All of this. But also you mentioned another escapism: Same-sex relationships. Imagine thinking these issues will magically disappear if gender was removed.
Meanwhile, a lot of gay relationships have higher rates of domestic violence than regular ones.
There’s nowhere you can go to escape yourself. If you toxic, weird, awkward, just insufferable to deal with, sure you can find an enterprising non-Blk person willing to take advantage of ur silly ass. But you’ll just end up repeating the same ole shyt over again in a different color. There are plenty of white chicks raising biracial babies that got left by blk dudes who thought PAWGs would be better than them ole evil, hairhat Jezebels.
There’s blk women raising beige babies by Zaddies who left them knocked up too.
So why do we give whites passes?