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Im Not American
Yes. & I know they're way more forgiving and submissive than nikkasWas it a white guy you cheated on?
That's why I got one

Yes. & I know they're way more forgiving and submissive than nikkasWas it a white guy you cheated on?

Yes. & I know they're way more forgiving and submissive than nikkas
That's why I got one![]()
Yes. & I know they're way more forgiving and submissive than nikkas
That's why I got one![]()
I admitted it.![]()

We had a fight and I told him. Like most men he didn't believe me so I did some grimey shyt and called the other guy and put him on speaker and told him come get me. He punched the wall in in his kitchen and his mom came runningWas he suspicious? You just admitted it out the blue?![]()

Its a wrap if a woman cheats. Even if you tried to make it work men are so visual that image is gonna haunt you forever
If the man finds out, it's a wrap.
I don't believe a woman can respect a man that continues to deal with her after finding out she cheated, whereas I think a man CAN still respect a woman that knows he stepped out.
I still think that regardless, zero tolerance is the best way to go for both genders. However, I understand it's a complex situation with children and the lifestyle afforded by being married.
I know a couple im related to. He was tipped off by someone and he caught her red handed at lunch with some guy. He confronted her and she confessed that she was seeinh him and she and him were planning a future together.
He moved out for a while. She told him later to come home so they can be a family again. He refused for a bit but he has moved back home.
They seem more lovey dovey now.
She has more $$$ - my husband says that its the only reason he came back.
If the man finds out, it's a wrap.
I don't believe a woman can respect a man that continues to deal with her after finding out she cheated, whereas I think a man CAN still respect a woman that knows he stepped out.
I still think that regardless, zero tolerance is the best way to go for both genders. However, I understand it's a complex situation with children and the lifestyle afforded by being married.