If you can't handle the friend zone you shouldn't be dating.

[KinksandCoils]

No you won't. You gone b thunking damn I should've stayed in contact with her. What if she's trying to find me. In my experience the more time you spend with most females the less you like them anyway.

Let's say u are in a bad relationship. YALL keep breaking up every month. And over a course of let's say 5 yrs YALL end it. Imagine how u would have felt if u officially ended it and never talked to them again when YALL first got together versus how u feel after being with them for yrs. The more you're emotional invested the worse things are and typically people are more emotional invested the longer they deal with the person.

I've had a friend keep getting back with her ex and it's like, damn girl if u got rid of him the first time I told u, after all these yrs u would be over him by now.

 

[re'up]

If I am torn up, head over heels, I can't be 'friends' in that sense….has to be like wish you the best from afar, doesn't mean I dislike them, or can't handle a friendship, it's simply inherently unhealthy to be all close to someone, who isn't willing or feeling you like that, at least for awhile.

If am not in the previously mentioned category as far as my own feelings, I have no problem being friends, some form of relationship that isn't dating, and isn't a strictly platonic friendship and doesn't preclude a lack of sex or mutual attraction. Theres women I would date seriously, that I am cool with, and I'd guess they have somewhat similar feelings…but I'm not worried stressing on it, or overly emotionally invested, as in the first scenario.. I like the friend zone/true friends comparison….

 

[Danny Up]

Let's say u are in a bad relationship. YALL keep breaking up every month. And over a course of let's say 5 yrs YALL end it. Imagine how u would have felt if u officially ended it and never talked to them again when YALL first got together versus how u feel after being with them for yrs. The more you're emotional invested the worse things are and typically people are more emotional invested the longer they deal with the person.

I've had a friend keep getting back with her ex and it's like, damn girl if u got rid of him the first time I told u, after all these yrs u would be over him by now.

LOL@this nonsense. You regret your relationship. Big whop. People regret relationship all the time "good" or "bad". Guess no one should ever enter into one. They should all just regret never getting into one.

That's a theory, not fact. People leave people alone for years and still pine for em. Time doesn't erase "real feelings".

 

[KinksandCoils]

LOL@this nonsense. You regret your relationship. Big whop. People regret relationship all the time "good" or "bad". Guess no one should ever enter into one. They should all just regret never getting into one.

That's a theory, not fact. People leave people alone for years and still pine for em. Time doesn't erase "real feelings".

what I said just blew right over your head.

 

[Danny Up]

what I said just blew right over your head.

Because you did not say anything. If a nikka has a good relationship with a bytch for 12 years, then shyt goes bad. He might think "i wish I never me that bytch". If a nikka messing with a bytch for 6 months and dead her. he might say. "Damn I shouldn't have ended that". What if's is part of life. Its just how a person deals with it.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Because you did not say anything. If a nikka has a good relationship with a bytch for 12 years, then shyt goes bad. He might think "i wish I never me that bytch". If a nikka messing with a bytch for 6 months and dead her. he might say. "Damn I shouldn't have ended that". What if's is part of life. Its just how a person deals with it.

that's not what I'm talking about. Just because u didn't comprehend what I said it doesn't mean that I didn't say anything.

The whole point is the longer u are involved with someone the more you are invested in them emotionally. So if u really like someone and they don't like u then don't be around them because u will be more emotional invested if u keep dealing with them versus the person that says dueces from the start.

 

[TheArchitect]

It's not a matter if "can/can't", but more "why"?....

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Being her friend puts you closer to the p*ssy, than being a whiney little bytch who runs away cuz he didn't smash right away.

I hope your 12 with this shyt lmao... You gonna be giving her advice on men while she getting her back blown out and telling u bout it.

 

[Suicide King]

Friendzone has nothing to do with dating, it has everything with being rejected.

If she says lets be friends, she will never hear from me again. I'll be @ her phone calls and text. I'll return them to be courteous, but I will spend zero energy or brain power on the convo.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

If your aren't willing to be friends with someone then you really don't dig the person in the first place.

A good friendship is the base for a healthy relationship.

What do ya'll think?

how the hell you supposed to REALLY DIG the person and you JUST met... we ain't talking about females you're friends with for years, then you try to holla, then you get placed BACK in the friendzone... no no no


i seen her out... I WANTED TO GET AT HER OFF TOP... then she said no... but we can be friends... well i don't even know you.. how the hell you know i want to be your friend? i came over here to be your lover

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I hope your 12 with this shyt lmao... You gonna be giving her advice on men while she getting her back blown out and telling u bout it.

nikkas do that everyday b


i got a whole list of female friends... who ask me what the fukk is wrong with their men... and the second they'd slide those panties down, i'd dive in like michael phelps

you not supposed to just linger up her ass... IF you wanna play this game, there's really no harm..


you holla, she says nah but gives you the number/info to keep in touch.. you hit her up every so often to see how she is, knowing if she opens the door, you gonna smash...

now this is the most important part... YOU GO ABOUT DOING YOU. fukk 150 bytches if you want... tell her about it... lie to her about it... who gives a fukk.

you are literally losing nothing, by having her on the team.. she's basically a hold out.. you not gonna pay her more (attention) than your people at the game... but you ain't gonna cut her from the squad either, cause she might show up at any point and she is your allstar running back



and that's something else.. i'd only do this with an 8 or above.. i gotta reaaaaaaaaaaaaaally want to hit in order to let you linger around. but at no time would i be steady asking her out... not fukking other broads... simping... hitting her up everyday... asking her when she's gonna give me a shot... none of that