If Ur Girlfriend Got Raped....Stay Or Go?

[MaxPain]

Some of these dudes are hypermasculine and immature. They take the notion of "sharing" a girl to extremes like its a joke. Imagine a girl getting forced down and penetrated against her will and she's too weak to fight him off. Then your boyfriend ups and leaves you like it's your fault and he doesnt want to "share" you. What type of foolishness???

Would u stay with a man if he got raped?

 

[Zero]

I'm leaving if the rapist was bigger than I am...

 

[Figaro]

I'd eventually leave but not straight away brehs, y'all nikkas are cold blooded, b

Around 6 months after the incident, i'll drop the....'it's me, not you'

That extra emotional baggage might just be too much for me in a relationship

 

[dizzy4111]

what is supposed to come of this question?

of course i stay with my girl. you hope to give emotional support to help get them back to a good place, just like i would want my woman to be there for me if i go through a traumatic experience.

some of you take being perceived "pimps and players" too damn far. man, thats just being a decent human being.

thank you

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I’ve been with chicks that have been raped.

But let’s flip the question to the brehs, if you were to go to prison and you got your cheeks taken, should your chick stay with you?

No. I wouldn't have the emotional capacity to deal with that.

 

[TheGreatMTB]

the hell is wrong with you nikkas?

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I've been with a girl who was raped. It was before we met. Really depend on her mental and if you can deal with it.

unfortunately a large percentage of women have been raped and/or molested.....

depends on her mental state....my ex had both done to her....i would advise steering clear of women like this

 

[MaxPain]

No. I wouldn't have the emotional capacity to deal with that.

Finally a brehette who keeps it real.


I dont blame you at all. Thats some emasculating shyt.

 

[Gothboi J]

Depends..... on how she got raped. nikka caught her lacking and blew her back out ima stay. But if she was hella drunk at a party and got a fukked without permission ima bounce . not because she got raped but because she clearly is a thot and/or dumbass to put herself in such a compromising position

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Finally a brehette who keeps it real.


I dont blame you at all. Thats some emasculating shyt.

yeah.. I'm sorry.. the thoughts and visualizing that would go through my head. I know that it may not be his fault, but the thought of my man being overpowered/intimidated by another man and forced into sexual submission. I couldn't deal.. then for me to be intimate, the images of a man of power and authority wouldn't be there anymore. Think it would be different, in my mind, if he was molested in the younger years (god forbid) bc a young child has no control, that's being victimized. If I see a man lose a fair one to one fight.. I'm looking at him sus..

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Finally a brehette who keeps it real.


I dont blame you at all. Thats some emasculating shyt.

Is that superficial though? on my part? I just see it as part of the whole respect issue. (my level of tolerance is low on a good day.. lol)

 

[Gothboi J]

Most women have been raped or molested before from my experiences in talking to them.

real talk like 95% bytches have a rape or molestation story. Honestly I think a lot of men do too we just don't say shyt. I got molested by 2 different females as a kid

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

If a girl tells you she been raped, run and run fast. Girls do this thing right, where they chalk up regrettable things they've done to a circumstance out of their control or they will straight up live in denial. For example, if a girl loses her virginity to a guy and the relationship falls apart and she grows to hate him or for some reason she regrets doing it, better believe in her head she's a virgin and she will tell you that. Same thing with rape. Women love revising their past actions to fit their current situation. Yes bytches get raped but most of the time it's just regret and disappointment and they use rape as a pacifier to put their mind at ease. Girls that usually claim they've been raped are promiscuous and it's a huge red flag

 

[MaxPain]

Is that superficial though? on my part? I just see it as part of the whole respect issue. (my level of tolerance is low on a good day.. lol)

I mean I guess. I dont wanna be with a woman whose been raped past or present either. U just one of the few women telling the truth when I know most women will do otherwise irl but say they wont. I honestly dont blame anyone for not wanting to play Dr Phil. If ur a decent enough person ull atleast stay around for support but as a friend.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

I'll have to elaborate on this topic but the answer is no.
The reason for this is that Im a person who is absolutely not into/looking for an actual relationship, Im a fwb/ons guy, always was and at this point in life Im still not into/ready for something "serious". So even imagining a situation where Im in an actual relationship and gotta be loyal/with just one single girl is a challenge for me. The aftermaths of events like being raped and the mental scars from that are like 10 levels too big for me to handle and provide the help needed afterwards...