"If there isn’t a rapist in the room, you won’t be raped. No matter what you’re wearing”

[TripleAgent]

nikka it's called personal accountability and common sense. U do things to keep urself safe cause u know there's evil people out there. I'm not gonna walk around in a strange hood with a diamond necklace and all kinda jewelry flashing. Wanna know why? Cause I know it's wolves out there. I'm not gonna put myself in awkward spots. Of course people SHOULDNT do shyt. But u gotta teach people some fukking street smarts and common sense as well.

Victims extra victim-y today. As if you can't make your odds worse.

And before anyone says some bullshyt, I advocate killing rapists and child predators if you have concrete proof.

 

[Neuromancer]

Sadly this is super common, I'm 43 and have always had really close female friends, had numerous relationships over the past 3 decades and I would say probably 90% of girls I was with on a somewhat consistent romantic basis and roughly 80% of all my homegirls who I've known for a couple years or more, basically all the females in my life where there was a comfort/trust level between us have confided in me that they've experienced some form of sexual assault, from molestation to straight up rape to varying degrees of foul shyt in between.

Many, many, many instances in these conversations it's also come to light that the overwhelming majority (higher percentage than my stats) of females they know be it family members, friends, classmates, coworkers etc have experienced some form of sexual assault.

Annectodal evidence or not youd be hard pressed to find a female who's 25 that hasn't experienced some perpetration that falls somewhere on the s.a. spectrum by that age.

It definitely has nothing to do with how a perpetrator is raised or anything to do with the victim, from all socio economic backgrounds to females who are "promiscuous" to unassuming nerds who are "a sexual" theres no checklist of indicators that make a female more prone to being assaulted. Are the numbers gonna be higher amongst sex workers? Yeah, for sure, theres exceptions to every rule but, a 12 year old rich girl who goes to a private school is just as vulnerable or likely to being molested by a relative or a teacher or a neighbor as a "low income area project chick"

The only thing I would say that differs in how the way you're raised comes into play would be males reactions to the revelation a girl/woman they know was molested/raped, in my experience the more "working class" a male is the less likely he is to cover for peers perpetrating these acts and the more prone he is to an act of vigilantism.

You hit the nail on the head with not wired right, theres no rehabilitation for a rapist or pdf file, they have an insane resitivism rate and literally cant stop themselves from reoffending, even in scenarios they know they're almost certain to get caught they still commit the act. The only cure is to smoke them, life in prison isn't even the answer cause they get some type of contact with the outside world and they're flashing they're egg shaped dikks on omegle on an authority monitored tablet. Societies reaction (especially in North America) is a massive problem that really is not being addressed even in this supposed age of #metoo #timesup
It varies state to state but it's very common for first time offenders to skate with probation

I watched a video on YouTube recently with a guy who's american but was living in Germany at the time who raped and murdered a 15 year old girl when he was 18 or 19 and because of his age he only got a 6 year sentence in a juvenile facility and was out in 3 years and moved back to the states where he then brutally assaulted and raped another teen girl and somehow got a 6 month sentence and only ended up serving 3 months which he did on weekends only so as to not jeopardize his employment. Fast forward 30 years later and with new DNA technology they got him dead to rights on another murder and rape of a teen girl in Berkley, CA iirc and when the fbi executed the search warrant on his crib they found an insane stockpile of VHS and polaroids of children from the area over decades that he had made himself including c.p. where hes visibly on camera assaulting numerous kids. The fbi offered him a plea deal to not charge him for the murder if he plead guilty to a production of c.p. charge, he also accidentally admitted to another rape and murder of a teen girl in the interrogation at the station.

When it was all said and done the 2 rape and murders were tried separately and the 1st one he was found guilty and somehow his sentence was 6 years to life...finally on the last murder he got natural life no parole. But cottdamn it took 3 murders 4 rapes and decades of sexual assault victims on video for them to give him a real prison term.
For some comparative context when I was 19 I got a possession of a controlled substance with intent to distribute and my first offer was 7 years. Try to make any of this math make sense you can't.

Do I even need to ask how white he was?

I have a question then. If we are not rapists or SAr's are we then outliers? If so many women experience this but we've never done it are we the exception?

 

[Don Snow]

A non rapist and a rapist don’t think the same

With A non rapist , rape just doesn't cross their mind regardless of what a person is wearing


And yes a rapist would do it regardless of what a person is wearing but I don’t think it’s far fetched to think a more revealing outfit would trigger a rapist quicker than a non revealing one

 

[Ohene]

A non rapist and a rapist don’t think the same

With A non rapist , rape just doesn't cross their mind regardless of what a person is wearing


And yes a rapist would do it regardless of what a person is wearing but I don’t think it’s far fetched to think a more revealing outfit would trigger a rapist quicker than a non revealing one

Common sense
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[Devilinurear]

@Still Benefited what are your thoughts?

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

What I will say is a woman is likely to be harassed by inviting certain attention

However the lines between harassment to assault to rape are clear a lot of men and women both engage in some form of of harassment

Whether due to clumsy courtship attempts or are seen as unattractive by the person they’re pursuing

But most sensible people know where to draw the line not to forcibly grab or touch inappropriately

Those who don’t may stop short of full assaults because they know they were acting out of pocket

Then you have the full degenerate who doesn’t care and will do whatever whether opportunistic or planned

 

[hashmander]

the funny thing is even the "victim blaming" posts in here are basically in agreement with "If there isn’t a rapist in the room, you won’t be raped. No matter what you’re wearing”. it's either you agree with the quote or not. good men who are tempted into doing something like rape because of careless women flaunting it don't exist.

 

[KingSol81]

I have a question then. If we are not rapists or SAr's are we then outliers? If so many women experience this but we've never done it are we the exception?

I.dont think so no, I think the majority of men dont rape or s.a. on any level, which makes you realize the proliferative nature or these ppl, there's an assessment that seems to ring true that it might be the first time a predator gets caught but it wont be their first victim