If you could be in your 20s again, what would you do different?

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i actually used to do this alot in my undergrad years...but once that was over...i never got on track...the only time i ever read now for recreation is when im on a plane or bus ride and its terrible
Hmmm...I was reading your post and I was actually going to suggest that.

I've posted this before but most of my reading is on what I call stolen time.

Those moments you're taking that train to school/work, say you have a 20 minute commute. That's 40 minutes a day. That's 200 mins every 5 day week. Many courses are, what, 50 min a class w/ 2 classes per week? We are talking about 200 minutes of potential learning time that many people waste on candy crush. You could learn a whole new skill in stolen time.

Audiobooks are great as well for when you are standing or driving or just can't find a practical way to read a physical book.

The only time I really take time out specifically for reading - that's not stolen time - is when I'm on lunch on nice days and I go read outside somewhere with a lot of traffic. I take advantage of the part of me that is arrogant and narcissistic - I like to be seen. So, use that time, HONESTLY, to read and not to keep looking up to see if people are looking at me read. Ha.
Now, yes, it sucks that we have these negative elements to our personalities, but for those that we can't change, we need to ride them to our benefit. If I know I stroke my own ego when I look "smart and savvy", well, fukk it, I know I'm going to get less bored when I use that to my advantage and read at the times that it helps satisfy both. *Technically, it's the same reason why I like to read on my commutes as well.

I DEAD ASS became a MEME when this girl on the train took a sneak picture of me and shared it on her IG and my nephew happen to know her and was like, "Unc, nikka, were you on the train coming from the Bronx today?!" I was like yea, he was like yoooooo, this shyt is crazy, look at this. And sure enough, the jawn had taken a sneak picture of me reading and shared it with a caption of like, "This is my type of man, ambitious" or some variation. That shyt was fukking hilarious and crazy!

But, aside from all of that, I'm actually trying to retain the info instead of just stuntin and not really reading the shyt.:russ:

shyt, you make me think that would be another thing a 20 year old should know...use your vices to your advantage. If you have narcissistic tendencies? Try to apply it to a benefit. You have aggression issues? nikka, get into boxing and change your life. You find yourself feeling purposeless, unfulfilled and are a risk taker? nikka, save up and find a program or self create a plan to LIVE in a South American Country or Spain and force yourself to learn another language....YOU'LL COME BACK A WHOLE NEW VERSION OF YOURSELF. It'll be like social life's version of going into the Marines.
 

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A. Don't get married, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

B. Leave the church you're in, you're in a cult, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

C. Save money and stop spending your extra loan checks on bullsh*t, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

D. Change your major to Information Systems, not Art Education, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

E. Travel, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

F. Quit letting your money burn a hole in your pocket, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

G. Move to Chicago, dumb-ass:bpufedup:


H. You can work on your art in your free time, dumb-ass :bpufedup:
Aye T'Challa, you know you're my nikka, breh.

You aren't nor were you dumb...you were uneducated on those topics.

Now, you are wise and can pass your knowledge on. That's called being a wiseman or an elder...no one thinks they are dumb.:salute:
 

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A. Don't get married, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

B. Leave the church you're in, you're in a cult, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

C. Save money and stop spending your extra loan checks on bullsh*t, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

D. Change your major to Information Systems, not Art Education, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

E. Travel, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

F. Quit letting your money burn a hole in your pocket, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

G. Move to Chicago, dumb-ass:bpufedup:


H. You can work on your art in your free time, dumb-ass :bpufedup:

Other than A, B, and G I’m doing everything you wish you did! :russ:

Stay up though breh. Fr. :salute:
 

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Aye T'Challa, you know you're my nikka, breh.

You aren't nor were you dumb...you were uneducated on those topics.

Now, you are wise and can pass your knowledge on. That's called being a wiseman or an elder...no one thinks they are dumb.:salute:

I always strive to be better than I was before.

Who I was yesterday is not sufficient for who I need to be tomorrow. :wakandasalute:
 

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- Would have either bypassed grad school - instead focusing on maximizing my undergrad time in terms of real-world experience in my current field -- entirely or gotten a grad assistantship in my current field.

- Developed the habit of body maintenance/working out and such.

- Nurture my mind more. I swear I feel dumber after college than I did going into it, and a lot of that has to do with the fact that my THIRST for knowledge subsided greatly in college. I literally started learning shyt long enough to pass a test.

- Taken more shots at the opposite sex. Just for the hell of it.
 

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shyt, you make me think that would be another thing a 20 year old should know...use your vices to your advantage. If you have narcissistic tendencies? Try to apply it to a benefit. You have aggression issues? nikka, get into boxing and change your life.

this is actually a regret from my 20s...in my mid to late 20s i was a beast with my workouts including boxing...that shyt had me looking right and flat out dangerous...i was really narcissistic during that time with how i looked..then the injuries came and it was a downhill from there...i gotta much needed dose on humility lol
 

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-BUY MORE BITCOIN...lol

-Don't use yo injury as an excuse to not work out seriously you'll have to work twice as hard in your early 30s

-70% of the people you know and love are dying in ya 20s.....don't dwell on it

-you gonna dump that bytch when you 22....dump her at 20 that was a teenage love it didn't work in adulthood
 

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I always strive to be better than I was before.

Who I was yesterday is not sufficient for who I need to be tomorrow. :wakandasalute:
nikka, shut your privileged ass up.

If you get jammed up, all your elders need to do is bury you in some mystic sand

Yell at your ancestors
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and then you wake up with your bills paid.


#WakandanPrivilege
 

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this is actually a regret from my 20s...in my mid to late 20s i was a beast with my workouts including boxing...that shyt had me looking right and flat out dangerous...i was really narcissistic during that time with how i looked..then the injuries came and it was a downhill from there...i gotta much needed dose on humility lol
Breh, REP.

Be thankful for that! I believe I'm a narcissist but I try very hard not to try to shyt on others around me to make myself feel better. I think the worst people are the narcissists that REALLY think their own shyt doesn't stink. I hate being around people who do not know humility.

I feel like my humility has become one of my most cherished feelings.
 

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- Travel more

- Get into the translation business

- Practice some kind of art (painting or photography)

- Learn more languages

- Go live in Portugal as I had an opportunity to do so. Also try to spend some time in Montreal and/or NY

- Go back more often to Central African Republic
The translation biz bout $$$ or you're just interested in communicating?
 

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The translation biz bout $$$ or you're just interested in communicating?

Both really, I'm interested in languages regardless (speak 3 well, 2 so-so and can read in another one) so translation would've been a good way to make a living out of it.
 
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