"I'd rather live 25 Years and Have Everything I Want Than Struggle for 70"

[GrindtooFilthy]

She speaks on young black men/boys who would rather rob, scam, sell drugs and kill for money and make hundreds/ a few thousand dollars a day than work a legal career because it's "slower" and "boring". The way she's saying it, it's pretty much "What can I tell them to possibly change their mindset"?

The reality of it is too many black men are caught up in this weird glorification of "being real" and take extremely great risks for short term rewards. It's truly backwards and embarrassing. The mentality is a good 50 years strong now and realistically isn't going anywhere anytime soon. What's almost as bad as that mentality is people like the one in the video. From the way she's talking it almost feels like she agrees with them and trying to make an excuse for them.

You doing too much bro she never mention about being real or any of that bs street nonsense, she made a clear a concise point this boils down to money and finances. nothing else

 

[Stuntone]

You sound dumb as hell blaming single mothers
The men not supporting their children.
If there isn't a male figure father, brother, uncle
the child will be a victim of that burden most times
as a man you chose to impregnate that thot gotta figure shyt out

Spoken like a fatherless child.


Get out of your feelings and into some facts and stats. People from single mother homes do worse in life. Pressure to be the man of the house at 14 is one of the reasons.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Spoken like a fatherless child.


Get out of your feelings and into some facts and stats. People from single mother homes do worse in life. Pressure to be the man of the house at 14 is one of the reasons.

It's not one or the other other, you are both right ffs

men shouldn't abandon their kids like slime balls but women should also have the fukkin sense to know who the fukk they are sleeping with and make sure that man ain't a pos

 

[Diyhai]

Spoken like a fatherless child.


Get out of your feelings and into some facts and stats. People from single mother homes do worse in life. Pressure to be the man of the house at 14 is one of the reasons.

you sound like a fatherless child
the state of the women of our community is more a reflection of the men
Woman not impregnating themselves and you chose to blame them instead of at least using a neutral term like broken home
Blaming women like they are solely responsible for these fatherless children
I was raised in a two parent home
But nyggas in here blaming single mothers is part of the problem
And their fathers not fighting for their custody lets be real

 

[Diyhai]

I don't think this issue specifically applies to any one race over another or any kind of wealth/class tier over another.

Nor does it apply to any kind of music. Fact is:

There are some people who don't have much money that love going to work.
There are those who make plenty of money but dread their jobs.
There are two people who have the exact same job, from very similar backgrounds and feel two entirely opposite ways about what they do.

Part of the issue here is really finding what you want to do then hoping it pays good and brings what you want out of life the most.
Additionally, finding out what you want to do and hoping that if you got a boss they're not a massive moronic a$$hole.

shytty bosses and shytty pay go a long way in making people feel this way.

Most people who were working remote were less stressed during the pandemic and were happy with their jobs for example.
People were excited to try and find jobs so that they can work remote.
Then bosses wanted people back in office, many times making productivity worse, making people hate work again and polluting nature.

That'll wear anybody out. Some people don't want to go through all that.

You can't be from the environments they talking bout
talking it aint about wealth/class/race you sound wild
this is about people who don't have hope and therefore don't give a fukk
and its based on what they see in there community
you talking bout some remote work shyt

 

[IIVI]

You can't be from the environments they talking bout
talking it aint about wealth/class/race you sound wild
this is about people who don't have hope and therefore don't give a fukk
and its based on what they see in there community
you talking bout some remote work shyt

Nah breh, I definitely been in those environments and that's a part of who I am today. I seen some crazy shyt.
LA in the 90's wasn't easy and pressure everywhere.

There's always hope and we see people make it out of there all the time though.
Every single day. All around the world people make it from the absolute gutter, worse conditions no less.

Everyone sees the choices all around them. Those kids see the choices people make everyday when they choose to go to legit work.
She even mentions that they see "adults" do it.

If their parents/guardians aren't going to work, how they have a roof over their head?
Somebody in that household is legit working (and not getting their door knocked down because their taxes are not showing red flags).

Some of those kids get jobs and hate it, like many other people. They're choosing not to work.

I don't treat nobody like they "don't have hope". Everyone got a choice and everyone can bounce back or improve their situation.
That's because everyone has a choice to make every single day: grind or do nothing.

Not everyone wants to grind though and all I'm saying is I can't blame them for feeling that way. Nobody said life was going to be easy.

It ain't hopeless though, but you need mental strength for that.

 

[Diyhai]

Nah breh, I definitely been in those environments and that's a part of who I am today. I seen some crazy shyt.

There's always hope and we see people make it out of there all the time though.
Every single day. All around the world people make it from the absolute gutter, worse conditions no less.

Everyone sees the choices all around them. Those kids see the choices people make everyday when they choose to go to legit work. She even mentions that they see "adults" do it.

If their parents/guardians aren't going to work, how they have a roof over their head? Somebody in that household is working (and not getting their door knocked down because their taxes are not showing red flags).

Some of those kids get jobs and hate it, like many other people.

I don't treat nobody like they "don't have hope". Everyone got a choice and everyone can bounce back or improve their situation.
That's because everyone has a choice to make every single day: grind or do nothing.

Not everyone wants to grind though and all I'm saying is I can't blame them for feeling that way. Nobody said life was going to be easy.

It ain't hopeless though, but you need mental strength for that.

you don't get it and never will

 

[IIVI]

you don't get it and never will

Nah because I got the stripes to prove it. I know what I been through and what it takes. Peace though.

 

[Mowgli]

Said by some woman who knows she will never keep a man

 

[010101]

it's all a test of intelligence/sense

don't get caught up trying to save the DUNCE

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[The Fade]