If you found out that your girlfriend cheated in the past what would you do?

[DaddyTime]

Cheated on a previous boyfriend? Instant cause for concern....damn near red flag levels.


Cheated on me? Instant bushes status.

Agree. How about cheated on a previous boyfriend with yourself though?

For instance, a former girl of mine was nearing the end of a relationship and cheated on dude with me. But had the decency to break up with dude the morning after and pretty much explain why...

 

[MajorVitaman]

It's eating my friend up slowly inside...and it doesn't help that shes extrovert talks to guys like she have known them a long time

Tell your friend to stop being soft and drop the hoe. Then be a good friend and be his wing man to find new women.

 

[StarGirl]

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[EpicStoryTeller]

I said I've done none, @YaThreadFloppedB! man you guys can't let me live when I'm playing devils advocate. I'm actually loyal to a fault. Can't find a woman more loyal. And I don't keep male friends so it eliminates a lot.



Why stop there? What about making eye contact with other human beings, liking others pictures on instagram or twitter?

Those are also signs because often times when men and women make eye contact it's because one or the other was "sizing" them up. Instagram has DM's and folks like to be petty by liking their exes or someone they have interest in photos knowing that whomever they are in a relationship with will see it. Likewise folks in relationships like to be sneaky and like the pics of certain people to get their attention.

Twitter has its own drama but functions just like the insta. Don't play this game girl

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Agree. How about cheated on a previous boyfriend with yourself though?

My uncle learned this the hard way. My aunt was messing with him while she was still married to her former husband, and like clockwork wound up doing the same shyt to him.

My mother always tell me, how you find em is how you lose em.

 

[StarGirl]

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[YaThreadFloppedB!]

No, I'm not okay with that. But everyone still does it. Am I wrong?

Are you wrong about what? Yea everyone does it, doesn't mean that's okay, unless both individuals in the relationship have no problem with it.

Can I ask you a question?
Since you don't feel like texting the next girl is cheating, or hanging out with them and chilling is either...If you caught your man texting a guh, would you break up with him? I mean to you it's not cheating... or are you going to wait until he eventually fukks her to break up with him?

 

[Allergic2Latex]

Stop it star, I don't know why everyone (mostly females) act like they don't know what cheating is.

If you are in a relationship you shouldn't be:

-talking to another person who has an interest in you
-entertaining random people who want your affection
-entertaining the thought of what it would be like to explore with said person
-texting shyt you know your s/o wouldn't be cool with
-jumping on social media to see what's out there
-keeping contact with past exes
-taking any new numbers
-thirst trapping or doing anything that would bring unwanted attention
-letting yourself fall victim to being aroused in anyway that can and WILL possibly lead to any form of sexual act with another person.

We have people on the coli that's doing at least 3 of the things I've listed.

I ain't shyt

 

[StarGirl]

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[Neuromancer]

She'd get the quick.

 

[Neuromancer]

Stop it star, I don't know why everyone (mostly females) act like they don't know what cheating is.

If you are in a relationship you shouldn't be:

-talking to another person who has an interest in you
-entertaining random people who want your affection
-entertaining the thought of what it would be like to explore with said person
-texting shyt you know your s/o wouldn't be cool with
-jumping on social media to see what's out there
-keeping contact with past exes
-taking any new numbers
-thirst trapping or doing anything that would bring unwanted attention
-letting yourself fall victim to being aroused in anyway that can and WILL possibly lead to any form of sexual act with another person.

We have people on the coli that's doing at least 3 of the things I've listed.

Say it again homie, the ladies in the back ain't hear you.

 

[basketball reasons]

DENNIS her

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

I ain't shyt

Which one of these you doing bruh

 

[Allergic2Latex]

Which one of these you doing bruh

All except keeping up with past exes

 

[Neuromancer]

1) I didn't say it was. But then it becomes, well isn't Instagram for liking pictures? It's like why I wouldn't go to a party/club with my guy, because I don't want you dancing with another girl. But isn't the club for dancing? It's not all black and white.


2)LMFAO y'all have no love for StarGirl. I would leave. But that's not cheating. I would leave cause you disrespected me. Everything I don't like doesn't necessarily turn into cheating.

Cheating is one part betrayal one part disrespect. If someone was with you they should respect you.