If a lady requires her mates to have a car and job then she is materialistic

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Nope

But I say that with the understanding that for most, it's not about the car and the job, it's about the fact that most of the quality of mates they'd want to be with would have those things Obviously, not so much with car in certain locales (major urban centers) or with the job in certain situations (in school).

If a woman is on her grind, chances are she's seeking someone with similar goals who is about achieving them....most of those men would have those things.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Nope

But I say that with the understanding that for most, it's not about the car and the job, it's about the fact that most of the quality of mates they'd want to be with would have those things Obviously, not so much with car in certain locales (major urban centers) or with the job in certain situations (in school).

If a woman is on her grind, chances are she's seeking someone with similar goals who is about achieving them....most of those men would have those things.

Exactly. Nobody is compelled or required to date anybody, standards are easily exercisable when they are reasonable/realistic.

 

[electric_fur]

or she has standards? haha.
I've dated men without a job and I can tell you it has nothing to do with materialism.

 

[BrothaZay]

Idk maybe its just how I grew up and being used to seeing nikkas with no jobs but they still have more money than most nikkas

 

[screenname01]

I'm saying the fact that out of billions of people in this world only one who COULD love you is absurd. I didn't say you're guaranteed to find a person that could love you.
you'd have to be pretty naive to say some shyt like one person could love you.

if you've ever fallen in love you would know that its actually easy to do so. with the right amount of pleasant interaction over the right amount of time a person could fall in love with just about anybody.

the problem with people like you is yall view love as something special. its like Hollywood and Disney movies have made love seem like something more than it really is. love it just a fondness of another person, developing an attachment to another person. its not some magical destiny there's one person out there for me bullshyt.

you have a right to have whatever dating standards you want and nobody should successfully shame you into abandoning them. at this point in my life i wouldn't date a woman without a car and a job and if i never meet another women that's into me that has those things that's fine because if i miss out on something i don't want i really missed out on nothing. when you start rambling off celebrities that are single perhaps you should do so after personally asking them why they choose to be single instead of just assuming single = not loved.

Disney? You got damm't right. Son, I'm twelve years deep in the married life with my high school sweetheart. I got a nine year old son and a eight year old daughter. i got harmony in my house and make 25000 a month and climbing selling t shirts and shyt on amazon.com. for the past three months straight i made 2000 dollars off friend of a friend referrals and people callin off of my street signs for t shirts. it dont get no more Disney than that, now do it? I'm out the dating game but you still in the game. What have I been missing? You getting high and drunk and going clubbing this weekend? Falling in love is easy to do but gettin that other muthafukka to go along with the plan is the problem. Nas couldn't do it and he's nas. There's a billion people in the world so that means you gotta billion to one shot at finding true love. So once again, why do you think you're owed somebody to love you for you? Why do you think you of all people deserve that?


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[Sharp]

Rule of thumb: Never expect more of somebody else than you expect from yourself.

It's absurd of a chick making $30k a year to expect her man to make $100k

It's absurd of a chick who has no car to expect her man to have a car

It's absurd of a chick who has no education to expect her man to have a degree

 

[winb83]

Disney? You got damm't right. Son, I'm twelve years deep in the married life with my high school sweetheart. I got a nine year old son and a eight year old daughter. i got harmony in my house and make 25000 a month and climbing selling t shirts and shyt on amazon.com. for the past three months straight i made 2000 dollars off friend of a friend referrals and people callin off of my street signs for t shirts. it dont get no more Disney than that, now do it? I'm out the dating game but you still in the game. What have I been missing? You getting high and drunk and going clubbing this weekend? Falling in love is easy to do but gettin that other muthafukka to go along with the plan is the problem. Nas couldn't do it and he's nas. There's a billion people in the world so that means you gotta billion to one shot at finding true love. So once again, why do you think you're owed somebody to love you for you? Why do you think you of all people deserve that?


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I know people 25+ years into marriage that got divorced. People with kids almost as old as me. Marriage is a crap shoot and if you happen to die married to the same person you are now you got lucky. The one thing you don't do is compromise your standards and take what you can get.

People fall in and out of love all the time. It's nothing special and besides that love isn't enough to sustain a marriage you have to have a devotion to the marriage that transcends that love.

 

[screenname01]

I know people 25+ years into marriage that got divorced. People with kids almost as old as me. Marriage is a crap shoot and if you happen to die married to the same person you are now you got lucky. The one thing you don't do is compromise your standards and take what you can get.

People fall in and out of love all the time. It's nothing special and besides that love isn't enough to sustain a marriage you have to have a devotion to the marriage that transcends that love.

I know people who went outside to go to work and got ate by a tiger you pretentious, loser twerp muthafukka. With your hatin azz. Like I said though, with all these standards you got why does the universe owe YOU somebody to love you for you? What does that man gain from being in a relationship with you? Is it because youre supposed to be a good dude something?


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[winb83]

I know people who went outside to go to work and got ate by a tiger you pretentious, loser twerp muthafukka. With your hatin azz. Like I said though, with all these standards you got why does the universe owe YOU somebody to love you for you? What does that man gain from being in a relationship with you? Is it because youre supposed to be a good dude something?


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I don't look at love and feel like I'm owed it by anybody were talking about potential love not entitled love. By your dumb ass tone if a woman with AIDS is in love with you then you should abandon any disqualifying standard and accept her because nobody owes you love and you're lucky to get it at all.

If you're talking about me personally I don't want a relationship so there is no benefit for a woman being with me because I don't do relationships. I'm not a good person either not a bad person like most people I'm somewhere in the middle I just don't lie to myself and tell myself I'm good when I'm not.

 

[screenname01]

I don't look at love and feel like I'm owed it by anybody were talking about potential love not entitled love. By your dumb ass tone if a woman with AIDS is in love with you then you should abandon any disqualifying standard and accept her because nobody owes you love and you're lucky to get it at all.

If you're talking about me personally I don't want a relationship so there is no benefit for a woman being with me because I don't do relationships. I'm not a good person either not a bad person like most people I'm somewhere in the middle I just don't lie to myself and tell myself I'm good when I'm not.

Well since you're resorting to extreme semantics, herpes is still out there and it don't give not one good got damm about you or your condom but that ain't stopping you and your "standards" from exploring your options out there on the dating scene now is it? Hatin azz nyggas don't never know when to shut the fukk up. Give up that demon nygga. It'll destroy you.


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[jalamanta]

 

[winb83]

Well since you're resorting to extreme semantics, herpes is still out there and it don't give not one good got damm about you or your condom but that ain't stopping you and your "standards" from exploring your options out there on the dating scene now is it? Hatin azz nyggas don't never know when to shut the fukk up. Give up that demon nygga. It'll destroy you.


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People have the right to have whatever standard they want

 

[screenname01]

People have the right to have whatever standard they want

I'm gonna spray you in the face with some raid you got damn mosquito. Leave me the hell alone. I'm over here trying to figure out how to install FFmpeg on my amazon ec2 joomla ami. I ain't studdin you and your herpes.


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[Rocket Scientist]

If she doesnt have a job,she better be recently laid off and even then she betterh ave some interviews lined up. If she doesnt have a car its an issue..... would I date one with neither?No.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Im still @ the concept of demanding a chick accept a dude w/no job