"I told him im not ready for a relationship and he just....BLOCKED me. No pressure applied"

Bondye Vodou

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bytch wants the attention, not the man.

Plus she's mad he beat her at her own game.
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I disagree with this.

I block every ex that I had a bad break with.

Not cuz i'm hurt, but because its just easier to move on. No "lets talk" text, no "hey i'm sorry wyd?"

Blocking someone doesn't always mean they hurt you. It often means you are just done with that part of your life and you moving on. :yeshrug:



Even now that i'm married, none of my exes can contact me. Doesn't mean i'm mad lol :mjlol:

It seems like blocking has always had a 50/50 debate on whether it makes sense to do so or not after the end of the relationship. I believe in blocking and ghosting because I know how ruthless these women can be outchea. So I keep the same energy. But really the reason why I block is because I don't want to fall into the temptation of her baiting me with a text and me replying back. If I take my ball and go home, I dont want to give her no inkling that she can find the ball and take it back. Any conversations with an ex after the relationship is over is all about massaging her ego, and I aint got time for that.
 

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I disagree with this.

I block every ex that I had a bad break with.

Not cuz i'm hurt, but because its just easier to move on. No "lets talk" text, no "hey i'm sorry wyd?"

Blocking someone doesn't always mean they hurt you. It often means you are just done with that part of your life and you moving on. :yeshrug:



Even now that i'm married, none of my exes can contact me. Doesn't mean i'm mad lol :mjlol:
I definitely agree with this. I don't keep in contact with my exes at all. It's much easier to not be in contact. It's only drama most of the time when you do. Plus if she ain't giving me the p*ssy anymore wtf I look like listening to all the BS in her life. :mjlol:
 

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You blocking your homie when yall fall out?
You blocking an employer after you quit or get fired?
You blocking telemarketers when they call?
You blocking a recruiter from a job you're no longer interested in?
fukk yes. I have & will continue to do so as i see fit :gucci:

fukk that ignore & leave on 'read' b.s. Just don't bother me by sending multiple 'get back' messages.

Some of us prefer immediate peace of mind. Not 'hehe, I'm gonna let these messages pile up then delete'
 
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She's a 49er. I don't get how these average broads think they can play games like they are dimes? :gucci: Social media keeps a lot women single. :francis:

there are a bunch of lames in her comments or DMs most likely tellin her that she's a dime tho. Men have helped warped women's sense of entitlement too
 

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This is once again, why I say people need to care for their NEEDS before dating.

She is playing hand games in an attempt to get attention and validation.

Only somebody as broken or codependent as she is will waste energy on this type of shyt. She needs to work on answering why she MUST have drama or chase to feel validated in a good relationship.
You know what I was having a similar convo with a female. Basically about why her life is always filled with drama.

We are taught not to let negative thoughts enter as it can linger & affect how you move.

But at the same time a big portion of men & women watch these reality shows filled with nothing but drama as if it’s real.

Same with always entertaining social media posts (IG/FB) with nothing but drama.

At some point that stuff has to affect how you perceive people. Which in turn will have you with an attitude when one isn’t needed.


Rant over :russ:
 
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