People and their extremes on s/m:
Her -
I want a man to pay each & every bill.

I don't want want/need very much.
Him -
I don't want no woman who doesn't make as much/more money than me.

She has to be independent but has no say in any other matters.
Child please.
Is there no such thing as balance or looking at the big picture???
While men say they want the latter they definitely will still pursue/reward the former vs the one who claims not to need much - 'You don't want much, you gets nothing'. Or they will jeopardize their healthy wholesome homes/finances for the same women they call bummy whores. Divorce, alimony, child support, etc is worth 15 minutes with the bummy whore. But hypergamy is the worse.
A woman doesn't have to make more than you income wise but should not be a liability. She should assist you in maintaining/increasing income/wealth while having great credit and smart money management skills. That's priceless.
Her -
I want a man to pay each & every bill.

I don't want want/need very much.
Him -
I don't want no woman who doesn't make as much/more money than me.

She has to be independent but has no say in any other matters.
Child please.
Is there no such thing as balance or looking at the big picture???
While men say they want the latter they definitely will still pursue/reward the former vs the one who claims not to need much - 'You don't want much, you gets nothing'. Or they will jeopardize their healthy wholesome homes/finances for the same women they call bummy whores. Divorce, alimony, child support, etc is worth 15 minutes with the bummy whore. But hypergamy is the worse.
A woman doesn't have to make more than you income wise but should not be a liability. She should assist you in maintaining/increasing income/wealth while having great credit and smart money management skills. That's priceless.