I was banging badder chicks when I was broke :(

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I'm 31 now looking back at my mid 20's I was banging badder chicks on the regular when I was making about $16,000 a year. I know youth plays a big part in this but man it really puts things in perspective...

You will bang WAY hotter chicks in your mid 20's for $0.00
Than you will in your 30's when everything has some type of a cost (dates, drinks, etc)

I'm wondering if it's anyway possible I can get back to the stuff I was doing when I was in my mid 20's without setting myself back mentally...

OP gone be the old nikka in the club nobody want there. Lol. You're in your 30s now. Supposed to be done with your ho phase, settled into a job with (if not already your wife) a prospect wife to settle down with.
 

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I'm 31 now looking back at my mid 20's I was banging badder chicks on the regular when I was making about $16,000 a year. I know youth plays a big part in this but man it really puts things in perspective...

You will bang WAY hotter chicks in your mid 20's for $0.00
Than you will in your 30's when everything has some type of a cost (dates, drinks, etc)

I'm wondering if it's anyway possible I can get back to the stuff I was doing when I was in my mid 20's without setting myself back mentally...

Negative.

Being mid-30's, attractive, in-shape, successful, single, with no ex-wives or kids.... It's like playing on God mode, I literally cannot lose.
 

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Bruh I want to keep my wisdom and knowledge yet some way recapture whatever it was that I possessed that allowed me to bang HIGH LEVEL chicks with ZERO INVESTMENT...

It sounds like you were ahead of the curve and you've regressed. It sounds like (I could be wrong) you were young and naive and didn't know you were supposed to give a fucc, which probably came off as confident indifference, which women find irresistable. Now that you're older you're more cognizant of the "dating game" and abiding by it's rules, which can be limiting. My advice, go back to a place mentally where you don't give a fucc and the pusc will line itself up for you. :tu:

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get your mind right breh. there's something you did naturally when you were younger and now that you "grew up" you allowed society to convince you it's not the way to be. what you probably possessed back then was indifference. you probably "care" more now then you did back then. could be that you cared about the outcome, care that she'll never speak to you again, that you'll blow your chance with her forever, that your rep will take a hit? whatever it is, back then you didn't care as much. when people sense you care about something they see a key into controlling you. they'll sense they can get away with charging you more for what you want and sometimes without delivering what you want. they test to see how far they can take it.

U beat me to it. Great minds think alike.
 

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maybe the qualities you want in a woman is different now than when you were 21. When you were that young a chick could be unemployed with 4 kids but if she was hot you'd still want to bang, now that you're 31, you want a chick with things in order nad less drama

or maybe i'm just speaking ofr myself :sas2:
 

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All this "get back to your mindstate" stuff is BS. When the moment is gone it is gone, that chapter is a wrap. 50 Cent can't get back into GRODT mode, Wayne can't go back to 2007, Kobe can't get back to 2001 or whatever.

The key is figuring out what's going to make you hot with the young ladies in 2014 as a man in his 30's. The game is different and the player is different, you must adapt and evolve.

Looking back won't help you move forward.

Oh and lastly, you shouldn't be tripping that you have to drop more money as you get older. That's just the game, you should be able to afford it. I'm not saying trick & simp but having more money is the old nikka advantage.
 

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All this "get back to your mindstate" stuff is BS. When the moment is gone it is gone, that chapter is a wrap. 50 Cent can't get back into GRODT mode, Wayne can't go back to 2007, Kobe can't get back to 2001 or whatever.

The key is figuring out what's going to make you hot with the young ladies in 2014 as a man in his 30's. The game is different and the player is different, you must adapt and evolve.

Looking back won't help you move forward.

Oh and lastly, you shouldn't be tripping that you have to drop more money as you get older. That's just the game, you should be able to afford it. I'm not saying trick & simp but having more money is the old nikka advantage.
Thanks everyone for all your input...

One thing that I could CLEARLY remember bring different about me was I would come by women's houses WITH little or no notice...
I don't know what that was about but if I was in the neighborhood I was coming thru...

If a chick was home I'm coming over...
Again I don't even know why I was doing that but it was later in life when I realized it was "rude"...
 

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Negative.

Being mid-30's, attractive, in-shape, successful, single, with no ex-wives or kids.... It's like playing on God mode, I literally cannot lose.

I'm feeling this shyt at 26 already. I'm invincible with these hos. :wow:
 

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I'm feeling this shyt at 26 already. I'm invincible with these hos. :wow:

Dog you should see the moves I'm pulling on this instagram model I used to work with. I'm in WA and she's in CO on a business trip and literally begging me to come up there to fukk her right now. Imma see if I can get nudes first. She's got a man n shyt but he's got 3 kids. Too easy.
 

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You tolerate less BS when you get older. People can understand a broke 21 yr old but a broke 31 yr old is a really bad look....either way it has something to do wth age and what people want or don't want.
 

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I'm 31 now looking back at my mid 20's I was banging badder chicks on the regular when I was making about $16,000 a year. I know youth plays a big part in this but man it really puts things in perspective...

You will bang WAY hotter chicks in your mid 20's for $0.00
Than you will in your 30's when everything has some type of a cost (dates, drinks, etc)

I'm wondering if it's anyway possible I can get back to the stuff I was doing when I was in my mid 20's without setting myself back mentally...


how old are you now? I guessing mid 30's or some shyt


you're older, more :fif: good looking chicks want nothing to do with that breh, you go to move on because nothing will change that. This "get in the right mind" is bullshyt, when you lose the looks and youth you lose it forever
 

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depends where u live and the environment u around

some women in certain areas of the cities love broke dudes they can control and mold, where in other areas u better have your shyt together cause these chicks do background checks and credit checks to make sure u can fukk with them.
 
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