Yea a father should help out at times especially when he can. But all of this splitting child duties straight down the middle is laughable when the man is the sole provider
Thoughts ?
Thoughts ?
If a man is paying all the bills he doesn’t have to be 50/50 when it comes to parenting. Argue with your mama!
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F*ckthemkids
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It's weird how some of ya'll approach parenthood.
Ineedmoney504
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The pressure on huh lil nikkaYea a father should help out at times especially when he can. But all of this splitting child duties straight down the middle is laughable when the man is the sole provider
Thoughts ?
Zay bout to or had his child and hedon’t wanna be involved. Your life as you knew it is over.
Ok FckThemKids
F*ckthemkids
Superstar
It’s cool to me. I just don’t submit to this modern rhetoric. I finally feel like I can speak on it now since I have a child. I don’t like how 90% of the bs on social media is dry insinuating how lazy men are and how we don’t do enoughThe pressure on huh lil nikka
bourgeoisie tall freak
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why wouldn't you WANT to take care of YOUR child.
i love taking care of my yg nieces and nephews, feeding them, carrying them around or talking them on a walk when they were fussy, etc. changing diapers though
but i'll still do it lol
my fav niece is so cute when she comes to take a nap and cuddle. she be like "scoooch over
"
aight lil girl
i love taking care of my yg nieces and nephews, feeding them, carrying them around or talking them on a walk when they were fussy, etc. changing diapers though
but i'll still do it lolmy fav niece is so cute when she comes to take a nap and cuddle. she be like "scoooch over
"aight lil girl
Is that what you got out of this?why wouldn't you WANT to take care of YOUR child.
i love taking care of my yg nieces and nephews, feeding them, carrying them around or talking them on a walk when they were fussy, etc. changing diapers though
skyrunner1
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What you say make sense, but black men are socialized to be the most domesticated men and have been on record to be the most involved fathers also. You probably get pushback more than anything..
What's the problem with OP? They could both be working, she asked for a team player.
If you're paying all the bills, then she needs to be a team player and handle the majority of childcare.
If you're paying all the bills, then she needs to be a team player and handle the majority of childcare.
bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
yep. that stuff is the fun part in my opinion. dudes really trying to dodge it as a way to have an upper hand in the gender/relationship roles war? sounds like cutting your nose to spite your face.
Ineedmoney504
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Agreed tho. It’s the reason I left my kids mom. I’m not working 10-12 hours a day and come home to a dirty house and excuses about why it’s hard.
If I gotta cook and clean after work I rather live by myself and do it myself.
I moved away from my kids mom and she had no where to go toihad to let her move into my new house
I’ll hire a cleaning servers before I allow myself to be done like that
Ineedmoney504
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That shyt ain’t no fun part to menyep. that stuff is the fun part in my opinion. dudes really trying to dodge it as a way to have an upper hand in the gender/relationship roles war? sounds like cutting your nose to spite your face.
Y’all grow up playing house and with dolls and shyt. shyts a core