If you met your girl off an app, you’re a low ass value man.

[Umoja]

I prefer meeting women at gatherings and events. It is easier to spark up a conversation and get a sense of where things are going.

That said, there is no issue meeting women online. You get what you're looking for. Can't expect to swipe right on every woman and then complain when you match with chicken heads. Take the time to read their profile. Consider how they present themselves.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Met my girl on hinge and she’s the best gf ever, but I realize that I got lucky also. On the other hand I’m not a fukk nikka so I never really attracted the “crazies” online. My boy always complaining about women wanting to go out to eat to nice restaurants and wanting to spend his money buying hella drinks and shyt, but it’s the women he chooses to entertain because I never had those experiences from online dating

 

[RebelX]

Another point of emphasis is dudes don’t cold approach outside of “pookies and ray rays” so HVM frequent the apps for easy sex and find wives at work and alumni functions.

 

[BlaccSunrise]

Shorty will bring it up months down the line

Had a chick who used to always bring up

"To think we met just because you said hello to me out on the street"

Ain't nothing that beats seeing a fine ass woman and you deciding you want her and so you take matters into your own hands and get it done

This is why cold approaches will never die. Walking up to a woman, starting convo about damn near anything, and introducing yourself automatically puts you ahead of the game in this socially-retarded society.

 

[FukkaPaidEmail]

Threads like this really shows out of touch and flabby the coli is


What social media app out here is NOT a dating app ?



The same hoes you see on Hinge ,Bumble or whatever is the same hoes you’ll see on Instagram,Twitter or whatever else is out here.


A bird is a bird and they’re not all congregated on dating apps like it’s 2011.

 

[Action Mike]

I understand this because the pickings on these apps are trash, but you got some good ones on there

 

[MF_BREW]

 

[FeverPitch2]

 

[Silver Surfer]

OP paying $25 a month for the premium access on Bumble and nobody matching on him......

Make it make sense OP

 

[ThaBronxBully]

I understand this because the pickings on these apps are trash, but you got some good ones on there

So Pretty Much The Same As In Person lol

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Usually it’s bottom of the barrel, depending on the app tho.

This is the point. There is a lot of bottom of the barrel in the apps just as there were a lot of bottom of the barrel in the bars and clubs before the apps.

This is water seeking its own level because honestly speaking, how many men are out here having their way with women who aren’t bottom of the barrel. On the contrary, top shelf women aren’t above putting a thirst trap or two out to their millions of followers and fishing a date or five out from the hundreds of DMs.

Sometimes the product sells itself, most times, the product needs to be marketed. Most of us shop on Amazon, few of us shop at Saks. I personally prefer to meet in person but I know that such a world no longer exists. If I did have to date again in today’s world best believe I would go the route of DMin women off instagram rather than going on any of the dating apps.

 

[Piff Perkins]

I got no dog in this fight but some of yall have such feminine posting styles, it writes like a woman wrote this. Even started off by gaslighting the OP

Logical assumption on my part since he stans a gay man who hates women.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

I be outside and the professional suave dudes that women write novels about do not approach women a lot nowadays.

 

[JNew]

In theory it makes sense

 

[Scaaar]

The decent ones you gotta catch em the first few days they're on the app before they delete out of disgust or bad experiences

Exactly! I'm one of the people that delete my account every two months or so just to mix it up so I don't be too dependent on just that. But one thing I have noticed is that you run into the same crop of chics every few months or so after a relationship has fizzled out. But Hinge is very convenient because my life is busy and structured so I have to carve out time for dates. On IG I only post books and my daughter so it's not considered a "lit" page or I'm living the life so there's that. I typically just approach chics that I see at the bar during happy hour.