Broad doesn’t want a wispy washy man. Wants a dude to state their intentions with confidence. A dude that is washy washy and allows broad an out is not appealing.Chick told me that "as a man, you have to be vulnerable to rejection", I'm like okay, yes, duh I get that. You are putting yourself out there vulnerably by asking her.....but then when you add the caveat of "or if you're not interested, please let me know and it's okay", now it appears that you're indifferent.
So because they now can't crush you by saying "no", some would rather lead you on so that you are still pursant and fulfilling the ego they missed out on by not being able to turn you down.
Not saying ALL women do this, but many out there are this way.
Put yourself out there. You’d be surprised how many women would give you a chance. If you get rejected, move in.
Women want the prize.