black women aren't giving up them weaves any time soon. im convinced most would rather starve and live on the streets rather than go w/o their hats. so i can say is if you take one of these types seriously and get her pregnant, hope you dont end up with a daughter.
If you a dude and talk about weave & hair styles more than a woman....your probably a virgin B
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now you know we can have that in here....
Only on the coli will "men" sit around talking about weaves more than women like sissies, attack women for not wanting to be antagonized and attack men for saying you should talk to people with respect if you want them to listen.
What on earth does beauty and aesthetics have to do with logic not to mention half the shyt human beings do on a daily basis?
When the only thing you have is a hammer every problem starts to look like a nail.
because these standards of "beauty" are malleable.
thats kinda the point.
I'm not looking for "logic" per se, but consistency so excuse me if you took that to mean that this was a philosophical argument.
The point is that black women (as apart of the ~12% of the black population in the US) are following the dominant society.
Theres no if/ands/but's about that.
White standards of hair care are dominant and its ridiculous to even try and bring this up since you all don't like to admit that SUBCONSCIOUSLY you're being influenced to not prefer your own hair.
Thats how subconscious arguments work. You defend them to the point of irrationality.
You've literally got scores of black women who DO NOT LIKE THEIR HAIR AND DO NOT FORCE THE REST OF THE WORLD TO ACCEPT IT....whether that be at work or in the streets. Black women can come together and change mass perceptions of their image.
But they don't want to.
Its not even saying that they hate themselves...its more subtle than that.
Thats why you let women ...rather TOLERATE women coming up with bullshyt arguments to avoid the dispute. "it protects my hair" etc.
What.
The.
fukk.
Ever.
nikkas ain't dumb...they just don't wanna argue, so they go along with it. Either they don't wanna lose the girl or want that "you can't stop my beauty" etc argument. whatever.
Don't play me like you don't know what i'm talking about either.
At the end of the day, white/asian women aren't going out there copping Jew Fro's and looking for black hair outside of halloween costumes.
Ya'll better peep game INSTANTLY.
Busted_Toes
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What has been said that has been disrespectful? I admit i wouldn't save a black feminist from drowning if i was Aquaman but other than that i've been respectful to the black women that deservce to be respected.
fukk a black feminist.
Nintendough
#Kliq
Your obsession with weave is disturbing. I swear yall worry so much about how women dress and perform cosmetics that yall secretly wanna be women on the low.
Hair doesn't reflect a persons morals or standards.
Why weave?
Thats my argument.
I'm all for women "doing what they want"...but "doing what you want" also includes skin-bleaching and all sorts of other things.
just because you can do "what you want" doesn't mean you actually LIKE your self image.
I'm referring to the comment about calling men soft simply because when they disagree with something-they prefer a logical debate over just talking shyt. What's soft about that?
So go make your thread about drone strikes or child literacy so you can stop trivializing arguments taking place in THIS thread.
Zeus forbid we actually talk about a topic defined in the actual fukking title.
Only on The Coli do men have a thread dedicated to basketball highlights...can't they just watch ESPN???
Yeah...you're an idiot.
I'm not sure who the actual virgin is at this point since you sound like you've either taken too many women studies classes or haven't actually talked to any women. I'm not sure.
Either way, hair DOES reflect your standards and personal image.
If you're copping hair from the indian subcontinent to get SEWN in to tracks laid throughout your scalp so that you can look "presentable" to the world...then yes, i'd say that has SOME bearing on how you view yourself.
So go make your thread about drone strikes or child literacy so you can stop trivializing arguments taking place in THIS thread.
didnt say u couldnt discuss this or anything else, made simple comment.
imma let yall cook
Nintendough
#Kliq
Its none of your business why, you aren't a woman. You don't know the insecurities, pains or desires a woman has because you aren't one. This is an issue for women to resolve within themselves. Our job is to love and support their natural beauty and hope they lean towards that. If they decide not to, love them anyway because we surely aren't perfect.
my waves are SUPER natural. all I gotta do is literally brush my hair.I think Black men look better with their hair grown out (i.e. no shaved or bald heads for me) and I legit dislike waves that clearly required a ton of work to look that way.
However most people would never know because I don't spend every waking moment talking about it. That's just the way people who aren't mentally ill/emotionally damaged operate I guess
Its funny doe...last week I saw my ex again and we was chillin at her crib
I got my hand through her hair and ofc her ass was like "u betta get ya hand out my hair dnt fck it up"
Now usually this type of thing dnt get to me..cuz its just something u gotta accept with alot of these black girls
But because ive been on the coli...i literally felt disgusted after she said that
Like I was legit turned off
Lmaoo shyts crazy
I got my hand through her hair and ofc her ass was like "u betta get ya hand out my hair dnt fck it up"
Now usually this type of thing dnt get to me..cuz its just something u gotta accept with alot of these black girls
But because ive been on the coli...i literally felt disgusted after she said that
Like I was legit turned off
Lmaoo shyts crazy