If 50% of your exes aren't married,it is a poor reflection on you as a man.

[Shorty K]

This is proof you are horrible at picking women,and have a bad judge of character,which is also still a poor reflection on you as a man

I'm not quite sure how this reflects on my manhood. It's a woman's goal to get married, if nobody wants you, you're pretty much the problem.

If you're constantly dating women who are winding up married, that reflects that you are the problem. If you are constantly dating women who are never getting married, you're just unlucky and constantly ending up with women who can't keep any man around her for too long. Likely cuz she crazy

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

 

[-deleted-]

I actually wanna hear your thoughts on this

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I actually wanna hear your thoughts on this

I don't think what someone does after you is a reflection on you as a person. It has nothing to do with you. To think it does is very egotistical.

I do notice 2 guys I use to date, one causally we never had sex and another who was my boyfriend for a year or 2, tend to be overly concerned about my relationship status. One is married and the other is engaged. The ex literally sends me pictures every few months of when we use to be together. The last time he did it was a month ago even though he had been engaged since December. I really don't understand why he does it. I tell him I am happy for him and that always seems to bother him. I think maybe he wants me to feel regret but I don't. He was a good dude but not for me.

The other hits me up whenever I like a picture on FB so I stopped liking his stuff. He's been married for a year or 2 and always asked me who I'm seeing. It's weird. Maybe he wants me to also feel regret.. He was a mommas boy thou. He would literally call his mom while we were on dates. I have no regrets there.

 

[Benefited]

I would counter that by asserting that it's a poorer reflection of you as a man if you're keeping up with your "exes" to the point that you know how many of them are married or not...

I might counter by calling a man bitter who takes no interest in people he once claimed he cared about and who cared about him. Plus after teaching them how to give head like that,you really think I'm just going to set them all the way free like they have no use?

 

[Benefited]

I'm not quite sure how this reflects on my manhood. It's a woman's goal to get married, if nobody wants you, you're pretty much the problem.

If you're constantly dating women who are winding up married, that reflects that you are the problem. If you are constantly dating women who are never getting married, you're just unlucky and constantly ending up with women who can't keep any man around her for too long. Likely cuz she crazy

It should still be your goal to be happy as a man,and if you are teaching your woman things that make you happy,and she is doing those things well. Chances are other men will be impressed. I think you underestimte how rare women of skills are among the population of women. I know women who are trash human beings,but have only a few skills and are still being wifed up. Just because they have seperated themselves from the overwhelming majority of untrained skilless women in some capacity. Men are very easily impressed just because the grading curve is so horrible out there

 

[Taadow]

I might counter by calling a man bitter who takes no interest in people he once claimed he cared about and who cared about him. Plus after teaching them how to give head like that,you really think I'm just going to set them all the way free like they have no use?

I might counter counter by saying if said man "cared" so much about a mate in that manner, then maybe they shouldn't have made that person an "ex". Ergo, if he liked it then he should have put a ring on it.

Furthermore - whoa ho ho, oh oh hooo oh ho ho

 

[MaxPain]

What if u dont know or dont care enough to know if they are married or not?

 

[Dont@Me]

All my exes done leveled up. I taught em life lessons on how not to fukk wit ain't shyt nikkas like me

 

[All Women Are Queens]

I might counter by calling a man bitter who takes no interest in people he once claimed he cared about and who cared about him. Plus after teaching them how to give head like that,you really think I'm just going to set them all the way free like they have no use?

Wouldn't being bitter mean he cared though?

 

[MaxPain]

I would counter that by asserting that it's a poorer reflection of you as a man if you're keeping up with your "exes" to the point that you know how many of them are married or not...

Basically

Idk if they dead or alive now

 

[MMA]

I wanted to make a thread on this

Take pride in teaching some women in my past on how to find a husband and be a future wife a man wants to deal with

Even schooled my own sister but the one problem that occurred in the last year

2 have invited me to their weddings

I went to 1, no malice or alternative motives but why invite me

 

[Benefited]

What if u dont know or dont care enough to know if they are married or not?

They probably were never your real exes,or you never taught them anything worthy of keeping them in the mix. A woman of value is one of the women you would have kept around,and kept track of because she was a future wifey prospect for whenever you decided to settle down. I would say you fukked up if you haven't been keeping track,got a little too cocky,thought you could just make another Hov. You may make a Kanye,doesn't neccesarily mean you will make another Hov

 

[Benefited]

Wouldn't being bitter mean he cared though?

No because some men are catty and would just cut a woman off due to ego,even though they were at fault.Plus some men just like to completely move forward,out of fear they might look back so no slight either way

 

[MaxPain]

They probably were never your real exes,or you never taught them anything worthy of keeping them in the mix. A woman of value is one of the women you would have kept around,and kept track of because she was a future wifey prospect for whenever you decided to settle down. I would say you fukked up if you haven't been keeping track,got a little too cocky,thought you could just make another Hov. You may make a Kanye,doesn't neccesarily mean you will make another Hov

They were real exes

We had good times we had bad times

Thats that

What am I supposed to teach a grown ass woman besides my standards for a relationship?