if u in a relationship, yet feel the need to have a ni@@a on the side....

[Sugar]

Maaaan I haven't even been cheated on, but yall nikkas are making me unsure and shyt

fukk yall!

 

[Just like bruddas]

I agree. I can speak from personal experience when it comes to ignoring the seeds of warning signs in the beginning, that begin to take root as the relationship grows. Yeah, she was a dirty bish, but as a man, upon reflection, I realize that I overlooked her negative qualities for superficial concerns. Its MY responsiblity in the end. Thats how a nicca grows and learns. You can be "hard on these hoes" while still maintaining your gentleman swag, dignity, and respect for the opposite sex....most importantly, respect for yourself. The fck these niqqas keep whining and cryin around here for?

Breh you got my respect for this post, cause a simple co-sign wouldnt do it any justice.

They lack personal experience and they dont wanna take responsibility for their mistakes. shyt is sad man, they rather huddle up and take shyt like about the chick, but no one wanna talk about the nikka that dated her

Cant go around blaming hoes for being hoes. Blame yourself for even getting caught up

 

[Ohene]

edit

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Cant go around blaming hoes for being hoes. Blame yourself for even getting caught up

 

[sfgiants]

tell him to send her nudes to her father.
that'll fix her lil wagon

 

[b_low_brown]

Maaaan I haven't even been cheated on, but yall nikkas are making me unsure and shyt

fukk yall!

That's the thing


How can you be 100% sure?


You can't

 

[winb83]

to you everyone is a shooter breh, stop being a bytch.

its like the nikka bet all his chips on the Heat and they lost and you coming through "well you should have picked the better team then you would have won"

 

[winb83]

so what's the solution breh

stay single for life?

take the chance and hope you get lucky i guess.

if somebody wants to deceive you about who they are they're in a good position to do it by default because all you know about them is what they let you see. if they're careful enough they can catch the inconsistencies and hide them.

More like people ignore the broken lock w/ scrapes on it, the footprints on the front steps, and the shadows moving around on the inside and still end up opening the door anyway.

Warning signs are ALWAYS present off top, but people will look past them out of desperation, lust, etc.

sometimes that's true but not always.

when you meet a person you don't really know who you're dealing with. you have to watch them like a hawk and look for the inconsistencies. if they do their job right you won't find them or at least not in time.

there's a way to go about hiding who you really are or your agenda. it usually involves carefully crafting your story and minimizing your exposure.

back when i used to live with my parents in my mid 20s i told chicks the opposite. i had a "roommate" and he was trouble. had one of my friends that stayed on his own play that part. only one chick ever figured out i was lying because i fukked up and said something that contradicted my cover story. i even used to tell them my parent's car was mine. i had access to it whenever i wanted so they never knew it wasn't.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

We'll stop having side nikkas, when y'all stop having side bytches.

 

[winb83]

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Breh you got my respect for this post, cause a simple co-sign wouldnt do it any justice.

They lack personal experience and they dont wanna take responsibility for their mistakes. shyt is sad man, they rather huddle up and take shyt like about the chick, but no one wanna talk about the nikka that dated her

Cant go around blaming hoes for being hoes. Blame yourself for even getting caught up

yeah sometimes mistakes are made but sometimes you just picked wrong.

some people went to work on 9/11 and never came home. after the fact and person could stroll up and say its their fault they died cause if they would have called in that day and stayed home they'd still be alive. in reality no mistake was made. they just chose the wrong day to go to work.

i'm all for personal accountability but sometimes men date chicks and get done dirty and they never saw it coming. from personal experience if your woman wants to fukk around on you its easy for her to make that happen when you aren't around.

 

[Just like bruddas]

yeah sometimes mistakes are made but sometimes you just picked wrong.

some people went to work on 9/11 and never came home. after the fact and person could stroll up and say its their fault they died cause if they would have called in that day and stayed home they'd still be alive. in reality no mistake was made. they just chose the wrong day to go to work.

i'm all for personal accountability but sometimes men date chicks and get done dirty and they never saw it coming. from personal experience if your woman wants to fukk around on you its easy for her to make that happen when you aren't around.

youre just trying to justify not trusting anyone.

Psychology and Signs of Trust Issues, Therapy for Trust Issues

get help breh