i didn't know of anyone who was having 100 sex partners a year and still graduated from college
most of the fools running at that pace didn't make it through the second semester
ignoring that part of the question, i think my desirability in the eyes of QUALITY women grew each year until i got married
i am not claiming that is from sexual promiscuity (strictly)
but rather than sitting around philosophizing about the opposite sex on an internet chatting site
i was finding myself and learning how to conduct myself in the real world
i was born into a very poor, rough background
eventually growing after decades of effort into an upper middle class lifestyle-
with lots of stumbles and mistakes along the way
things i never would've learned about women or life had i sat around poking fun or being close-minded
to put it into sporting terms, we all haven't been blessed with smooth tom brady careers
where we are recruited to a top school, then directly catch onto an elite pro team, then start winning super bowls
some of us had to transfer around, find a home, re-learn how to do things, find a team that runs our system, adjust to a higher level of competition, then fight through the depth chart to become a starter
you can't do all of that shyt throwing the football through a spare tire in the backyard
you've got to get on the field and learn to play the game