If you don't make enough to support a family you don't deserve a stay at home wife

[Weaver31]

Also I hope people realize when it comes to retirement and 401K....hope they know that they have to have enough money allocated to take care of their spouse and them. Hell it's hard having enough to support one person for retirement.

So those with stay at home wives and husbands realize this. U have to think about the future.

 

[El Bombi]

Not that I have a problem with it at all but if a woman stays at home but is not making sure the family is straight or keeping the house in order, then she would most certainly be leeching off him. Im assuming thats what someone would take issue with regarding that matter. Otherwise it is just a dude being on some other shyt.

I dont agree that a dude is 'fatherless' if he wants to build something more with a woman rather than have less and someone maintain it. Im more traditional but I don't fault men who are not traditional when women themselves tend to not want traditional roles.

This

I don't know what in the hell breh was talking about.

 

[godkiller]

Disagree.

 

[Ain't That Something]

Ain't you the nikka with the white wife that stay preaching black love

 

[TEH]

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

if i EVER got married

no way in hell my wife staying home


i dont care how much money i have


her lazy ass can kick rocks


both my parents worked
both my parents cooked, cleaned, tended to the kids


im not changing that formula



but i hate kids and marriage so just a hypothetical

 

[Colicat]

He said stay at home wife

You see a lot of nikkas on this site want a bytch to stay home and tend to the family but these nikkas don't make enough

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

You can do it making about 52k in Bham.....

 

[Diondon]

I'm all for financial empowerment and freedom, hey I like nice shyt
Not sure why I would want a stay at home wife, doe

 

[Barnett114]

Apologies, I'm very use to using it in a general tone

 

[O.T.I.S.]

if i EVER got married

no way in hell my wife staying home


i dont care how much money i have


her lazy ass can kick rocks


both my parents worked
both my parents cooked, cleaned, tended to the kids


im not changing that formula



but i hate kids and marriage so just a hypothetical

Yeah they make that shyt sound like it's literally a bad thing.

This ain't the damn 50's anymore. Both my grandmas were stay at home wives that eventually worked because they got bored once the kids got older.

That didn't mean anything. It meant shyt was easier to do

I make like 50k by myself and it's still not enough for me in my mind and I don't got any kids or a wife.

Why get a wife if all she gonna do is cook and clean when I can just get a maid to come out once a week for cheap.

I can see with raising kids but I'm not at that level. My cousin a doctor and her husband is a pilot and she stayed home during her pregnancy but still worked after teaching classes on the side. Women get bored nikka and I agree why waste time at home when you can be productive and build wealth for your family.

Plus they got a big ass mansion of a house because of their combined incomes. fukk what y'all talking about

 

[yyy]

I'll take it a step further to be honest. You shouldn't be having kids unless you can afford to provide for them. How many problems in our community would be solved if people, who were not in the position to provide for kids just didn't have kids. Yes, I may be stating the obvious, but when so many people in our community struggle with doing the obvious, then the obvious must be stated...repeatedly.

 

[Will Ross]

Please stop listening to white feminist.