuck-up...
Dresses shytty...
Damn near be a mute...
As long as she looks okay (if that), she has her pick of the litter.
Just being real.