If a woman caught you cheating ONCE and leaves you for that, she NEVER loved you

[Coco Loco]

BW be on some bullshyt but ladies I understand now

And he's dead ass serious with this bs take

Got a homie that I’ve know since I was 18 that got caught cheating several years ago. Been married for over 20 years. Breh been catching hell. I think he got caught in the distant past too or she at the least suspected.

All that to say that when a woman catches you cheating the relationship is basically cooked. If she stays she’s going to make your life a living hell because her trust is gone and the only thing that remains is she loves you. And you’ll have to jump through hella hoops just to ease her mind that your not cheating when you gotta work late, go outta town, hang with the fellas, go to the gym, etc,. But trust she will be more than likely looking to cheat as well at some point for revenge.

If you get caught cheating 9/10 you’re better off ending the relationship because that trust is gone on her end.

Talk to em! Once that trust is gone, so is she

 

[Ohene]

And he's dead ass serious with this bs take





Talk to em! Once that trust is gone, so is she

He kind of right though
A lot of women seem to stay such is why he saying this
It’s kind of sad to be honest

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

He kind of right though
A lot of women seem to stay such is why he saying this
It’s kind of sad to be honest

Yep. They stay as a trauma response not necessarily because they love you. Trauma bonds. Stockholm syndrome.

Then there’s not having the ability to leave for financial, children, and other assorted reasons.

A woman that values and loves herself and has the means to will leave your ass at the first sign of infidelity.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

what's love got to do with it, when you don't love yourself

 

[Ohene]

Yep. They stay as a trauma response not necessarily because they love you. Trauma bonds. Stockholm syndrome.

Then there’s not having the ability to leave for financial, children, and other assorted reasons.

A woman that values and loves herself and has the means to will leave your ass at the first sign of infidelity.

Lot of women don’t love themselves
Iunno

I have a friend who was recently caught cheating and his girl stayed . I think a lot of black women also assume that if they don’t the next dude will cheat anyway

 

[Gloxina]

That's what I'm saying lol.

OP doesn't know the guilt tripping, emotional blackmailing, and just general fukkery he is in for.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Depends. Some women actually don’t care if you get some on the side. Others care a lot. And some men can do certain things, and women will accept it, while they wouldn’t accept such behavior from other men.

 

[Gloxina]

BW be on some bullshyt but ladies I understand now

It definitely isn’t all of y’all, but there are men who really play these emotional games, and the women who are with it are usually already damaged or traumatized from previous life experiences (family, etc).

If she caught you cheating and stays
Boy, you are in for a world of hurt

Lol

 

[Lambent55]

 

[Amo Husserl]

 

[Reflected]

Tether babble.

I'm joking btw but imagine being "pro-black" and saying some dumb shyt like the OP

And it's Godless babble, truthfully.

 

[ScoopNScore]

Not to self-plug but I spun this track a lot hotter back then

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/face-it-ladies-want-a-cheater.244012/

 

[Serious]

@Gloxina

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Want your cake and eat it babble.

 

[Phitz]

If she caught you cheating and stays
Boy, you are in for a world of hurt

yeah revenge cheating, emotional abuse, constant nagging

an excuse to take off the mask