If you can't handle the friend zone you shouldn't be dating.

Oceanicpuppy

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If your aren't willing to be friends with someone then you really don't dig the person in the first place.

A good friendship is the base for a healthy relationship.

What do ya'll think?
 

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If your aren't willing to be friends with someone then you really don't dig the person in the first place.

A good friendship is the base for a healthy relationship.

What do ya'll think?
i think its unhealthy to be around someone you have feelings for especially if the other person is aware :manny:
 

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i think its unhealthy to be around someone you have feelings for especially if the other person is aware :manny:
Fair enough. However, It's like that person just likes the thought off that person not actually the real qualities of that person.

I understand people need time to heal from rejection but if you truly like the what that person brings to your life that should not stop the platonic relationship just because your ego is bruised.
 

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Naw friendzone isn't good for your mental state. If you like a person and u want to pursue a relationship and they know that but don't feel the same don't talk to them anymore. You will always wonder why they don't want you or why you aren't good enough. Don't even put up with that.

Friendzone is different from true friends.
 

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Naw friendzone isn't good for your mental state. If you like a person and u want to pursue a relationship and they know that but don't feel the same don't talk to them anymore. You will always wonder why they don't want you or why you aren't good enough. Don't even put up with that.

Friendzone is different from true friends.
Can you explain the difference between friend zone and true friend? Shouldn't your spouse be your true friend?
 

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Can you explain the difference between friend zone and true friend? Shouldn't your spouse be your true friend?
well there are different types of friendzones.

Ex. 1. The person u don't like but you can't tell them they are ugly and wack
2. The person you might need one day so u stay in their good graces
3. The person u truly don't like, like that but u actually want to remain cool or friends with them.

A true friend is someone you can really bond with, you have things in common, you have a good time together.

Your true friend can obviously become your partner.
 

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If you had greater feelings for the person and got rejected then friend zoned then you are lost and that is not a space to occupy. If you genuinely enjoy being platonic friends with someone of the opposite sex then that is a real friendship.

No one sets out to get relegated to the zone so u can't try to act like its the place to be :mjlol:
 

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Naw friendzone isn't good for your mental state. If you like a person and u want to pursue a relationship and they know that but don't feel the same don't talk to them anymore. You will always wonder why they don't want you or why you aren't good enough. Don't even put up with that.

Friendzone is different from true friends.
If you a dweller you gonna wonder either way.
 

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If you had greater feelings for the person and got rejected then friend zoned then you are lost and that is not a space to occupy. If you genuinely enjoy being platonic friends with someone of the opposite sex then that is a real friendship.

No one sets out to get relegated to the zone so u can't try to act like its the place to be :mjlol:
Being her friend puts you closer to the p*ssy, than being a whiney little bytch who runs away cuz he didn't smash right away.
 

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u will get over if faster though
No you won't. You gone b thunking damn I should've stayed in contact with her. What if she's trying to find me. In my experience the more time you spend with most females the less you like them anyway.
 
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