I think its impossible for me to find a girlfriend brehs

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Bro the best advice is to lose weight. Real life isn’t a Disney movie People are shallow as fukk. If you are overweight you are not attractive to them and they won’t fukk with you simple as that. You don’t need Any love doctors, magic strategies, scripts, etc fix your body and you can pull hoes literally saying anything lol
That' real shyt breh. Ppl judge based off appearnce.i was just telling my brother this when we were kicking it
 

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Breh if you really need a girl you gotta put yourself out there

Most dudes I meet with women problems ain't putting themselves out there like that

And by out there I mean you gotta go all out,
Tinder,pof,bumble , go party every weekend,go to bars a lounges after work,speed dating,get active on Instagram Snapchat...the whole nine yards.


You throw ya reel out eventually you going to catch some fish


Yeah I Know it sucks but some of us just gotta work harder for certain things
 

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My shyness wont allow it man im 25 and i have only approached ONE girl in my entire life and only had one girlfriend and that was back in highschool (the girl approached me) is all hope lost for me brehs? :mjcry:
You need to change your pov of yourself. Get Ross Jefferies unstoppable confidence. It's dated sounding but his concepts are legit or use the Roger Allan Currie mode one approach. Just tell a chick you wanna fukk. It's either yes or no.
 

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Thanks for the advice friends...i mean sex isnt really why i want a gf its just because i want someone i can connect with and talk to on a personal level ya kno...im not a virgin btw out of frustration i had sex with a stripper couple years ago (biggest mistake of my life)...only good thing about that experience is that it showed me that p*ssy, what yall nikkas hype up is overrated as fukk and its just for bragging rights with most nikkas yall kno deep down that shyt isnt what yall hype it up to be

With all due respect, you've clearly never had sex with a woman you loved/loved you. It's a completely different level:wow:

Now on to the actual topic.

Yall make it sound so easy but when youre a quiet shy nikka u tend to overthink everything and when u think alot that tends to stop u from approaching due to fear of rejection...like i see so many girls i wanna talk to on a daily basis but i just cant...shyts not easy

There are like a billion dating apps. Those could be ways to circumvent your shyness when it comes to physically approaching women. You're a normal guy with friends right? Okay then I assume you have pics that you can post? If not start taking some. shyt, you could start a thread and have us genuinely critique your profile information if you're uncertain what to write.

If OLD isn't you're scene, then I suggest getting a hobby that allows you to mingle with people. It'd give you and prospects something organic to talk about which should relieve some of your stress when it comes to overthinking. Obviously college years were the prime real estate for this type of thing, but depending on where you reside you should still be able to find something similar.

Actually, if you live in a city with a university, then there would be graduate students who may be involved in stuff. Maybe go to a lecture that's open to the public and mingle with others about the topic. Hell college seniors are only 3 years you junior, I assume that'd suffice as well.

Keep your head up though. You'll figure it out eventually.
 

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Bro the best advice is to lose weight. Real life isn’t a Disney movie People are shallow as fukk. If you are overweight you are not attractive to them and they won’t fukk with you simple as that. You don’t need Any love doctors, magic strategies, scripts, etc fix your body and you can pull hoes literally saying anything lol
This.
 

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That's vice versa tho. There' always going to be somebody else attractive but that' where being sure of yourself and trusting your partner comes in. That's as far as relationships go.



Now as far you being on the hunt she really don't owe you any loyalty or commitment until she's your's. You don't owe her any either until you feel like this is somebody you wanna commit to. Until then you free to do you.
 

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Thanks for the advice friends...i mean sex isnt really why i want a gf its just because i want someone i can connect with and talk to on a personal level ya kno...im not a virgin btw out of frustration i had sex with a stripper couple years ago (biggest mistake of my life)...only good thing about that experience is that it showed me that p*ssy, what yall nikkas hype up is overrated as fukk and its just for bragging rights with most nikkas yall kno deep down that shyt isnt what yall hype it up to be


What happen
 
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You're in the Carribbeans, what are you afraid of? Women down there are notoriously easy going

I'm in America, this is the lions den when it comes to women homie, the heart of the beast, the jungle. Women will roast you or come at your head for even looking in their direction up here.
 

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You ain't missging shyt. You approach them they gonna be combative, stupid, mean and flat out rude. Women in 2018 ain't shyt Breh. They think they are gods gift to humanity but they are not. Don't worship them. Some of them don't wash their ass, brush their teeth or change their pads before they leave the house. Other half gonna lie saying they "got a boyfriend" " why do you want to know me" "I'm a lesbian" or they will show interest n give yo a fake number or agree to do something that they planned on flake on their plan that they said they were going through with. fukk em n mind your business like I do. :pacspit:

Ok.....

People are going go say this guy is bitter or got problems...

But this guy isn't wrong.

I've never had a girlfriend, but there were times I was close to them but had a fall out . But other times, girls would treat a guy like shyt when he show his unwanted affection . That's why a lot of dudes just say "fukk it and don't bother with women. Many of y'all extrovert dudes really don't get. I've had plenty of experience with women but most of them are bad.

However, I can say that with bad experience comes with lessons learned. I've gotten better with communicating with women more, but let's not act like men don't have emotions
 
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How you paying for p*ssy from a stripper but you to shy to approach women :deadmanny:

You people have got the game backwards the embarrassment of paying for p*ssy would destroy me my ego can take getting rejected
 

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Thanks for the advice friends...i mean sex isnt really why i want a gf its just because i want someone i can connect with and talk to on a personal level ya kno...im not a virgin btw out of frustration i had sex with a stripper couple years ago (biggest mistake of my life)...only good thing about that experience is that it showed me that p*ssy, what yall nikkas hype up is overrated as fukk and its just for bragging rights with most nikkas yall kno deep down that shyt isnt what yall hype it up to be


This is nonsense and you are projecting your sad situation as insult to everyone

You feeling ashamed & guilty paid for sex, had no idea what you were doing and turned into “ nikkas be lying” FOH :camby:
 
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