If you live a 'worldly' life can it work with a Church girl?

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Straight up breh, there's a woman i'm having dinner with soon and we got decent chemistry from our interactions but she's like...IN the church. I'm Christian, can talk about it though I don't witness or try to convert and can hang with anyone from heathens to deacons. She like...leads the youth group and has choir practice.

Is this a fool's errand? In principal she's what we want right? But i drink and do edibles and shyt and party...she don't even listen to secular music.

Got everything else in common so far it seems though.

Am I about to corrupt her or is she about to hit me with some blessing oil on the low :leostare:

Can this work? I'm too seasoned to have this type of question but this is a new one for me :patrice:
 

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Yes it can. Each can bring what the other lacks to the table and provide a simultaneous tempering and uplifting presence plus immense attraction, if other factors are coherent. Its like what I said here:


You should ask her, not us.
 
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Op you don't even believe in God. Don't waste her time sir
breh i'm speaking to you thru the blessings of god right now. Don't you dare try to question my relationship with the lord, my belief in christ. The audacity to question another man's faith like you are the judge. you only know me thru text and don't know the life I lead.

I'm not upset at you because you're likely motivated at not seeing what sounds like a good sister end up with a liar but I am not the one.
 

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in theory you all should mesh just fine. but i wouldn't want corrupting her on my conscience. and if she was with me SHE WOULD be corrupted. so i don't fukk with them like that. teaching sunday school? be with me for a couple years and she'll be missing church services, become a part-time member and shyt and have everyone talking shyt about me.
 

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If she comes from one of those fundamental holiness backgrounds that promote being “evenly yoked” it may not work.

But I grew up in a liberal intellectual church where there are many women who have been married for 30, 40, 50+ years and their husbands are not at all religious and don’t attend church with them.

Religious/Non-religious relationships work. I’ve seen them.

However, personally I wouldn’t want to be in that type of relationship.
 

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Yes. You just have to help get her to realize that the heavens actually rejoice when mankind uses its own natural intelligence to navigate the world.

No you will not go to hell for not doing xyz.

The world is meant to be enjoyed. Not tolerated.

Good needs evil just like back and front need each other.

The world ceases to exist if one side is eliminated.

The game of life is the decision to choose which side you’re on.

Now, my dear coli residents, go out into the world and be somebody. Prosper with reckless abandon. Tell whoever asks, I sent you. Who am I? The deliverer of the good news. Evangelist of the true gospel. The one who has walked with gods and debated with angels.
 

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breh i'm speaking to you thru the blessings of god right now. Don't you dare try to question my relationship with the lord, my belief in christ. The audacity to question another man's faith like you are the judge. you only know me thru text and don't know the life I lead.

I'm not upset at you because you're likely motivated at not seeing what sounds like a good sister end up with a liar but I am not the one.
If it's based on what you post here then I'm just being honest sir. I gave you good advice. :yeshrug:
 
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