I’ll be honest, if your son is moving in that direction, it’s best to let them.
Sometimes figures in our families are sort of sacrificial like, in other words they do what they do because they can and don’t really have any other goal other than advancing the family from certain stand points
I realized this not too long ago with my family. The things I do bring honor to us in a different way, even if it’s not everything they would have wanted for me to participate in or even if I’m not living how they imagine.
Parents are a lot more forgiving than we imagine especially if they can see we are making our way in the world