get these nets
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There are guys going through divorces or child support drama now who regret thinking like that.If she is a dyme, you not bouncing that easy,
They did that, so hopefully you don't have to go through that
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If a woman start talking about “my mental health journey” while she wit you, RUN and cut her off
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They did that, so hopefully you don't have to go through that
threattonature
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To me it all depends on how she speaks about it. If she’s acknowledging mistakes she’s made and how she needs to do it be better then it sounds like someone that’s mature and acknowledging their problems since none of us are perfect.
Now if she’s blaming others that she’s fukked over in the past for not sticking by her through her mental health journey that to me speaks to a crazy or shytty person using their mental health journey as a scapegoat to do shytty things in which case I would definitely run.
Therapy and treating mental health is all about what someone wants to get out of it. Some use it just as a way to validate all their poor relationships and to essentially blame everyone around them for not excusing their bad actions instead of addressing why they do the bad thing in the first place.
Now if she’s blaming others that she’s fukked over in the past for not sticking by her through her mental health journey that to me speaks to a crazy or shytty person using their mental health journey as a scapegoat to do shytty things in which case I would definitely run.
Therapy and treating mental health is all about what someone wants to get out of it. Some use it just as a way to validate all their poor relationships and to essentially blame everyone around them for not excusing their bad actions instead of addressing why they do the bad thing in the first place.
ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
Breh…I’ve been through it (thankfully without getting married). I don’t care how good she looks… nothing beats having a piece of mind.If she is a dyme, you not bouncing that easy,
you will help her work through her problems & make sure she took her medication
Chicks with issues usually will fukk your brains out
The first signs of issues she has with herself, I’m bouncing. Let another man deal with that. I don’t care if they makes me selfish… not everyone is built for dealing with that.
BaldingSoHard
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If she is a dyme, you not bouncing that easy,
you will help her work through her problems & make sure she took her medication
Chicks with issues usually will fukk your brains out
True, but this is something a man should only fall for once in his life.
shyt man, having been through that... no thanks. Once was MORE than enough.
That was a wildly confusing and emotionally tumultuous year.
Too many women out here for me personally to deal with a nut…but lookin at this thread there’s plenty of nikkas that will so 
I don’t have time to help fix or correct grown folks, I’m in my 30s and if a broad ain’t figured it out by then, she won’t figure it out…
I don’t have time to help fix or correct grown folks, I’m in my 30s and if a broad ain’t figured it out by then, she won’t figure it out…
This!!! The worst are the women that openly admit their issues but never work on them! It's like being dysfunctional is a badge of honor these days
at some of the responses
There's levels.
I'm going to put this in basketball terms. There's players like Kyle Lowry and Demar Derozan who's had well-documented battles with their mental health and acknowledge everything that came with it over the years. They are active and encourage others to make their mental a priority.
Then there's Ben Simmons and to an extent Kyrie Irving who only use their mental health as an excuse when things don't go their way and/trying to change a narrative. There's people out here who use mental health as a crutch. When things are going well then there's no mention of them battling those issues.
Tread lightly. I respect those tryna take that leap, but a lot of people out here perpetrating.
I'm going to put this in basketball terms. There's players like Kyle Lowry and Demar Derozan who's had well-documented battles with their mental health and acknowledge everything that came with it over the years. They are active and encourage others to make their mental a priority.
Then there's Ben Simmons and to an extent Kyrie Irving who only use their mental health as an excuse when things don't go their way and/trying to change a narrative. There's people out here who use mental health as a crutch. When things are going well then there's no mention of them battling those issues.
Tread lightly. I respect those tryna take that leap, but a lot of people out here perpetrating.
Do what's best for you. Anyone giving you blanket advice is just looking for a Plat thread.