If being short isn't an issue why...

[MalikX]

You have reading comprehension issues

What's left to comprehend...you're 5"5...with heels you're 5"8/5"9. By saying you want a man with height, that's 5"10. If your mom had the same requirements for your 5"3 dad you wouldn't be here

 

[Azul]

What's left to comprehend...you're 5"5...with heels you're 5"8/5"9. By saying you want a man with height, that's 5"10. If your mom had the same requirements for your 5"3 dad you wouldn't be here

I've had crushes on dudes with varying height. While I do like height (meaning if I wear three inch heels you are my height or taller), but there are some short dudes who could get it.

Please tell me how this translates to I only want a man with height. For the record (and not that it is any of your business), dude I'm talking to at the moment is slightly shorter than me.

 

[MalikX]

I've had crushes on dudes with varying height. While I do like height (meaning if I wear three inch heels you are my height or taller), but there are some short dudes who could get it.

Please tell me how this translates to I only want a man with height. For the record (and not that it is any of your business), dude I'm talking to at the moment is slightly shorter than me.

Saying......"while I do like height"......is saying that's your preference.

Which is funny seeing that your dad is the size of a tall child. Any man who gets with you is risking his kids being short. It's just funny seeing women with all these requirements and their dads were nothing of the sort. If you mom thought like you, you'd be an unfertilized egg in a sewer somewhere.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

dude I'm talking to at the moment is slightly shorter than me.

Man must have some certs.

 

[Azul]

Saying......"while I do like height"......is saying that's your preference.

Which is funny seeing that your dad is the size of a tall child. Any man who gets with you is risking his kids being short. It's just funny seeing women with all these requirements and their dads were nothing of the sort. If you mom thought like you, you'd be an unfertilized egg in a sewer somewhere.

You got it man

My bad for going back and forth with you considering all the shyt you've been posting on here. Posters like you usually get ignored.

 

[philmonroe]

There's a difference between a preference and a requirement.

A man might prefer a woman with a big butt, but may not require it. A woman may prefer a tall man, but may not require it as well.

A requirement might be having a job, having good hygiene, having a decent personality, not being obese, etc.

Just because a woman doesn't require it, doesn't mean it doesn't impact the guys who are spitting at her. If she's dealing with men that meet her preference, your game has to be phenomenal for her to pass up those dudes for a guy that doesn't meet it. But the reason why some of these women's "preferences" go out the window is because they aren't meeting good men with those qualities. They can prefer a 6'2" dude, but if one doesn't come, they will accommodate something else.

Regardless, there are plenty women that don't care a lot about height. Just like there men that don't care about chick having a fat ass. Being short does not prevent you from getting attractive women. It's a factor, but it doesn't make or break you.

Yeah I agree on everything with you but my point if it wasn't clear is if your (general your) "preference" isn't a requirement honestly FOH with the stunting lol. That goes for dudes too. If its not a I'm not dealing with it period factor everything else to me is fronting usually to be with the majority which is weak to me.

 

[Giselle]

Spoiler

There is nothing wrong with choosing not to date a certain race. Save your history lessons for history class In a purely dating context, race is a feature about yourself that you cannot change, like height. Would it be self-hating for a white guy to say he didn't date white girls? And preferred Hispanic women? Would it be self-hating for an Asian guy to say he didn't prefer Asian girls? And preferred Indian women instead. No....people would just say aight whatever....but, for some reason black women are a protected class Again.....save the speech. Don't care. You wanna diss nikkas who ain't 6"4 then cry foul when someone diss you for the biracial girl or the white girl. Go on with all that.

Yeah, not I see you're doing this on purpose. I'll just quote my last response bc I'm not going to keep repeating myself.

First, A random person's preference doesn't negatively affect me. Repeat it out loud to youself so you can hear how dumb that sounds. Now explain how what a random person prefers in a partner affects me?

That only happens to you insecure guys who care too much about not fitting into people's ideal type. There are a lot of you on here too including youself which is why you are so bothered.

Unlike you males on here who like to call black women bedwenches for dating out, I do not care about stuff like that. I don't call people names bc they want to date people outside of their race. I have made bait threads a few times just to watch you all do it though and y'all always do it.

If someone is black, white or w/e, don't like their own people and bash them often, then yes there is something wrong with them. Their own personal issues have nothing to do with me.


My father is 5ft11-6ft w/o shoes btw, and that has nothing to do with what appearance I'm attracted to in males. I do not and am not supposed to find my father attractive. People aren't out there looking for their father in a husband/bf/sex partner's appearance. You sound gross. Why would someone want to fck someone who looks like their parent

You trying to make it the same thing shows how insecure you are.

Who said women don't care about height? I said its bullshyt kicking what you kicking because if you willing to overlook it it ain't all that important. If it was you'd stay true to what was sooo your preference unless you can't get it and or its trying to fit in bullshyt which what a lot of people do is. You are exaggerating because if they ain't willing to die (not literally of course) for what they kicking its bullshyt period. I'm not talking to a chick with kids and or fat and its not overlooking to be done cause I'm not doing it. Damn near all them chicks are going to mess with a dude if they haven't already that isn't the magical height so therefore what they kicking is bullshyt period.

Krazy K and Barnett, the angry short guys who keep quoting me.

That's not true at all. Women are more likely to settle than men when it comes to looks. Plenty of studies have been done on that. All you have to do is google. Speak to women in your real life about it as well.

Why are you so obsessed with short dudes? You literally write essays in every short guy thread about why you don;t find them attractive........maybe deep down you're actually attracted to them but embarrassed because all your girlfriends say its wrong

Its just like that Orlando shooter who went on a rampage in that gay club, dude was a homosexual but just couldn't take being one

I am completely sure that I am not attracted to short males.
This is my first time in a while coming into a height thread by myself and that was bc of recent events in my other thread where the insecure males came in there angry. I am usually @ in the height threads and I do not post essays in them. This is the most back and forth that I've done about height.

My friends preferences do not influence my own. I think for myself.

you misunderstood me. You or anyone liking tall men don't make you insecure. I'm saying all the extra shyt you and a few others are doing like the bolded is most likely do to some type of insecurity. I have never been a fan of anyone who does that type of shyt. If you date whites and not blacks and came in here saying women prefer white just because you don't like black my response would be the same. It's not true. I like slim thick women but I don't get online and declare that anyone who don't fit what I like is trying to make themselves feel better when they say they don't have a problem attracting a mate. You ignored me when I said that so posting surveys of random women still won't negate the fact that this short shyt isn't an issue for me and many others. You keep saying it is and I AM TELLING YOU AS A MAN WHO HAS BEEN 5'8 SINCE HIGH SCHOOL IT'S NOT.

If I dated whites I would never claim majority of black women (black women bc if you're talking about all races, yes studies have shown white men and women are the worlds preference) prefer white males bc it's not true. If you got on here and said males prefer "slim thick" women, that wouldn't be true either. Maybe for black males, idk, but I don't think any studies have proven it.

If you got on here and said majority of males prefer women who are shorter than them, that would be true. Just like when I say majority of women prefer taller men it's true. There is so much evidence that backs it up.
As I said earlier, I am not in here trying to use my personal preference as facts. It just so happens that a commonly known fact aligns with my personal preference. It shouldn't be that difficult to understand, it's just that you don't want to accept it probably due to insecurity.
& again, I said males UNDER 5ft 7 or 8. Since in is 5ft8 shoreter than 5ft7 or 5ft8?

Ofcourse you wouldn't have too many problems bc there are women 5ft5 and shorter willing to look past your height even though they would prefer someone taller.

My survey had a large number of black people. White women are usually less picky of height, but they still prefer taller men. The lsa thread was a great rep of black women's opinions on height. Those are real life women and it's similar to a survey that people fill out, but with more detail bc they aren't directed and are being more casual and honest. If you would read the thread, you would see how all of them said they prefer taller men. A large number said nothing under 5ft11, but a number of them also said that they will try to look past the person's height if they like them as long as he is atleast 2-3 inches taller. I only remember one person in that thread that said they'd date someone shorter and got laughed at all throughout the thread. That thread is much better than a survey.

If you didn't know, the internet is great for research and opinions. Lots of companies, brands, celebs use it for that.

In terms of the red, most black men are 2-3 inches taller than most women, the average black woman is only 5'4"

And a large number said "nothing under 5'11"", the average black man is 5'9".

That excludes 90% of men and that obviously isn't happening.

The updated stuff says 5ft10 for males and 5ft4 and a half for women. Even then there are still millions of women and men who are taller and shorter than the avg height of people they measured to get the avg. It is more of a range, not one specific height.

5ft11+ was the height preference of majority of the women. 5ft7/5ft8 is the shortest that the shorter/avg height women would settle for.

The women who were saying they might settle for at least 3 inches taller were 5ft5 and taller, which is why I said males under 3 inches taller than that (meaning males under 5ft 7/8) were going to have issues with finding women who are willing to look past their height. There are millions of women who are taller than 5ft4.5, so for them (or us since I am also taller than the height you used as avg) the avg height you used for males was too short and/or did not fall into 3 inches taller. Majority of the few who were shorter than 5ft4 preferred men who were taller than 3 inches taller than them bc they didn't want their man to be the same size as the avg woman, meaning they also would not settle for a male who is shorter than 5ft7 or 8 bc the avg woman is 5ft4-5ft6.

I am 5ft6 (2inches taller than the height you claimed was avg for women) and I have even said I may settle for a 5ft11 (2inches taller than the height you stated for the avg male) guy even though I prefer a guy who is (6ft-6ft4). Yet y'all keep saying there is something wrong with me. lol No it's y'all and y'alls insecurity that's the issue.

If women cared about height that much, men would be getting taller because of natural selection

Some women care about height but most don't as 86% of men are under 6'0" with the average being 5'9", these women are getting and having children with someone

Once again, people can say they want something but reality is showing different, its the same as when dudes on this forum say single mothers get no love when they obviously do

Settling does not mean a person doesn't care about something. Settling= "I really wanted this, but this thing that is less than it will do for now since it's already here because it isn't extremely bad, but I still wanted my first choice and think it's better". It's funny how you males believe otherwise.

Women settle in relationships much more often than males do.

Women care about height and usually prefer men who are taller than them, just like men usually don't want women who are much taller than them. Some women do settle for males who are at least 3 inches taller than them though. Your claimed avg height for males (5ft9) is more than 3 inches taller than your claimed avg height for women (5ft4). 5ft7 is 3 inches taller than 5ft4, so males who are 5ft7-8 shouldn't have too many issues since shorter women are willing to settle for them if they like them, as I have already stated. Males who are shorter than that though will have many issues with dating bc majority of women don't want men who are the same height as a large number of women (5ft6 males and under will have lots of issues).

Just ust bc someone's parents are a certain height doesn't mean that their children will be the same height so you can shut up with all of that "natural selecion height".

This has nothing to do with single mothers. Being a single mother has nothing to do with your looks, just like being a single father or broke male. It's strange how you always seem to bring up single mothers when no one was even talking about them.

People have certain things they are attracted to and you may not fit into that. It's best to just accept that and move on than to keep arguing trying to force things.

 

[Barnett114]

No one is angry, nor do I care about anyone's preference as I never had a problem in my own personal life, you might want to come up with something better

nikkas live in reality not on the internet, no one gives a fukk about "studies"

 

[Reno89]

Trust me fam, tall nikkas get their time wasted the most. Being short weeds women out. Just like men who have it together get their time wasted more than broke nikkas. It weeds people out.

Tall may seem like a great thing, but you keep running into women that like you because you're tall. That is until she see a taller nikka, or just another nikka that's tall. It's Just like a celebrity. You run into girls that like you because you are a celebrity, until she sees someone more famous, or another famous nikka.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Trust me fam, tall nikkas get their time wasted the most. Being short weeds women out. Just like men who have it together get their time wasted more than broke nikkas. It weeds people out.

Tall may seem like a great thing, but you keep running into women that like you because you're tall. That is until she see a taller nikka, or just another nikka that's tall. It's Just like a celebrity. You run into girls that like you because you are a celebrity, until she sees someone more famous, or another famous nikka.

Hmm.

You raise a good point there.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

I love being 6'5 never have to worry bout this coward shyt.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Trust me fam, tall nikkas get their time wasted the most. Being short weeds women out. Just like men who have it together get their time wasted more than broke nikkas. It weeds people out.

Tall may seem like a great thing, but you keep running into women that like you because you're tall. That is until she see a taller nikka, or just another nikka that's tall. It's Just like a celebrity. You run into girls that like you because you are a celebrity, until she sees someone more famous, or another famous nikka.

Yall are acting like babies man. No one said women who like tall men only like them because they're tall. Women just prefer taller men as these dudes still have to have other qualities to get some of these women y'all condem.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

But who said it wasn't an issue

 

[Fani Willis fan]

I feel like everybody is 6'5

 

[Neuromancer]

Saying......"while I do like height"......is saying that's your preference.

Which is funny seeing that your dad is the size of a tall child. Any man who gets with you is risking his kids being short. It's just funny seeing women with all these requirements and their dads were nothing of the sort. If you mom thought like you, you'd be an unfertilized egg in a sewer somewhere.

Bro chill.