I Used To Not Like People Being Intimidated By Me At Work, But Now I Embrace It

[Double Burger With Cheese]

First off, I wanna give a shout out to white people. Man y’all are something else. Y’all fools never cease to amaze me with y’all underhanded passive/aggressive antics.

But yeah these fools be hating on the kid. I use to be like wtf did I do. Then I started finding out people was intimidated by me. But I was like for what tho? But the answer is cause I’m black, vocal, opinionated, and good at my job. Somebody told me my height plays a factor too. But I used to resent that shyt. I didn’t want people to be intimidated by me. I’m just a regular breh trying to do a good job and grow my career like everyone else.

And that shyt is cool, as long as you a docile ass nikka. Anything other than that and these folks start getting nervous or some shyt. In the last year I’ve had upper management sabotage THREE internal jobs I was recommend for, try and throw me under the bus several times and flat out lie on me. Lucky for me, I’m a real ass nikka that does good work and be calling out the bullshyt. Don’t even think they trying to get me up outta here or nothing. Just that they don’t wanna see a black man come up.


So I just been embracing this shyt. My bosses boss dosent talk to me anymore. I told my boss to tell that cracka to send messages through a third party cause I may end up choking that hoe. They obliged. I been asking sarcastic ass questions in strategy meetings. I been walking up on mothafukkas real close, getting all in they personal space to the point I know they uncomfortable and will hold a conversation. “Accidentally” bumped into this bytch the other day and made her drop her coffee. Been talking militant/pro black shyt with a few people at the job on Skype. Everybody sacred and intimidated of me so I’m about to take advantage. I got other scary ass black folks pulling me to the side like taking about they nervous for me and I’m too outspoken. If they don’t like it or can’t handle it, they can fire me

High key this shyt actually fun as hell g. Especially once I realized I’m not easily replaceable and they need me

 

[Unknown Poster]

Not even at work but I dont want to be liked all the time. I like to be feared and respected. When people see you as a smiling negro all the time they take advantage of you. They need something to be weary of so they can know not to fukk with you.

 

[...and some waffle fries]

I seen this movie before. Them cacs bout to get you on up outta there. You think its one way but its really the other.

This nikka said they "need me". A job full of cacs nikka you the most expendable one.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

I seen this movie before. Them cacs bout to get you on up outta there. You think its one way but its really the other.

This nikka said they "need me". A job full of cacs nikka you the most expendable one.

You sound like the type of nikka that turn your rap music down when white people come around.

They need me in the sense that I’m not quickly and easily replaceable. I work out of a financial system that only a few companies in Atlanta use and only 2 other people at my bank use. So they would have a small candidate pool, take a long time to train someone, or would have to alter the process if I were to leave. In a job full of cacs I’m not the most expendable. That falls in the category of nikkas on the internet saying shyt just to be saying it.

Also, yeah nikka I said if they don’t like it fire me. What you think I’m gon cry? I’ll be straight. But they would have been did that if they didn’t need me. Trust that they don’t like me walking around here on the shyt I’m on. I got some money saved up. They can fire me if they don’t like it. I ain’t quitting. Real nikkas not fukking up they unemployment

 

[Exlurkernegro]

Dont let the coli hype you up breh.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

Dont let the coli hype you up breh.

I don’t get it. I’m not looking for courage smh. I’m sharing an evolution in mindframe about people being intimidated by me at work. And I explained a little background and what’s going on.

nikka I’m the inspiration, not the other way around. My come up in the professional world been an open book on this site

 

[...and some waffle fries]

You sound like the type of nikka that turn your rap music down when white people come around.

They need me in the sense that I’m not quickly and easily replaceable. I work out of a financial system that only a few companies in Atlanta use and only 2 other people at my bank use. So they would have a small candidate pool, take a long time to train someone, or would have to alter the process if I were to leave. In a job full of cacs I’m not the most expendable. That falls in the category of nikkas on the internet saying shyt just to be saying it.

Also, yeah nikka I said if they don’t like it fire me. What you think I’m gon cry? I’ll be straight. But they would have been did that if they didn’t need me. Trust that they don’t like me walking around here on the shyt I’m on. I got some money saved up. They can fire me if they don’t like it. I ain’t quitting. Real nikkas not fukking up they unemployment

Im my own boss. I dont work for cacs.

You in here trying to talk all that big boy shyt but you looking like a clown really. You still clockin in for cacs that show contempt for you everyday.

How you trying to be militant but on the clock.

Get your money. Go home. Simple.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

Im my own boss. I dont work for cacs.

You in here trying to talk all that big boy shyt but you looking like a clown really. You still clockin in for cacs that show contempt for you everyday.

How you trying to be militant but on the clock.

Get your money. Go home. Simple.

My nikka I will spit in your daughters face and beat ya ass if you get mad about the shyt. You on here calling nikkas clowns and shyt. Once you get to name calling we not having no productive conversation. Congrats on being an entrepreneur fakkit. Me working for someone don’t have shyt to do with my pro blackness. One thing about he shyt is I don’t lie on here. Anybody can pull up and verify how militant I am or how ignorant I am in real life.

 

[At30wecashout]

Get shot in your workplace parking lot because you enjoy intimidating workerbees whicha mark ass, brehs.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

Get shot in your workplace parking lot because you enjoy intimidating workerbees whicha mark ass, brehs.

I do enjoy intimidating cacs. I can’t even lie.

 

[Deuterion]

You will reach true transcendence when you stop giving a fukk about them period. You are letting them change your behavior and so they are winning whether you realize it or not. I’m usually the only Black person in a room and they play their little games and I let them know IDGAF by not playing into it.

If you want to test my ability I will go toe to toe with you and not flinch and not for one second let their insecurities have any impact on me. The mistake you are making is you are playing into the stereotypes they hold, so basically you’re reinforcing their pre-conceived notions.

Remember, the opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference. You are showing contempt and you are just adding more negative energy into the situation. You just need to remove your energy period and focus on your work...you are basically giving them a paper trail they can use to bounce your ass out.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

You will reach true transcendence when you stop giving a fukk about them period. You are letting them change your behavior and so they are winning whether you realize it or not. I’m usually the only Black person in a room and they play their little games and I let them know IDGAF by not playing into it.

If you want to test my ability I will go toe to toe with you and not flinch and not for one second let their insecurities have any impact on me. The mistake you are making is you are playing into the stereotypes they hold, so basically you’re reinforcing their pre-conceived notions.

Remember, the opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference. You are showing discontempt and you are just adding more negative energy into the situation. You just need to remove your energy period and focus on your work...you are basically giving them a paper trail they can use to bounce your ass out.

Yeah you right. That’s the thing though, I don’t care if I get fired. I was already looking but focused my search internally cause I had a network. But my direct boss let me know that her boss was fukking me over on some hating shyt cause she was intimidated by me. That shyt fukked me up cause I was like what the hell I do to her. I got recommended for 3 jobs in 6 months and 2 of them were lay ups, but for some reason I didn’t get them. Come to find out it was this lady. So these mothafukkas blocking my career growth. So fukk em.

I been knew these folks didn’t fukk with me like that just cause I’m an outspoken black man. But once that shyt affected my money and opportunities, I been on some fukk it shyt. Just been habitually line stepping and fukking with these folks like they do me.

Thing is, when you don’t give a fukk about the consequences, you can do what you want. Like I said in an earlier post, I got some bread saved up and am currently taking a Six Sigma certification course and about to take some script writing certs after that. So I’m just working on my technical skills and stacking bread. My bank is going through a merger so it’s a lot of uncertainty about everyone’s future. It is what it is. If they don’t like it they can fire me