if the number 1 thing women look for is a man with a stable job....

[iBrowse]

But I wish a bytch would.....we need riders not a bytch who's just going along for a ride

 

[mamba]

A man that is ambitious and that values his his family will not stay jobless for long. He will make himself useful one way or another. Very different from a man that is lazy and would rather see his wife work and take care of his kids while he gets catered to.
Women despise lazy men not to be confused with men that have fallen on hard times. I will not leave my husband for forces that be, I will leave a man that is lazy and expects me to foot his lifestyle.

If women despised lazy nikkas, there'd be a lot more homeless Black men outchea on these streets, brehette.

Vast majority of lazy nikkas in Black America still sleep in a bed or on a couch, get a hot meal, and wet p*ssy at night--all of those things provided by women who, according to you, despise lazy men!

 

[semtex]

*has a stable job*

*is 23*

 

[NobodyReally]

What happens if he loses it?



Is he no longer of value in your mind?

Effort counts for a lot in my book. I understand the challenge of finding employment after being fired or laid off. It's not a deal breaker. But he can't stay down and not put any effort into looking for another gig. That is a deal breaker.

 

[MurderSheWrote]

Who do you think you are foolin?

Sweetie everyone on this site is not broke, uneducated, and struggling...sorry to disappoint you! Chicks with good sense aim for the top not the bottom when it comes to men who can provide. Don't hate...get off welfare and unemployment and you too can live this life.

 

[mamba]

http://www.vox.com/2014/9/24/6838873/cant-find-a-good-husband-lets-ask-janet-yellen-to-help

@Emperor_ReinScarf

I wonder how many of those 51 are actually in careers as opposed to being the fry cook at Wendy's or some shyt?

A Black man with a real career, no kids, no criminal record, his own spot, makin' >$50K is literally a damn unicorn outchea, brehettes!

If you find one, you better go all out to convince that nikka to wife you up.