If you don’t have a shorty down for you by 25, is it over for you?

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And this post have never rang more truer thanks to the social media Era.

If my social circle wasn't solid no and I mean NO CHICKS would come my way.

I keep telling yall don't take friends for granted. I met some cool ass chicks through mutual friends but it seem camadarie is a dying concept here

FAX

Bruh as a nikka who rolls solo I had to become the hollering king

Got lots of numbers but I got one girl through it all

I’m not ugly but I’m not super cute
I’m short

I’m kind of proud of myself because I had to push and I kind of became a sociologist through life experiences

But yeah if u ain’t got a popping crew or you ain’t super handsome you are fukked
The truth of the matter is most nikkas are not extraordinary

There are some that are some that are so handsome that they naturally get bytches
Some whose mouth piece is so on point and they are so flagrant they get bytches...and this is one percent of men or less

But most common way dudes is getting by is social circle
 

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Bruh as a nikka who rolls solo I had to become the hollering king

Got lots of numbers but I got one girl through it all

I’m not ugly but I’m not super cute
I’m short

I’m kind of proud of myself because I had to push and I kind of became a sociologist through life experiences

But yeah if u ain’t got a popping crew or you ain’t super handsome you are fukked
The truth of the matter is most nikkas are not extraordinary

There are some that are some that are so handsome that they naturally get bytches
Some whose mouth piece is so on point and they are so flagrant they get bytches...and this is one percent of men or less

But most common way dudes is getting by is social circle

It’s nature. We are men. Gotta work for it
 

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:hhh: I swear some yall nikkas are boring and anti-social af. Only reason it would be very hard to meet women outside of school is if you are some type of introverted ass hermit scared to go outside.

You can meet women literally anywhere Especially in the Summer time. At the Gym, grocery store, endless food/music/wine festivals, restaurants, while traveling, shyt I've met fine women taking dance classes.

Literally just step outside and go live your life. You will meet women any and everywhere.

I do agree that dimes with wifey qualities and personality to match get snatched early but this other shyt you talking just weird as hell :scust:
Totally agree with u but don't forget how the current climate is....u got a lot of men who are too p*ssy to cold-approach and some women do a poor job at showing choosing signals. Back in day more men approached women and sometimes women approached men or made themselves approachable. With the social media and internet, etc., folks don't behave like the past generations.
 

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Don't think OP is saying you can't date after 25. A man of quality can pull dimes well into his 30s and 40s depending on status. It's the quality of partner that suffers. As you get older, you usually ain't findin that bright-eyed, bushy-tailed chick who'd take a bullet for you . A connection like that requires roots planted early, even if you separate and circle back later in life.

Like other brehs in here, the real women of quality that I've known got snatched up early.

Nah, but I've learned why it's so important to keep in contact with exes that you had a amicable split with.

Most of the people I know that have settled down have settled down with someone they've dated previously.

Most of the time it's someone they dated around 17-22 and split up because of school, timing etc.

They don't hear you though.

Another reason to aim high.
 

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my dad met my mom when he was 34.

it’s not the end of the world if you don’t meet someone by 25
That's not what we're saying. My parents met when they were in their late 30s also. All we are saying is meeting Someone whose wavelengths matches yours or lifestyle usually happens earlier after then it's slim pickings not saying you can't but by then people have Mad baggage both men and women. I'm tryna have kids by 35 latest 37 if nothing by then I'm not going to bother or I'm adopting.

I'm only 24 and I still sifting through 'run thrus' can't imagine what I gotta deal with when I hit 30:merchant::hubie:
 

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Don't think OP is saying you can't date after 25. A man of quality can pull dimes well into his 30s and 40s depending on status. It's the quality of partner that suffers. As you get older, you usually ain't findin that bright-eyed, bushy-tailed chick who'd take a bullet for you . A connection like that requires roots planted early, even if you separate and circle back later in life.

Like other brehs in here, the real women of quality that I've known got snatched up early.



They don't hear you though.

Another reason to aim high.

Crazy how so many posters missed the point, but at least you got it.
 
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