I wish relationships could be like the first few months all the time...

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

This is the 'Hard Work' that is required to maintain a relationship. If you really want it to last, you'll WORK through it.

To be sure, there are some things you won't be able to work through, but, for the most part, the stuff most people argue about is minute.

Every couple goes through it.​

 

[Ooh Marty]

those first 2 -3 months (sometimes a bit longer) ........i think i may just start getting in 2-3 month relationships then toss them in the bushes as soon as they get to bickerin

if the person refuse to work it out and get pass it then i can't help but cosign this notion

i remember during our first few arguments, we got over it quickly.

Half the time i don't even know what we beefin over...shyts stressful.

 

[Ooh Marty]

It's only great cause it's meaningless and superficial.

why u say that?

This is the 'Hard Work' that is required to maintain a relationship. If you really want it to last, you'll WORK through it.

To be sure, there are some things you won't be able to work through, but, for the most part, the stuff most people argue about is minute.

Every couple goes through it.​

Sometimes people can be stubborn though.

 

[King Theo]

if the person refuse to work it out and get past it then i can't help but cosign this notion

i remember during our first few arguments, we got over it quickly.

Half the time i don't even know what we beefin over...shyts stressful.

i dont think its the arguments that are stressful. that shyt happens then you get over it and they start to dwindle down but they don't stop (obviously) but the part i don't like is how the attraction fades away because your so used to it. the hard part is keeping the attraction and showing that affection. at least thats what it is for me at least towards me

 

[Ooh Marty]

i dont think its the arguments that are stressful. that shyt happens then you get over it and they start to dwindle down but they don't stop (obviously) but the part i don't like is how the attraction fades away because your so used to it. the hard part is keeping the attraction and showing that affection. at least thats what it is for me at least towards me

well the attraction is still there on both ends.

I still can't keep my hands off his sexy ass but damn the shyt we gotta go thru b4 we even make up...

 

[hustlemania]

honeymoon stage never last in any relationship..

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Sometimes people can be stubborn though.

Sometimes, it's okay to be stubborn but learn to compromise.

Takes more energy to stay upset over minor things.
​

 

[Numpsay]

Making it pass that "honeymoon" stage takes quite a bit of maturity. Not everybody is built to be able to handle that. Some are convinced if things aren't the same as they were from jump then it ain't working, and they'd rather bail that put in some effort.

 

[ottorocket]

 

[Ooh Marty]

I want that old thang back brehs

 

[The_Sheff]

Nope, thats when you still frontin. nikkas still turning into Mr. Clean before a chick come over in the beginning. A couple months later your girl will come over with your shyt a mess and help you clean it up.

 

[Ooh Marty]

My favorite weekenders character

 

[Broad Street Bully]

Nope, thats when you still frontin. nikkas still turning into Mr. Clean before a chick come over in the beginning. A couple months later your girl will come over with your shyt a mess and help you clean it up.

real shyt doe lol

 

[MikelArteta]

Ah the honeymoon probation period, just like you being a manager and hiring someone, getting sucked into their great resume, wow a great addition to the team , the employee can't wait to start can't wait to make it official . Your shocked as you come in early and there is the employee always on time and staying extra late if they have to, attentive, hard working, just a great hire. Wow you never had a employee like this before you say .
Then the probation stamp is removed and that great employee is strolling in when they want too, surfing YouTube half of the day, calling in sick, taking extra breaks and lunches.

The cracks start to show and you realized you've been had.

 

[MikelArteta]

It was a mirage.

I want that old thang back brehs