If you go half/half with a woman on a date, you beta....

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All I know is that my lady paid for our meal on the first date. She insisted! I tried to pay. She said that she got it, so I let her..

I didn't come empty handed. I gave her a house warming gift since she just moved into her new home.

For me, it's about the mindset. Some women aren't selfishly entitled opportunists. Some women play the long game. *shrugs*
 

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All I know is that my lady paid for our meal on the first date. She insisted! I tried to pay. She said that she got it, so I let her..

I didn't come empty handed. I gave her a house warming gift since she just moved into her new home.

For me, it's about the mindset. Some women aren't selfishly entitled opportunists. Some women play the long game. *shrugs*
Damn breh, she paid for the first meal AND you moved into her house? Might as well call her daddy, breh...

Nah if it works for yall then thats dope...couldn't be me tho :yeshrug:
 

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Damn breh, she paid for the first meal AND you moved into her house? Might as well call her daddy, breh...

Nah if it works for yall then thats dope...couldn't be me tho :yeshrug:
Where in my post did I say that moved in her šŸ”???

I said that she moved into her new home. I already have a home.

We went to a lil chain spot. So, she didn't break her bank. But, she is a good woman! She came into it game righteously and we been together ever since.

Thing is with my lady, she isn't high maintenance. She lives modesty and strives to live within her means. She isn't with me because of my finances. She is with me because she actually cares/loves me (according to her).

Keep in mind that we are similar in age and is beyond the game playing stage of life, so perhaps that is the reason why things are working out between us.
 
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I once had a girlfriend that never had any money. It wasn't a flex in any situation.
 

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My wife used to pay for a lot of our meals when we first got together. She made more money then me back then. We've been married for 14 years now and still do everything together. The Coli gives the worst relationship advice.
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In my opinion, if you spend what your comfortable with spending on the date, you're good. You ate, and then if you had a good time, even better. And if she calls back and says she enjoyed herself, you're golden. I prefer just to pay for the dates and then just control where we're going and then consider it a small test of her range of audacity/entitlement. If all things check, we're fine.


That being said, i think OP kinda doing a bit much here... brokie? :patrice:
 
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