Jesus Shuttlesworth
I Got Game
It's in the definition.
If I don't have the ability to be a provider, I don't feel like a man and neither should you.
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Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha
Superstar
to me being a man is being able to take responsibility for thy self,And its not about coming out the pockets. And its also not the only quality that makes up being a man. There are other qualities and traits. But for me just know you have that ability should be every males goal. Part of it is ego, part of it is just having a sense of pride.
but everyone has an idea of what 'being a man' is
Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha
Superstar
i gotta agree with you,dudes looking to take care of broads
there are a whole lot of relationships where the man is the sole provider and the broads still fukked another nikka
i will never in life be in a relationship where i am providing for a broad
shyt will be 50/50 or that bytch can walk
paying for a chick will never = her loyalty
joeychizzle
光復香港，時代革命
I agree with you, but only after I find the right one. I'm not even trying to use the phrase 'these hoes ain't loyal', I just want to wait for the right one. But then again the best laid plans of mice and men are never right.
@rogue_riezo co-sign that. a woman that is financially independent is a massive bonus. Lightens the load and makes things easier on both parties involved.
@rogue_riezo co-sign that. a woman that is financially independent is a massive bonus. Lightens the load and makes things easier on both parties involved.
Who said if your woman makes more than you you're less of a man?
I was one of the few cats in the career driven thread saying I don't mind a woman with a career and goals. Nikkas saying they want a bytch barefoot pregnant cooking cleaning then in here talking about they don't want to provide.
I said I can't let my wife be the "sole" provider as in ONLY. Why would I not be bringing in income for my family?
Depends on the women.
my current queen has a job... and a business. But I would take care of her at the drop of a dime, lead her protect her. She loyal and real men take care of loyal chicks.
my young bytch, I'm madddddd stingy w her cuz I know shes a user and has no goals in life. Eventually I will probably try pimpin her on some real shyt. fukk her.
my first BM..-- I still take care of her when I can. I'm a simp on purpose because I know she lacks motivation even with a masters degree.
other bm - -- I don't give her shyt. She doesn't really have shyt. But I know she has potential so I want to allow her to grow.
So IMO it just depends on the woman , if u go HOH, simp, or real man.
Depends on the women.
my current queen has a job... and a business. But I would take care of her at the drop of a dime, lead her protect her. She loyal and real men take care of loyal chicks.
my young bytch, I'm madddddd stingy w her cuz I know shes a user and has no goals in life. Eventually I will probably try pimpin her on some real shyt. fukk her.
my first BM..-- I still take care of her when I can. I'm a simp on purpose because I know she lacks motivation even with a masters degree.
other bm - -- I don't give her shyt. She doesn't really have shyt. But I know she has potential so I want to allow her to grow.
So IMO it just depends on the woman , if u go HOH, simp, or real man.
So your "main" chick is loyal not money hungry and you cheating on her with money hungry hoes...
no, I'm thinking about not cheating anymore...
any Female can be loyal and nice n shyt at first..... That's how they trap nikkas in
... I had to let her put her time in over a year of complete loyalty and dedication before I could get comfortable.
I can't ride with the "neither should you" part, but personally, I feel the same way
I've seen countless men who i consider men have great careers, created unions with (presumably) good women and had multiple children in nice homes.
Only to see them fail because they invested in everything but themselves (divorce came and she took the house, cars, kids, alimony) and him in major debt and depression.
If you've got your health and you're taking care of your own business your own way and making sure your immediately family is straight, burn zero bridges with anybody (cuz i
think that's just bad ethics overall, you never know breaigh)... you'll be fine.
Everybody has their time, and if not, some choose not to procreate/get married. Why is that so bad?
I understand if you owned a farm and want a bevy of offspring to help you with livestock and agriculture, but nowadays, in this contemporary society... one and done. 2 max.
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Only to see them fail because they invested in everything but themselves (divorce came and she took the house, cars, kids, alimony) and him in major debt and depression.
If you've got your health and you're taking care of your own business your own way and making sure your immediately family is straight, burn zero bridges with anybody (cuz i
think that's just bad ethics overall, you never know breaigh)... you'll be fine.
Everybody has their time, and if not, some choose not to procreate/get married. Why is that so bad?
I understand if you owned a farm and want a bevy of offspring to help you with livestock and agriculture, but nowadays, in this contemporary society... one and done. 2 max.
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I disagree, I don't have anything to prove, besides even if u a black man that's hardworking etc the system gun find a way to put u down Aswell as society so I don't feel like it matters.
The Gul I'm fukking with now never had a job, no experience I was able to help her with my experience get a job, teach her a few things to be more confident and now it's paying off for me, I like it that way the less stress on my body the better I can focus on investments and our overall quality of life.
The Gul I'm fukking with now never had a job, no experience I was able to help her with my experience get a job, teach her a few things to be more confident and now it's paying off for me, I like it that way the less stress on my body the better I can focus on investments and our overall quality of life.
Ethnic Vagina Finder
The Great Paper Chaser
I think some of you are missing the point. Take the woman out of the equation. It's all about self pride. I'm not saying you HAVE to provide but you should always strive to BE ABLE TO if you WANT TO.
Then y not just say don't be a broke nikka?
nah
if i have to invest in a female then she wasnt worthy in the 1st place
no one needs to invest in me
so why would i do more for a female than she has to do for me
no broad walking the globe is better than me
and u said
"And the best way to get a hoes devotion is to provide her with structure and material things"
nikka
i really hope u dont believe that dumb shyt
that would not lead to devotion that would lead to her gassing your dumbass thinking you got her when the reality is she is just there till your money dries
please get the fukk out here with your pimp dreams
