If A Woman Is The One That Cheats In A Relationship....

Larry Lambo

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Women get away with it b/c men still believe myths about whole entire human beings.
"A woman can't fukk unless her feelings involved." Lie. The world's oldest profession built off the exact opposite of that mentality. The reality is sex is better for us because shyt is tied together with sex and it's a richer more fulfilling act when in love. But women can and do fukk for PLENTY of reasons besides emotional connection. (I.e., lack of sexual satisfaction, disconnect from partner, boredom and appeal of new dyck, money and attention.)

Regardless I don't think anybody should stay with a cheater. Can't trust them, endangering ur health, lack of respect for you, 3rd party in ur relationship. Move on.

I've heard dozens of stories of women cheating and they all relate to either the woman being unsatisfied with her current partner, her hooking up with an ex they had an emotional connection with, or stepping out with a dude with a higher value than her current.

The whole "appeal of side dyck" isn't a reason I've ever heard brought up, unless the side dyck was more attractive..

So when a woman cheats I just feel like it's a referendum on how she feels about her partner. The attraction or connection isn't there. Whereas some instances of men cheating can truly just be about him being selfish and having no willpower.

I agree that either way, it's best for the cheated on partner to bounce. But I don't think the relationship even has a shot of succeeding in the long term if the woman cheats and he knows. Where I do believe there is a chance of success if the man cheats and realizes the error of his ways.
 

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People in many cases seem to be more mad about everyone else knowing they got cheated on then the actual cheating. Look at male public figures, their wife knows they fukk other women but they're ok with it. It just can't be out in the open and blatant because then she's embarrassed. As long as it's on the down low it's ok
 

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Men get cheated on and stay everyday. The only difference is, men will leave if its well known by others that he's being cheated on, whereas women would be more likely to stay because they are given sympathy instead or ridicule. Many women actually become addicted to that extra attention and sympathy they garner from others and it keeps them in the relationship.

But yeah, if the transgression is quiet and the husband feels like no one else knows, they stay all the time. I don't think a relationship where anyone cheated is healthy though.
 

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If it happens, she was probably being sloppy on purpose to get out or get back at him.
That must be why my ex collapsed on the floor and started hyperventilating when i told her to :camby:. She proceeded to chase me for four years :francis:
Woman think they are slick and that men are dumb, but when she cheated i just knew. I could sense it, investigated and was proven right.

Anyways, the reason you can never salvage the relationship, apart from the fact that cheating is a question of mentalitiy and that people who cheat once will cheat again, is very simple: once you let a woman cheat on you, she looses all respect for you and you can never get it back. she will think you are weak and she will resent you for it.
 

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Women only stay with cheaters, because they've been brainwashed my society.

Not over here. Throwing hot grits on you in your sleep, taking the kids, emptying the accounts, and going ghost:ufdup::ufdup:
 

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You Coli chicks keep pushing this narrative. Why don't you test its real world application? :usure:

It was actually the coli that brought it to my attention that this happens often. With that thread about the forum where men talk out their experience with their wife's infidelity. I never paid attention to it, then after that I started noticing it all the time irl.
 

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It was actually the coli that brought it to my attention that this happens often. With that thread about the forum where men talk out their experience with their wife's infidelity. I never paid attention to it, then after that I started noticing it all the time irl.

Cuck fantasies are prevalent in the caucasoid community, brehette :smugfavre:
 

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Unfortunately with the way the system is setup these days, some men have to take that burn and stay, or bide they're time before they cut, sometimes its to avoid financial ruin, can't/dont want to leave your child, or she take care of his ass and he got nowhere else to go (BIG no no)

There are alot of factors involved when certain men decide to stay, no individual situation is the same.
 

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I've heard dozens of stories of women cheating and they all relate to either the woman being unsatisfied with her current partner, her hooking up with an ex they had an emotional connection with, or stepping out with a dude with a higher value than her current.

The whole "appeal of side dyck" isn't a reason I've ever heard brought up, unless the side dyck was more attractive..

So when a woman cheats I just feel like it's a referendum on how she feels about her partner. The attraction or connection isn't there. Whereas some instances of men cheating can truly just be about him being selfish and having no willpower.

I agree that either way, it's best for the cheated on partner to bounce. But I don't think the relationship even has a shot of succeeding in the long term if the woman cheats and he knows. Where I do believe there is a chance of success if the man cheats and realizes the error of his ways.
I too have heard of these mythical relationships where a man cheats and it can allegedly be worked thru. However what you don't hear about is the secret life of women. In damn near every relationship I've encountered like this, the only reason it worked out was b/c the other spouse was also cheating.:merchant:
It's easy to be gracious and forgiving when u were getting ur guts dug out too.:skip: In fact, I've literally known females to dog their men out for having cheated and take them back. I'd always ask them...did you cheat? They'd be like "yeah but he doesn't need to know that."

Trust me. HUMANS are human. No way around it. If you cheat and she's seemingly okay, it's because she's either already getting her emotional and physical needs taken care of elsewhere, or she's planning to in the future. I've also seen the latter as well. Never ends well.
 

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Only a worthless dude would forgive a woman for committing the ultimate form of disrespect in a relationship. Forgiveness is a joke anyway.
 

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Men get cheated on and stay everyday. The only difference is, men will leave if its well known by others that he's being cheated on, whereas women would be more likely to stay because they are given sympathy instead or ridicule. Many women actually become addicted to that extra attention and sympathy they garner from others and it keeps them in the relationship.

But yeah, if the transgression is quiet and the husband feels like no one else knows, they stay all the time. I don't think a relationship where anyone cheated is healthy though.
I know of nikkas who still stayed after it was well known.

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