If a "Friendzone" dude cant fukk, then y do you guys get insecure bout ur gf having male friends?

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Generally speaking males and females cannot be friends

The male in the friend zone is the one she's not sexually attracted to

The male that is her "friend", there's always the possibility she can fukk him given the right circumstances
 

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There is no such thing is "just a friend" ubless shes my homies wife/ex or something similar


then we can be cool but not THAT cool. :usure:


My homeboys girl be wondering why I go ghost when he's away... I'm like what do you think :what:



I got friendzoned recently but caught feelings for the chick. Instead of sitting in her friendzone for decades, I told her how I felt and she didn't like it. So now we don't talk and as much as that sucks, it would've probably sucked still going everyday with chilling with a chick who I felt was giving mixed signals
 

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Simple question

U nikkas always say once u in friendzone a guy will never recover from that, nice guys dont get girls, etc

But why do nikkas who have gfs get so insecure when ur gf has male friends?

If there jus a friend that means hes friendzoned right? So whats the big deal
You know exactly why. For some reason, dudes are afraid to regulate each other when it comes to simping. It's almost guaranteed, a male friend will catch it if she's throwing it. But these dudes most of the time have already missed their opportunity, so they're just waiting, for that emotional breakdown, that one moment of weakness. Then it's game time.

We all know a simp nikka. That dude in high school that went above and beyond just to get the attention of a girl. The thing is, instead of pulling these dudes to the side and setting them straight, we let them run wild. Five years later, these are the same folks commenting on your girl's pictures, whispering shyt in her ear, waiting for you to fukk up.

As much as people hate to admit it, nikkas are enabling the current simp culture. And it's exactly why dudes ain't trying to hear that "oh, he's one of my close friends" shyt. We need to nip this shyt in the bud early more often.
 

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I got friendzoned recently but caught feelings for. Instead of sitting in her friendzone for decades, I told her how I felt and she didn't like it. So now we don't talk and as much as that sucks, it would've probably sucked still going everyday with chilling with a chick who I felt was giving mixed signals

Why would she get mad though??? :wtf: sounds like she wanted you as that gay best male friend and you fukked that plan up.
 

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Why would she get mad though??? :wtf: sounds like she wanted you as that gay best male friend and you fukked that plan up.

That's exactly what I told my homeboy.


I guess she wanted a therapist that wouldn't push up on her. She would literally text me at 2 am crying about shyt. And I answered because I would be up anyway. I didn't push up on her until she started offering to do shyt for me (like pick me up from the club at like 4am)

And I still didn't push up on her hard. She has this issue with cats always trying to get at her. But I have a dikk so if I'm attracted to you I let you know.

I have no idea why she got heated except for that but like I said, fukk that friendzone shyt
 
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Why would she get mad though??? :wtf: sounds like she wanted you as that gay best male friend and you fukked that plan up.
And you dont see how that would upset her? She was a lion that thought she had a gazelle.
 

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First off, women are not logical creatures. They are emotional. Thats a huge difference.

All it takes is homie bringin around a flyer chick, whose better than her in many ways and she will instantly hit the.... "Wow, he really is great. I wonder whats so good about him."
 
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Nah, jabroni. There is a difference between the "Nah, he is like a brother to me:hug:" and "Oh, he just a friend:mjpls:"

One is going to be the guy to hear when you fukk up and make her mad.

The other is the guy she gonna contemplate fukking because "You upset her."

Basically, suppose you break up. The friendzone guy is gonna be her go-to to listen to her boohoo.

The other guy is fukking sometime between her being furious and making back up with you.

Watch an episode of Cheaters and see how many people justify their cheating because their partner:

-Didn't pay attention
-Worked all the time
-Didn't listen

Sometimes you gonna get roped with chicks who will do nasty shyt if you piss her off a little. You never know who that is until
you see 'Twaun from the block smile slyly at yo dumb ass when he sees you with your girl.

That visual:wow:....I think I may have been there before.I'm not quite sure, but my spider senses don't lie.I ain't crazy:mjcry:
 
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what makes you think those dudes aren't trying to hit your girl if given the chance?

to be honest, how many unattractive girls have guy friends? It's usually the good looking girls that have guy friends........and why do you think that is?
I have really close male friends and I'm an abomination
 
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First off, women are not logical creatures. They are emotional. Thats a huge difference.

All it takes is homie bringin around a flyer chick, whose better than her in many ways and she will instantly hit the.... "Wow, he really is great. I wonder whats so good about him."

Y'all dropping heavy shyt in here today:wow:



I've seen this play out.When you have sisters, you overhear a lot of shyt.

My sis had a girlfriend who was contemplating going out with some dude she met at a jamaican restaurant.

I heard her tell my sister, bluntly "Gurrrlll he's ugly as hell, but I saw a picture of his ex girlfriend, and OMG! she was REALLY PRETTY! I don't know how he got with her, but I'd be lying if it didn't intrigue me a lil bit"


2 months later, she was carrying that "ugly nikkaz" baby:sas2:
 
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