I think its impossible for me to find a girlfriend brehs

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That's facts af bro. That's how I got cuffed without realizing it, and it fukked up my game big time. I was getting so many numbers, and fukking bytches in a row than ever before. It felt automatic, I was cocky with it, like I knew I had a 90% chance, no doubts in my mind.

Then after one girl I fukked, there weren't any decent girls at my job so that was out, my boys didnt want to go to the club, so that was out, I don't use social media or dating apps, out, and I barely see chicks when I go out and about.

Now that turned into a long cuff, I lost my groove, and I'm mad as hell so much time went by.


Breh if you really need a girl you gotta put yourself out there

Most dudes I meet with women problems ain't putting themselves out there like that

And by out there I mean you gotta go all out,
Tinder,pof,bumble , go party every weekend,go to bars a lounges after work,speed dating,get active on Instagram Snapchat...the whole nine yards.


You throw ya reel out eventually you going to catch some fish


Yeah I Know it sucks but some of us just gotta work harder for certain things
 

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What happen at 25 bro.

To be fair, I'm only 3 years into my 30s, but I get way more women now than I ever did when I was in my 20s. I remember 25 was a really shytty year for me with women.
 

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Thanks for the advice friends...i mean sex isnt really why i want a gf its just because i want someone i can connect with and talk to on a personal level ya kno...im not a virgin btw out of frustration i had sex with a stripper couple years ago (biggest mistake of my life)...only good thing about that experience is that it showed me that p*ssy, what yall nikkas hype up is overrated as fukk and its just for bragging rights with most nikkas yall kno deep down that shyt isnt what yall hype it up to be

Don't lash out at the p*ssy:whoa:

p*ssy is great,you probably just mythicized it for longer than most of us,to the point it could never live up to your standards.

Or maybe you got a little too good with your hand:martin:. Fall back from that and you will begin to love it again.
 

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valuable lesson here kin.

People fail to realize there are levels to thirst,two mainly,pathetic thirst and confident thirst.

Women go alot off of vibe and energy you give off,It's why females can become friends after briefly meeting. Women are much better at giving off great,positive vibes among each other,despite how they might talk behind each others backs:mjlol:. Women know how to make each other feel good when they are trying too.

Men really need to work on the energy they give off when approaching. nikkas go up to women monotone with the :wtb: face,trying to be non chalant and mr smooth,and fail. Obviously it all works when she's attracted,but you can sneak in when they feel that vibe,and that connection like you two aren't strangers. Just go up and talk to women like you already know them. It makes them more comfortable,and stops the akwardness which is what makes alot of women want to flee.
 

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Ok.....

People are going go say this guy is bitter or got problems...

But this guy isn't wrong.

I've never had a girlfriend, but there were times I was close to them but had a fall out . But other times, girls would treat a guy like shyt when he show his unwanted affection . That's why a lot of dudes just say "fukk it and don't bother with women. Many of y'all extrovert dudes really don't get. I've had plenty of experience with women but most of them are bad.

However, I can say that with bad experience comes with lessons learned. I've gotten better with communicating with women more, but let's not act like men don't have emotions

THIS
 

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U too old to be scared of women

Think of this; when you are in a relationship with these women, are you still gonna be scared of them?

No, he won't. He just needs to get comfortable. I'm the same way. Except I only clam up around women I'm attracted to. If I don't have any interest or think you're not good looking, I talk to you like anyone else.
 
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