If you don’t have a shorty down for you by 25, is it over for you?

[badtguy]

Some of yall put way too much stock into finding a wife like it's 1965 nikkas want to settle down at 25 just so they can cheat on a "shorty whose down for them". No man is ready to settle down forreal before 30. And most cats who have options ain't gonna be faithful until about 40

Every dude I know who married well, fine wives who were leveled headed.

Did exactly that. You supposed to find that one chick and keep her around until you’re ready to settle down.

It’s not only about settling down at 25 it’s about finding a decent one by 25.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Lol that’s not realistic. Has nothing to do with being a simp. You can have 100 bad bytches on your line. That doesn’t mean that they haven’t been ran through.

There's a difference between be a loser and a winner. Don't worry about what dudes doing, get yours in too. You think ain't shyt dudes getting all the dimes? Naw, they settling too

 

[Diondon]

Bruh. Come on

 

[Family Lives Matter]

Says every weirdo looser looking for an excuse is the rest of the thread title

 

[International Playa]

Every dude I know who married well, fine wives who were leveled headed.

Did exactly that. You supposed to find that one chick and keep her around until you’re ready to settle down.

It’s not only about settling down at 25 it’s about finding a decent one by 25.

You can be 33 & find a dyme who is 21-25 years old

 

[colicolicoli]

Probably, if the "down for you" part is the big qualifier.

I have an ex that makes six figures.
I haven't seen him in almost a decade.
He still hits me up occasionally (I was there during his come up)
He once told me now that he makes a significant amount of $, he no longer trusts that women like him for him.

 

[badtguy]

You can be 33 & find a dyme who is 21-25 years old

Finding a dyme is easy for sure. But where you are in your life is going to dictate where you meet these women

Most women aren’t looking to date a nikka 10+ Years older seriously. Yeah it happens but most women definitly like to stick to guys within 5 years of their age

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Lol @ men starting to play the sexual market as if they were women.

It should get easier for you to connect with women as you get older, not harder. Gotta step it up.

This.

You know how many women been try talk when they find I have a stable career and well cultured

its slim pickings out here folks just try and get a head start

 

[-deleted-]

Settling down out of desperation is a recipe for disaster.

And the funny thing is....women can smell it on men who are "trying to find a wife by 25". They run in the opposite direction.....to a nikka like me who ain't sweating them like that

Here's a better solution: Don't put an age limit on when you can find a wife and just let it happen organically. Stop looking at women like they are expired once they hit a certain age and maybe you might find a chick who is down for you.

In the meantime, become the best version of yourself and you'll have no issues finding a loyal woman b. You really only need 1 chick like you said. Just don't equate her value to just her p*ssy.

Honestly, while I see where you’re coming from, “Let it happen organically” isn’t a good move for dudes who just ain’t getting it in like that. That’s what they’ve been doing the whole time. It’s not as simple as that. It’s like someone above water telling someone who’s drowning with an anchor attached to them to just come up from under the water.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I swear the coli has to be a alternate universe. I could drop facts about the marriage rate for any race and to tell you the truth it over for marriage and having a family for a lot of men. Actually the number of men getting married has be going down for some years now. Just nobody really like fact or beleive them .

My mentor jus did a whole video on this topic that came from the Washington post . Basically it has hit white people hard this feminism and just this generation period. You know when it REALLY starts to effect white people it becomes an epidemic...lol. The coli just isn’t a place for these types of convos I have in the black manosphere .

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

I’ll break it down even further

If you are not socially popping with a circle or attract women without trying it’s going to be bleak out here

Most important thing is to keep your social life active

One thing I wish someone told me in high school is that your entire life builds from there

Realest shyt ever was when Christina Millian told Nick Cannon being popular is work

I wish I focused at all on having a social circle when I was coming up

And this post have never rang more truer thanks to the social media Era.

If my social circle wasn't solid no and I mean NO CHICKS would come my way.

I keep telling yall don't take friends for granted. I met some cool ass chicks through mutual friends but it seem camadarie is a dying concept here

 

[-deleted-]

Where you are in life vs where she is in life dictates a lot. Being down for each other has different meanings depending on where you are.

25 is waaaaay too early to have concrete, full knowledge and understanding of what this means IMO.

So just don’t do anything until you get older? Even if that means going years without any attention or love from the opposite sex?

 

[-deleted-]

And this post have never rang more truer thanks to the social media Era.

If my social circle wasn't solid no and I mean NO CHICKS would come my way.

I keep telling yall don't take friends for granted. I met some cool ass chicks through mutual friends but it seem camadarie is a dying concept here

What if even this doesn’t work? I agree entirely btw. That’s why I understand dudes who use social media to its max potential

 

[the bossman]

It's also very hard to meet women out of school. No way I'm dealing with bytches at work and you don't find wives in nightclubs of bars. What a fukked up world.

I swear some yall nikkas are boring and anti-social af. Only reason it would be very hard to meet women outside of school is if you are some type of introverted ass hermit scared to go outside.

You can meet women literally anywhere Especially in the Summer time. At the Gym, grocery store, endless food/music/wine festivals, restaurants, while traveling, shyt I've met fine women taking dance classes.

Literally just step outside and go live your life. You will meet women any and everywhere.

I do agree that dimes with wifey qualities and personality to match get snatched early but this other shyt you talking just weird as hell

 

[1 other person]

I swear the coli has to be a alternate universe. I could drop facts about the marriage rate for any race and to tell you the truth it over for marriage and having a family for a lot of men. Actually the number of men getting married has be going down for some years now. Just nobody really like fact or beleive them .

My mentor jus did a whole video on this topic that came from the Washington post . Basically it has hit white people hard this feminism and just this generation period. You know when it REALLY starts to effect white people it becomes an epidemic...lol. The coli just isn’t a place for these types of convos I have in the black manosphere .

Link to said video?