I think the biggest L in a relationship

[Dreamzeedream]

i went through something like this.. i had to let her go bruh. the relationship will never be same. an its gone kill you to see her stomach grow during the pregnancy.

bytch was pregnant a month after we broke up an dint tell me until 4 months later

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Wrong is wrong. The bond wasnt strong enough if you were in another womans bed.

Humans make mistakes. We're not jesus. :uhhuh:

I smashed a hardcore christian once, and the chick started crying a minute after we were done. I mean straight up balling, talking about "what have I done, I have sinned, lord this and that, I must repent, give me for my sins lord"

That shyt kinda freaked me out.

So yea, the bond was strong, just an error, maybe it was a bad break up and some terrible words were exchanged that lead to a drunken night. You took her back in the first place so there was something about her that you realized.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Humans make mistakes. We're not jesus. :uhhuh:

I smashed a hardcore christian once, and the chick started crying a minute after we were done. I mean straight up balling, talking about "what have I done, I have sinned, lord this and that, I must repent, give me for my sins lord"

That shyt kinda freaked me out.

So yea, the bond was strong, just an error, maybe it was a bad break up and some terrible words were exchanged that lead to a drunken night. You took her back in the first place so there was something about her that you realized.

It was so strong that you broke up and so strong she got impregnated by another man. Let her go friend. Shes not the one. Whats going to happen when you marry a woman like that. Happily ever after. Thats demonic simping. Lets avoid it.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

i went through something like this.. i had to let her go bruh. the relationship will never be same. an its gone kill you to see her stomach grow during the pregnancy.

bytch was pregnant a month after we broke up an dint tell me until 4 months later

so you were smashing while she was preggo with another man kid, you didn't know?

 

[Tommy Knocks]

It was so strong that you broke up and so strong she got impregnated by another man. Let her go friend. Shes not the one. Whats going to happen when you marry a woman like that. Happily ever after. Thats demonic simping. Lets avoid it.

You'd be surprised how many women have a jump off they've known for a few years that they go too when you treat them like shyt and break up temporarily.

I think men have a hard time realizing that women do the exact same thing we do, they're just better at shutting the fukk up about it, even their best friends have no idea sometimes. How many men here have been some chicks jump off, and you were getting it in because she was at your crib, seeking comfort? I bet every single one of yall. those stats indicate that chances of it having happened to you, is quite high.

What's funny about this thread, is that I've heard of this case in reverse more than a handful of times. I remember in HS 2 chicks were walking around with bumps by the same guy. In fact don't we have 2 chicks with bumps by one user right now?

 

[Reid2Achieve]

She's better off not even telling me...and going to the clinic and handling that














Of course, I would never force a woman to do this... I'm just sayin, telling me the truth here - while it would be noble - it will only ruin our reconciliation.

 

[flusterose]

Let's not front here and say we've never bare backed a chick before. It's not any different because it's a female.

and yes I know aids is a bigger L, but god damn nikkas, we're not talking about death here

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You won....this bytch not only slept with another dude in a month...but went raw and let him skeet in her?

GIFSoup

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Of course, I would never force a woman to do this... I'm just sayin, telling me the truth here - while it would be noble - it will only ruin our reconciliation.

Yup. I agree. I would feel sorry for her, and tell her I'd be there for moral support, but as far as a relationship....nah.

It's a bit of a double standard, because women would usually realize it was a mistake and stick by her dude, even tolerate the baby mother. I've seen in so many times.

but in reverse, nikkas are like we're territorial by nature. and that's a bad violation.

 

[Kenny West]

How is that an L. Sounds like a W to me. You thought she was the one for you but frivilously, she gave her body away in a months time, then came back to you with a another mans child in her stomach.

Seems like that should tell you everything you needed to know about that girl. All you need to know, TO LEAVE. Think of it as God opening your eyes not, you lost because a whore does what whores do, friend. Its so demonic, but hey, at least you were spared her wrath and now, sadly, shes another mans burden which is tragic.

Its so demonic, friend.

your reframe game on a bean. Definitely Mowgli esque

 

[Dreamzeedream]

so you were smashing while she was preggo with another man kid, you didn't know?

nah i wasnt smashing anymore breh, she was fukking around with the childs father an dint me an every time i did call to smash she always had an excuse as to why i couldn't an would only let me come over to chill(watch movies and shyt like that) but i never did. the only reason i dint know is because the first two months after we broke up was more of k.i.t so i dint see her again until after she told me she was pregnant

 

[Mr swag]

would be you and your gf, fiance, or wife, get into a fight, you break up or separate, no longer talk. After a month and a half you reconcile, realizing you both were meant for each other and deeply in love. BUT a couple of weeks go by and you notice she hasn't had her period. she takes a test, and finds out she's preggo. clearly not yours since you were absent for a month.

You knew she had a fling during your off period, you both did, but neither of you knew she was preggo.

technically speaking, she didn't cheat since you were off, she just made a mistake, maybe she was on the pill but it didnt work. Now you're stuck having to take care of a flings child. Every time you see the kid, you see that other nikkas face.

I can't think of a bigger L than that.

amirite?

coli brehs, how would you handle the situation? take care of someone elses child, or break up/divorce her? remember, you are both in love and it was just a mistake that happened, it could have happened in reverse, like the condom breaking when you were doing ya thing with your fling. You already tried to live without her, and couldn't that's why you're back together in the first place.

I think that's an L I just couldn't take. My heart holds on to grudges like crazy glue.

I'm not stuck doing shyt


I'm gone

 

[dc007]

Yup. I agree. I would feel sorry for her, and tell her I'd be there for moral support, but as far as a relationship....nah.

It's a bit of a double standard, because women would usually realize it was a mistake and stick by her dude, even tolerate the baby mother. I've seen in so many times.

but in reverse, nikkas are like we're territorial by nature. and that's a bad violation.

Don't be a simp bro...the world is filled with double standards.....bytch needs to be thrown in the bushes

 

[Mr. Somebody]

You'd be surprised how many women have a jump off they've known for a few years that they go too when you treat them like shyt and break up temporarily.

I think men have a hard time realizing that women do the exact same thing we do, they're just better at shutting the fukk up about it, even their best friends have no idea sometimes. How many men here have been some chicks jump off, and you were getting it in because she was at your crib, seeking comfort? I bet every single one of yall. those stats indicate that chances of it having happened to you, is quite high.

What's funny about this thread, is that I've heard of this case in reverse more than a handful of times. I remember in HS 2 chicks were walking around with bumps by the same guy. In fact don't we have 2 chicks with bumps by one user right now?

Nothings surprising in 2013 friend. Still, i cant live in fear of things that havnt happened. Any opportunity in life that reveals someone you trust as a demon in my opinion is a good thing and hopefully an experience that friends can grow from without becoming demons themselves.

But staying with a woman whos carrying another mans child in her stomach because you had a demonic interaction during a breakup makes no sense. Is that what you say *i deserve to take care of another mans child that my girl is having* because of what you did. No, you make it right with God friend, not that woman.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

your reframe game on a bean. Definitely Mowgli esque

I dont understand this slang, friend. Are you saying you liked my post If so thank you. If not, God bless you.

 

[dc007]

nah i wasnt smashing anymore breh, she was fukking around with the childs father an dint me an every time i did call to smash she always had an excuse as to why i couldn't an would only let me come over to chill(watch movies and shyt like that) but i never did. the only reason i dint know is because the first two months after we broke up was more of k.i.t so i dint see her again until after she told me she was pregnant

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