I took a Big L last night breh !

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The smart thing to do is to get away. You're not the police so it's not your responsibility. If you're single and very young, you have no reason to be sticking that situation anyway.

Still though, you could be handed 1 L for being afraid to protect your partner and allowing her to feel as if she wouldnt be safe, even with you there.

If you not sure about your fighting skills, then you should get a gun and not be afraid to use it. If that guy came to your house, it would be you first, and then her.

If that guy came with a gun to her house, remember that the cops are only 40 minutes away.

Of course this is all assumming you decide to stay which I dont advise you do.

I'm not going back to this situation, and i think she know she messed up when she told me to pick up the phone, you know damn well it could be your ex, why did you ask me to pick up the phone:francis: i told her to change her number or to get a restraining order, cause i won't be able to protect her:yeshrug:. I never been in a fight in my life and i don't want to, my best option is to walk away, i'll wait to see what happened, if things start to get serious, i'm out
 

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You didn't take an L.....yet. You will take an L if you plan to see her again and don't have that tool with you. That nikka gon be in the bushes wearin camouflage. If you're afraid of him, leave her alone.
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You saved yourself a lot of anxiety...even if you started a relationship he probably was gonna still hit when you weren't around cuz she is afraid of duke and still turned on enough to take his calls
 
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You saved yourself a lot of anxiety...even if you started a relationship he probably was gonna still hit when you weren't around cuz she is afraid of duke and still turned on enough to take his calls

True tho, she's too scared to do anything besides threatening to call the cops, if homie was beaten you before you could get a restraining order, but he knows she ain't going to do shyt about it, i didn't saw it that way.
 

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The thing about it is this: sure you could get a gun and plan to shoot dude. So you murk him. Then you live happily ever after? Her kids watch you splat they pops? Are you going to raise them, then?

You miss ol dude and strike the old lady across the street with a stray?

One of the kids gets hurt in the crossfire?

Your girl gets hit?

The main problem here is that you are gonna be with a different single mom this time next year. So you do all this Dirty Harry shyt then dip on her eventually.

No worth the hassle just to fukc for half a year.
 
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The thing about it is this: sure you could get a gun and plan to shoot dude. So you murk him. Then you live happily ever after? Her kids watch you splat they pops? Are you going to raise them, then?

You miss ol dude and strike the old lady across the street with a stray?

One of the kids gets hurt in the crossfire?

Your girl gets hit?

The main problem here is that you are gonna be with a different single mom this time next year. So you do all this Dirty Harry shyt then dip on her eventually.

No worth the hassle just to fukc for half a year.

I know breh, i wasn't going do anything anyway, it doesn't worth my time, i take a big L for catching feeling, i'm simping for too much headache breh
 

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i told her to change her number or to get a restraining order, cause i won't be able to protect her:yeshrug:. I never been in a fight in my life and i don't want to, my best option is to walk away, i'll wait to see what happened, if things start to get serious, i'm out

Yep and that's the smart mindset. You don't need to get involved in anyone else fukkery that will get you killed and her ex locked up while she moves on to another man. Even martial arts teachers tell you that the best way to win a fight is to not get into one in the first place.

Still though, for the future you might wanna be more confident in your abilities to protect yourself and your girl even I'd you've never been in a fight. Grab that gun or take a couple of self defenses classes or something. You gotta have something because the sharks can sense this and make you a target just like he makes that girl a target because he knows he can get away with it. Your third option is a guard dog and your fourth a security guard.

And always lie to your woman about you being able to protect her even if you were left without both legs and were paralyzed.

Women really don't like feeling unsafe.


But yes I'm glad you're leaving. Stay safe breh. :salute:
 
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Yep and that's the smart mindset. You don't need to get involved in anyone else fukkery that will get you killed and her ex locked up while she moves on to another man. Even martial arts teachers tell you that the best way to win a fight is to not get into one in the first place.

Still though, for the future you might wanna be more confident in your abilities to protect yourself and your girl even I'd you've never been in a fight. Grab that gun or take a couple of self defenses classes or something. You gotta have something because the sharks can sense this and make you a target just like he makes that girl a target because he knows he can get away with it. Your third option is a guard dog and your fourth a security guard.

And always lie to your woman about you being able to protect her even if you were left without both legs and were paralyzed.

Women really don't like feeling unsafe.


But yes I'm glad you're leaving. Stay safe breh. :salute:

It's more that i was caught off guard, i didn't know what i was getting myself into and how to react, i didn't have experience with bullshyt like this, none of my ex was in this type of situation, none of them were single mothers, but i guess you learn with experience, you never think that shyt can happen to you until it happen.
 

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Honestly, you probably did the right thing.





Being a scary nikka and dating single mothers is like setting yourself up for failure
Yeah, don't let all the false rap music fool you. A Real nikka is one who knows themselves and keeps it real with themselves. If you ain't about it then you did the best thing to get up out that situation.

dude didn't even violate. He kept it 100. Said are you ready to die for this p*ssy because I am :huhldup:
 
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