“I want my daughters to date outside their race so there’s less of a chance of them becoming single mothers.”

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Black women have been expressing frustration with some black men’s lack of commitment to parenting to the point dating out may be an option for some women and people act so confused.

Now a black man is saying it and I find that interesting how he feels about his fellow brothers and their parenting efforts.
 

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I think a better approach is teaching them to find family oriented men, dating outside your race, while it’ll make your dating pool larger, isn’t a cheat code because she could easily just become a single mother with mixed kids lol.

Exactly. You don’t hear Mexicans teaching their daughters to date outside their race and they manage to find family oriented men.

This guy is a stone cold c00n who should be laughed out of the room
 

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All of this. But also you mentioned another escapism: Same-sex relationships. Imagine thinking these issues will magically disappear if gender was removed.
Meanwhile, a lot of gay relationships have higher rates of domestic violence than regular ones. :mjlol:

There’s nowhere you can go to escape yourself. If you toxic, weird, awkward, just insufferable to deal with, sure you can find an enterprising non-Blk person willing to take advantage of ur silly ass. But you’ll just end up repeating the same ole shyt over again in a different color. There are plenty of white chicks raising biracial babies that got left by blk dudes who thought PAWGs would be better than them ole evil, hairhat Jezebels.
There’s blk women raising beige babies by Zaddies who left them knocked up too.
So why do we give whites passes?
We have a subset of black people with the "white people can't do no wrong" mentality. :beli: nikkas consume too much negativity about their race on social media and television. Some of our people are lost in self-hatred.
 

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What an ignorant ass thing to say! Yes, it is a fukked up thing to say plus it is an extremely offensive and insulting thing to think and say!

If this person is so concerned about his/her daughter not becoming single mothers, then said person need to start by getting his/her mind right! Then, properly raise his/her daughters to make good decisions along with preparing said daughters to become wives!

I don't think there is anything wrong with being open minded when it comes to choosing a potential spouse, but avoiding a specific group of people based off of some weird ass beliefs isn't a guarantee that his/her daughters will have a favorable outcome! Single parenthood comes in all shapes, sizes and colors...

Lastly, once a child becomes an adult, said person can choose whoever they want to be with and have children with whoever they want to have children with. That being said, some children revel sgsijst their parents wishes and don't he exact opposite of what a parent want the child to do, so hopefully whoever made this ignorant comment will take heed and keep that in mind...

Smh..
 

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Let's not act like there isn't a significant portion of black males who are aversive to marriage and family building now. :comeon:
No one is saying the opposite.

The issue is a black man telling the world “his followers” the race of the man he would rather impregnate his daughters. All under the guise of “nikkas ain’t shyt.” Is he a fakkit or something?

If my husband ever said some shyt like that I’d file for divorce. No way am I submitting to a man who hates himself.
 

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Black women have been expressing frustration with some black men’s lack of commitment to parenting to the point dating out may be an option for some women and people act so confused.

Now a black man is saying it and I find that interesting how he feels about his fellow brothers and their parenting efforts.
I have seen that sentiment online more and more to the point where I have heard it in real life but dead beat father is something that can happen in any race though?
 
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