Thanks for the advice friends...i mean sex isnt really why i want a gf its just because i want someone i can connect with and talk to on a personal level ya kno...im not a virgin btw out of frustration i had sex with a stripper couple years ago (biggest mistake of my life)...only good thing about that experience is that it showed me that p*ssy, what yall nikkas hype up is overrated as fukk and its just for bragging rights with most nikkas yall kno deep down that shyt isnt what yall hype it up to be
With all due respect, you've clearly never had sex with a woman you loved/loved you. It's a completely different level
Now on to the actual topic.
Yall make it sound so easy but when youre a quiet shy nikka u tend to overthink everything and when u think alot that tends to stop u from approaching due to fear of rejection...like i see so many girls i wanna talk to on a daily basis but i just cant...shyts not easy
There are like a billion dating apps. Those could be ways to circumvent your shyness when it comes to physically approaching women. You're a normal guy with friends right? Okay then I assume you have pics that you can post? If not start taking some. shyt, you could start a thread and have us genuinely critique your profile information if you're uncertain what to write.
If OLD isn't you're scene, then I suggest getting a hobby that allows you to mingle with people. It'd give you and prospects something organic to talk about which should relieve some of your stress when it comes to overthinking. Obviously college years were the prime real estate for this type of thing, but depending on where you reside you should still be able to find something similar.
Actually, if you live in a city with a university, then there would be graduate students who may be involved in stuff. Maybe go to a lecture that's open to the public and mingle with others about the topic. Hell college seniors are only 3 years you junior, I assume that'd suffice as well.
Keep your head up though. You'll figure it out eventually.