She's right. A rapist doesn't give a fukk what someone's wearing or not wearing if they want to rape they'll do it.
Everything else is just people trying to come up with excuses for rapists because they'd low key want to rape people too and need a reason to absolve themselves of responsibility if they ever acted on their desires.
Whether a woman being scantily dressed makes it more appealing for a rapist to act on his desire to harm the woman does not absolve the man of responsibility for his actions nor does it make rape a benign act. If I left my door unlocked and someone robbed me, robbery is still wrong. If I see an unlocked car with key in the ignition, I'm still committing a crime by entering and driving the car away. The onus is still on me to not be a piece of shyt. If you don't understand this, its because you don't want to and you need some sort of leway to be shielded from punishment when you decide to harm someone else. You're not a good person and need to actually do some introspection and figure out why you're like this.