I took a Big L last night breh !

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um....so whats the deal with her BD? please provide better details. this thread has potential, but without the details, you're looking at 1 star.

They're divorced now because he was too violent and etc..., she has two daughters with him, they know me and are very cool with me, his ex probably knew she was seeing someone at this point. I only go at her place when her kids are with him on the weekend. His ex has a construction company, and he's physically not intimidating from i saw on his facebook profile. That's all i know. They're in bad blood, but i didn't know it was that serious, he called her whore, prostitute, the children probably heard all that, i was like damn
 

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You were real with yourself, and you were real about the situation. Seems like a W to me.
exactly why i respect slim jesus.
There is nothing worse than expectation. TOugh guy or not, the expectation to protect her and yourself is too great.

I get being the so called "alpha male" but to keep it 100%, most of the dudes who are gonna stick around are gonna be crazy by the end themselves especially if she leaves you. You done fought her fights for her, and she may not even appreciate that.
 

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The smart thing to do is to get away. You're not the police so it's not your responsibility. If you're single and very young, you have no reason to be sticking that situation anyway.

Still though, you could be handed 1 L for being afraid to protect your partner and allowing her to feel as if she wouldnt be safe, even with you there.

If you not sure about your fighting skills, then you should get a gun and not be afraid to use it. If that guy came to your house, it would be you first, and then her.

If that guy came with a gun to her house, remember that the cops are only 40 minutes away.

Of course this is all assumming you decide to stay which I dont advise you do.
 
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Aight, is the chick worth any of this? Is she exceptional? If not find another chick.

If she is exceptional then bring her to your crib and tell her you dont want no issues keep all that drama out your house. And clip up!

Exceptional nah, but i don't know, i'm just feeling comfortable with her, and she treat me very good, something i would miss if i'm walking now. I'll wait to see what happens,
 
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