AquaCityBoy
Veteran
I am 6'2. I weigh 195 lbs. Sure, I could lose about 10-15 lbs.
No, you need to GAIN 10-15 lbs, UNICEF kid.

I haven't had sex in over 4 years. Most of which I have been with my now current wife. We've been married a little over 6 months now. She's a virgin. Not for religious reasons. Just never happend. She always said she would when she was ready. I'm patient I love her. So I waited. So when I proposed she decided since we've gone this long why not wait until our wedding night. Well here we are 6+ months after that night. The complete lack of intamcy kills me the most. She won't hold me. Won't kiss me. I go down in her. She won't reciprocate. We fight constantly rarely about sex. I don't even care about that anymore. I don't care about anything. I'm fukking dead inside. I can hear her crying in the other room now as I try to sleep on the couch. I feel nothing. She's always mad. I'm always mad. She's the most pessimistic hate filled person I know. But I don't know what I would do without her. I'm so tired, angry, and scared. She refuses to see therapy and go to couples therapy. I see posts about people with kids. I don't. I can leave whenever I want, but I can't. I can, but I won't.
Nah, breh, this one's on you.
