I think relationships are more successful when the man doesn't love the woman.

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If she was gonna leave, she gonna leave...she gonna stay, she gonna stay...life goes on.
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Can't get another "her"...but I CAN get many more.
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But being marriage and living in NYC small apartment you do not have luxury spare room and living space to distance yourself. You fukking come home to sleep next the one you trying to curb which leads to fukking and making up.
Eh, we manage to maintain our distance. We be in the same room and don't speak for hours.

We had that 'over extended honeymoon phase' yall are talking about. I told him and we fixed it. He's back to the controlling a$$hole I fell in love with. :wow:
 

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Eh, we manage to maintain our distance. We be in the same room and don't speak for hours.

We had that 'over extended honeymoon phase' yall are talking about. I told him and we fixed it. He's back to the controlling a$$hole I fell in love with. :wow:
Controlling a$$hole :laff: you trolling
 

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It depends on the woman but yeah a lot of women are drawn to men who place their purposes before them.. while others feel like if they ain't getting the attention and affection they want.. they outta there.
 

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Man I been talking and seeing this one girl, and she's a 6, 7 on a good day but has so many other great qualities about her that make her a 8 in my eyes and mann i feel like she's perfect for me. A part of me just wanna be like man fukk the games and the bullshyt, but i know that I'm gonna lose her if I don't stick with it. It sucks. It's mentally and emotionally draining cuz truthfully I'm a one woman guy deep down. I really don't care about fukking a bunch of random broads. I did that in my early 20's and got it out my system. But it's like, you need to have some type of roster to keep yourself unattached to these women cuz the second you slip up and fall in love, you gonna lose her.

It's a shytty game when you give a fukk :beli:
If you gotta do that to keep shorty than she may not have all those great qualities you assume she has. Women who are more drawn to men who ignore them, disappear for several days, etc have deep rooted issues. Maybe their pops wasn't in their lives growing up, or maybe he was physically present but abusive or absent emotionally, mentally, etc.

Best to find you a woman with a good head on her shoulders who doesn't lose interest when there's a balance of attention. It's all about time. If you are talking about being in love within a month then yeah you are doing too much. But 6 months, a year into the relationship? Love shouldn't be scaring her away.

A lot of people are being taught bullshyt in terms of relationships, and people are afraid to get hurt. So they hide their intentions, true feelings and aren't honest and transparent. A lot of women lose out on a good man like me because they fell for the matrix. Once a woman starts playing games I lose respect for her and my interest for her goes down. I don't even take her seriously after.
 

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