I think the biggest L in a relationship

[Johnny Kilroy]

I know somebody who went through that exact same situation. With his wife.

He raised the kid like it was his own and had a few more, but mang....

 

[Lavish]

this is definately not the biggest L

how bout marrying the girl...rasing the kid all his life...for ovefr 18 years...then finding out that he aint yours???

 

[Ohnoits]

Dat Matt Hardy L

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Nothings surprising in 2013 friend. Still, i cant live in fear of things that havnt happened. Any opportunity in life that reveals someone you trust as a demon in my opinion is a good thing and hopefully an experience that friends can grow from without becoming demons themselves.

But staying with a woman whos carrying another mans child in her stomach because you had a demonic interaction during a breakup makes no sense. Is that what you say *i deserve to take care of another mans child that my girl is having* because of what you did. No, you make it right with God friend, not that woman.

WWJD -- Forgive her. :uhhuh:

 

[dc007]

I know somebody who went through that exact same situation. With his wife.

He raised the kid like it was his own and had a few more, but mang....

I don't even know how a man could accept something like this....he must of thought he couldn't do any better.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

WWJD -- Forgive her. :uhhuh:

Forgiveness is different from carrying on a relationship. Scripture says one of the only grounds for divorce is for sexual immorality. Lets be better and listen to God even he says you should leave.

 

[Johnny Kilroy]

I don't even know how a man could accept something like this....he must of thought he couldn't do any better.

I ain't gon lie, dude has mad jumpoffs. But when he got deployed shorty was just fed up with him cheating all the time so she went out for that "revenge" fukk.

I guess he felt guilty.

Couldn't be me though. I honestly don't know what I would do in that situation.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

I know somebody who went through that exact same situation. With his wife.

He raised the kid like it was his own and had a few more, but mang....

pretty big L. esp if he was smashin while she was preggo.

this one chick on my block. who's black, had a kid with her then bf who was hispanic. they broke up but 4 years he took care of his seed, bought her things, paid child support.

she was in a relationship with another hispanic dude, turns out...that hispanic dude was the father the whole time. her now bf just randomly decided to do a dna test when they were having their child (I guess he didn't trust her since he was a jump off to begin with) only to find out her daughter was his. lol. shyt was fukking crazy. I bring up race because even her bf didn't know that was his child. He couldnt tell LOL

In a way the other dude won because he escaped without a child, but at the same time, damn imagine what your family must think. Your mom, all that, you just find out one day that little child yall cared and loved wasn't yours to begin with.

He disappeared never to be seen again. He prolly moved out the state after that ordeal.

 

[opulence]

these people are being so unrealistic...you can never tell what you would do until you are in a situation...

they both did the exact same thing except she got pregnant...I wonder how many people would respond differently if it was the man who got the fling pregnant?

if you both feel that you love each other and cannot live without one another give it a shot...two people can work through anything if they are determined...but one advice I could give a guy that is thinking about continuing with his woman after going through this situation...is leave other peoples opinion out of this...people will cloud your mind with negative thoughts...

 

[opulence]

Forgiveness is different from carrying on a relationship. Scripture says one of the only grounds for divorce is for sexual immorality. Lets be better and listen to God even he says you should leave.

you know I seriously hope you are joking with your post...you take that demonic stuff too far...

 

[Luchini]

If a guy I was in love and I felt like I couldn't live without him got another woman pregnant, I'd still be with him

 

[Mr. Somebody]

you know I seriously hope you are joking with your post...you take that demonic stuff too far...

Whats so funny about a woman getting impregnated by another man and then coming back to you with puppy dog eyes saying i miss you like Aaron Hall, friend.


Would that work on you if the situation was in reverse? Would you find that funny. I can say i wouldnt find it amusing.

We can forgive and say hey, i forgive you, i harbor no hate in my heart for you and i wish you the best like blowing out birthday candles but that doesnt mean we deserve to be with that individual or should. Why does this not make sense to you, friend? Still, its your world and obviously friend will do what they want to do but theres a formula to this and relationships set on demonic foundations, tend to rot. Im just a man though so what do i know, just whats in the Bible.

 

[dc007]

these people are being so unrealistic...you can never tell what you would do until you are in a situation...

they both did the exact same thing except she got pregnant...I wonder how many people would respond differently if it was the man who got the fling pregnant?

if you both feel that you love each other and cannot live without one another give it a shot...two people can work through anything if they are determined...but one advice I could give a guy that is thinking about continuing with his woman after going through this situation...is leave other peoples opinion out of this...people will cloud your mind with negative thoughts...

The reality of the situation is that often times women are more forgiving than men are. Its nothing unrealistic in knowing you not going to take a woman back after she got preggo by another man....its called common sense.

This isn't simple cheating (which I still wouldn't advise taking her back) This is a child. This other man will theoretically be in the picture the rest of their life. There is no getting over it, no moving forward because it is in your face forever. Your woman's body is being used up and possibly downgraded over a seed that isn't even biologically yours. Even as a woman, u have to see the error in this.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

If a guy I was in love and I felt like I couldn't live without him got another woman pregnant, I'd still be with him

you women need to stop being so forgiving, I bet you'd dress the child, feed her/him like it were your very own. take pictures and have it all up in your albums too.

but men wouldn't do this, they'd feel like their woman was violated, and they'd feel betrayed. they'd leave you in the cold and never turn back. no way is he taking care of another man seeds, some random ass nikka that just violated his womans guts for kicks and giggles. now you got that nikkas kids all up in yall bed, eating his cereal and shyt.

might as well have clone the actual nikka (mini style) and gave him the keys to the house.

 

[MikelArteta]

If a guy I was in love and I felt like I couldn't live without him got another woman pregnant, I'd still be with him

because your a female the odds are the kid will be raised by the mom, and the odds are your guy will still be getting that baby momma puzzy on the side enjoy.