If you live a 'worldly' life can it work with a Church girl?

[JuvenileHell]

Nope. and it's nope x2 when kids come into the picture.

As an atheist I'm gonna have a hard time tolerating having to hear about God or having to give God credit for my hard work. Not to mention them whining about me not going to church

 

[seymour cake]

It could work, shyt that might be ya soulmate.. usually when u meet people thats really into church and live that life steadfast it rubs off on you and makes you get ya shyt together..

Everytime i was on my shyt, not drinking or smoking, reading my bible everyday, and going to church every sunday and wednesday.. a lot of people that was around me started doing the same.. im talking nikkaz knee deep in the streets going to church with me, bytches i was fukking with was going with me too and trying to change.. it will most likely change u for the better..

i say do it you might have something special, shyt yall might fukk around and be a power couple.

 

[010101]

fukking in the church basement*

 

[Ed MOTHERFUCKING G]

I'm ASSUMING she's abstinent until marriage??

I'm ASSUMING you're not??

If I'm correct so far then why are you wasting time with her?

If y'all haven't had that convo (I know it's early) I wouldn't waste my time UNLESS I'm serious myself and would wait it out for the right woman.

I've been in a similar situation and we remained friends because I knew I was a h0e and didn't want to waste her or my time.

I don't know that, but yeah, full celibacy would be quite problematic. And I wouldn't waste her time just like you said. Good thought.

 

[Ed MOTHERFUCKING G]

It could work, shyt that might be ya soulmate.. usually when u meet people thats really into church and live that life steadfast it rubs off on you and makes you get ya shyt together..

Everytime i was on my shyt, not drinking or smoking, reading my bible everyday, and going to church every sunday and wednesday.. a lot of people that was around me started doing the same.. im talking nikkaz knee deep in the streets going to church with me, bytches i was fukking with was going with me too and trying to change.. it will most likely change u for the better..

i say do it you might have something special, shyt yall might fukk around and be a power couple.

Honestly it's my hope

 

[Hollywood Co]

She could be the lesson or the blessing.

If you walk in faith then this relationship will mold you for the better whether you and her turn into a full couple or not. At the least, she makes you face the Lord in a proper context and therefore you are held more accountable as a man because as you wrote her, her walk in faith is way more disciplined then yours.

 

[MMS]

breh i'm speaking to you thru the blessings of god right now. Don't you dare try to question my relationship with the lord, my belief in christ. The audacity to question another man's faith like you are the judge. you only know me thru text and don't know the life I lead.

I'm not upset at you because you're likely motivated at not seeing what sounds like a good sister end up with a liar but I am not the one.

who she root for in CFB tho?

 

[Ed MOTHERFUCKING G]

who she root for in CFB tho?

Not MSU or OSU so we good

 

[RareHunter]

Straight up breh, there's a woman i'm having dinner with soon and we got decent chemistry from our interactions but she's like...IN the church. I'm Christian, can talk about it though I don't witness or try to convert and can hang with anyone from heathens to deacons. She like...leads the youth group and has choir practice.

Is this a fool's errand? In principal she's what we want right? But i drink and do edibles and shyt and party...she don't even listen to secular music.

Got everything else in common so far it seems though.

Am I about to corrupt her or is she about to hit me with some blessing oil on the low

Can this work? I'm too seasoned to have this type of question but this is a new one for me

If you’re a heathen, let her be for someone who will take her serious. Selfish heathens are greedy and leave others to deal with these messed up women.

 

[Rhyme n Tekniq]

my wife was a sheltered church girl the first two years. We bumped head a few times because of it; something about my yolk matching her yolk yada yada.
I was always staunchly against participating in the church or religous stuff in general. I never shat on her for beliefs because I knew she was a bit naive to the real world at that time.

around year 3 or 4 after life happened a bit more, that veil lifted. She fell out with a few friends, started noticing how toxic the church was becoming and bounced around to other churches to the same effect more or less. But ultimately she came into the fold on her own. Before, long she just lost the desire to attend church altogether.She was low-key a judgemental church girl, But I think one of the pivotal moments that made her reevaluate her thinking was when she witnessed me casually give a homeless man a $20 bill and kept it pushing;

she was like"

Her: "you do realize what you just gave him right?"

Me: yeah, a 20!

Her : " you do realize he just gonna spend it on drugs or alcohol right"

Me: " Whatever helps him through the rough patch, who am i to judge, I spend money on dumb stuff all the time, I felt compelled to give him that much , so I did"

Her: How is it that you can be so generous but not go to church?

Me: How is is that you go to church so much and NOT be generous .....and judgemental?

Her:..............................

She couldnt do shyt but marinate in that humble-juice, One of the few times were I absolutely shut her down with effortless finesse

She gets annoyed but she love it at the same time. That moment set the precdent for the rest of the relationship, that and the fact that Ihave no problem telling her "no" is the kind of shyt that made her fall for me. Never afraid to call her out on her shyt but also able to take criticism on the chin
sometimes she gets visibly annoyed at how easy i can admit fault and move on with my day, while she struggles 4 hours to build up the humility to admit fault .

We have more differences than we do similarities but it works out beautifully. I cant be the alpha in all situations. sometimes things need a woman's elegance and eye for detail .

 

[MMS]

Not MSU or OSU so we good

Northwestern?

 

[MikelArteta]

A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.

 

[maxamusa]

Breh you hit the Jackpot and don't even know it

 

[Ed MOTHERFUCKING G]

Update:

I'd call this failure to launch essentially based on our contrasts. We have absolutely amazing chemistry, spent whole days together, and can talk all day, etc. She is truly solid in her faith and I love and respect that, and I am solid in mine as well. Her interpretation of the word is just more strict than mine, and she is a leader at her church. The path of the righteous man is narrow, but it is ones’ relationship with god is their own.

I honestly would feel rotten to lead her awry on her path with god, and while it is always a work in progress, I am comrfortable with my path. She mentioned (likely a subliminal) as to how she needs someone that essentially lives in the church, and is probably in HER church…and i sensed that premarital sex would be a conflcit for us as someone else mentioned. She was fine if I had a drink when we were out, but wasnt down with getting drunk at all and had lived with an alcoholic father.

In short, we are much better friends than we would be partners, and quietly went in that direction.

 

[Jesus Is Lord]

Update:

I'd call this failure to launch essentially based on our contrasts. We have absolutely amazing chemistry, spent whole days together, and can talk all day, etc. She is truly solid in her faith and I love and respect that, and I am solid in mine as well. Her interpretation of the word is just more strict than mine, and she is a leader at her church. The path of the righteous man is narrow, but it is ones’ relationship with god is their own.

I honestly would feel rotten to lead her awry on her path with god, and while it is always a work in progress, I am comrfortable with my path. She mentioned (likely a subliminal) as to how she needs someone that essentially lives in the church, and is probably in HER church…and i sensed that premarital sex would be a conflcit for us as someone else mentioned. She was fine if I had a drink when we were out, but wasnt down with getting drunk at all and had lived with an alcoholic father.

In short, we are much better friends than we would be partners, and quietly went in that direction.

Great. Now you can continue to work on your walk with Christ. Which means (if you haven’t started), it’s time to start witnessing and trying to convert (that’s what Christ stated He wants). And stop hanging with heathens, partying, drinking, and eating drugs. Not judging, I only know these things because you said them. Praying for you brother. It’s not easy at ALL.