Plane rides are terrible outside of business class, clothes and shoes almost never in your size especially if you have size, constantly bumping your head hard on shyt, uncomfortable in cars and shyt, etc... but it is what it is.
Not sure how old you are, but I feel like a lot of this is doofy stuff that uncoordinated teenagers go through. I can't remember the last time I bumped my head on anything or the last time I wasn't able to finagle some room in a car man. I feel like the clothes thing is only a problem for teenagers too. More below...
it's not as great as nikkas think it is.
Like I've said on here before it has it's has it's ups and downs
But I was just at the galleria going from store to store to find shyt my size for 2 hours
90% of the time, that "trendy" shyt ends up looking silly and try hard, so it's not that big a deal if you can't fit into some off-the-rack stuff man.
I heard this interview with Rick Fox where he was like, "yea, I used to try and dress a certain way and pull of certain fits but that's
just not how I'm built." A lightbulb went off in my head, like, this handsome dude who could pull any girl recognized that he wasn't built like other cats and had to truly embrace who he was. I've been on that ever since. I'm not built like other nikkas and I
love that shyt.
Truly. I began looking for other folks like models, athletes, professional wrestlers, etc. who aren't built like "their kind" and modeled my swagger after them until I developed my own.
I realized that while some goofy trendy shirt may fit a 6'0" friend of mine, he has nothing on...
or a nikka like Badr Hari, towering over folks dressed to kill...
or...
I had a bad case of social anxiety from ages 14-18 relating to my height
I hated standing out in public, I'm already a pretty introvert person.
Luckily I outgrew it in college.
I feel like a lot of big dudes
don't truly embrace their size because they were made to feel a certain way throughout middle school and high school. Like, "oh my god, he's sooooo tall." And during that time, cats feel awkward about the attention they get
unless it is positive. So if you a tall, thin, and handsome dude who plays basketball, it works out for you during those years (and even then it can be shaky). But if you a little goofy or a little unsure of yourself or a little thick or a little too thin and gangly or whatever else, it feels awkward as shyt.
Just end up seeing a lot of big dudes who keep that goofy demeanor throughout their adult life (to avoid intimidating people) or who are never quite comfortable with themselves and kind of fukk up because of it.
Being a big dude is the shyt, but you gotta be on point to make it work. If you some goofy dude who lacks confidence, it looks 10x worse if you're 6'6". But if you in the gym, dressed right, confidence and all that, you absolutely stand out more.
Lot of dudes get stuck in that, "I just want to fit in" nonsense and try to wear what other nikkas wear and act like other nikkas act.
You just absolutely cannot do that shyt.
Being in shape, in the gym, coordinated, well dressed probably means more to big dudes than anyone else. nikkas could be out here looking like...
It's a grass is greener thing, two of my close friends are 5'10
I used to evny their heights and builds because we were really into japanese streetwear and shoes in high school
but almost none of the shyt could fit me, bape/neighborhood/mastermind/commesdesgarcon, and searching for size 14 shoes was a nightmare.
The clothes would just fit them so live, I was never a slouch when it came to dressing, but I wasn't able to pull off the fits like they could.
If you not tall just be a well dressed fly nikka, it's balances out.
Ahhh seee, I knew it.