If You Need To Understand Why You Shouldn't Simp

[MikelArteta]

All women view you based on materialistic items though. And that's not to say that all women are "money hungry" because its not true. But a woman is always going to want the guy that has the whip over the guy who takes the bus. It just has to do with women having a strange definition of success in the modern era. It has nothing to do with "money" and everything to do with perception. A nice whip doesn't just mean you have money, it means you (to some of them) that you have your shyt together, and you're a hard worker. Money isn't even the biggest part TBH.

not really, I only started driving like 4 years ago, and before that I never drove or had a car. I was engaged, I dated numerous women of all different social class, chicks whose dads owned audi dealerships, lawyers, accountants, even bottom barrell h&m cashiers and me not having a car was never a obstacle to success with women. It's casting a wide net on "success", again maybe I have been lucky or blessed in life because I've never picked up a woman, never been to a bar or club, never drank alcohol unless I'm on vacation and yet

 

[MikelArteta]

Agreed on that. But the thing is, whether or not you're doing it FOR THAT REASON. It comes with it. The Cause Is $$, The Effect Is Women. Whether or not it was in your plans, or your motive, its still going to happen.

which is what im saying b, do things because you want to.

I don't care about cars, my first car was a toyota corolla it wasn't flashy but shrugs. I totalled it in a accident and started driving a honda accord and i waspaying 800 a month for a year on car insurance, with gas and mainteance basically 1,000 a month I was pouring into that ish, folks would prob look at my car driving there beamer and benz and thinking they were "better" than me, while I was paying double what they were for car insurance and car payments so I do agree with you on that perception part.


I've had women when I had nothing and when I had alot, I don't spend money on women besides my Mother and nieces, so I don't give a damn what these thots think anyways :kanye:

 

[MikelArteta]

Most Americans live under 50K a year.

For a single person it's way less.....most of these nikkas out here are struggling.

Get the money and just chill and treat p*ssy as a disposable income while you find the one like George Clooney.

He ran through half of Hollywood but ended up with a Muslim woman, don't ever forget that.

the average american household is 52k

dudes are so obessed with puzzy and women when both are just seasonal, the amount of women out there openign their legs for every tom dikk and harry, its just like a rollercoaster and your lining up

 

[ThaBronxBully]

Dude Looks Exactly Like Javalle McGee

 

[onelastdeath]

not really, I only started driving like 4 years ago, and before that I never drove or had a car. I was engaged, I dated numerous women of all different social class, chicks whose dads owned audi dealerships, lawyers, accountants, even bottom barrell h&m cashiers and me not having a car was never a obstacle to success with women. It's casting a wide net on "success", again maybe I have been lucky or blessed in life because I've never picked up a woman, never been to a bar or club, never drank alcohol unless I'm on vacation and yet

Lucky you. I can't front.

As someone who was an "ugly ducking" growing up, and started really drawing attention around 16/17. The jump from good looking gentlemen who's respectful, to good looking gentlemen who's respectful and has his own crib and car, is DEFINITELY different. No doubt about it. in my mind. For me personally, there was definitely a difference. And I remember getting a lot of girls before I starting get paid, but not nearly as much as I started getting my bread up. Some of these girls today are so caught up in perception it's amazing. They want what other girls want. Once again, not all of them. Some of them

 

[MikelArteta]

Lucky you. I can't front.

As someone who was an "ugly ducking" growing up, and started really drawing attention around 16/17. The jump from good looking gentlemen who's respectful, to good looking gentlemen who's respectful and has his own crib and car, is DEFINITELY different. No doubt about it. in my mind. For me personally, there was definitely a difference. And I remember getting a lot of girls before I starting get paid, but not nearly as much as I started getting my bread up. Some of these girls today are so caught up in perception it's amazing. They want what other girls want. Once again, not all of them. Some of them

it wasn't always like that, I wrote about in detail before

Spoiler

I believe the way you view yourself and the way you converse about yourself if in a negative light, will impede your success and treasures that are stored up for you. Growing up as a young kid I had a speech impediment, words that began with certain letters I struggled immensely to even enunciate, in essence this just made me withdrawal into a coc00n and become an incalculable unobtrusive individual.

On top of that I was a skinny kid with glasses, in my eyes I might as well have been a mute hunchback the way I viewed myself. I would just look in the mirror and just see a big nose on a big head on a wiry stick figure with a soft voice and a vocabulary that would always be made fun off. Of course my wonderful gracious mother would always say I’m handsome but I was her offspring and would always be viewed marvellously. Anyways grabs remote and presses Fast Forward through the thinking myself as a skinny low self esteem chapter >>>>>

There came a moment when I was shackled in a group project with two other females who I shall call J and A, soon I was acquaintance-zoned as we met up for the next month as I worked away, listening inquisitively as they gossiped about the latest hearsay. I guess I became somewhat of a male “she`s all that“, as I took my glasses off and was told “hey your kind of cute“. These were the ancient days when bulky digital cameras with low mega-pixels were expensive, but J had one and decided to snap away at me. Unbeknownst to me at the time, J and A created a profile for me at a social media site that shall remain nameless and uploaded my pictures, to this day I have no idea why.

Days later I was told the news and as well that my profile was Top 10 on the site and my inbox was filled with messages of approbation, I was flabbergasted. I received the login credentials and totally took over as I string off a list of analogies. The pauper was now the king, the loser was now the winner, and the boy who ate gruel daily was now eating steak and lobster. This new found fame along with me moving to an upscale community, plucking contacts in my eye and starting a new school, I was literally on cloud nine. Imagine being 17 and a legit model signed to a agency who lived in a different city and had every guy chasing after her thinking you are the sexiest man she has ever laid her eyes on that was me, I won`t perjure myself but I revelled in the attention.

My little flip phone that could was bursting at the seams with contacts, phone calls and text messages. Best friends getting into quarrels over me, stalkers, being chased and never having to do the chasing, and an MSN Messenger list exceeded capacity that I needed a second one. The sad part though is that I should not have needed this entire gamut of outpouring praise to view myself in a positive light, because NOTHING ABOUT ME CHANGED except my confidence. I was still skinny, shy, my voice was still soft, just that the words I spoke were no longer negative; I looked at my reflection and saw something that could be admired. So you may look in the mirror and have negative thoughts – I`m too skinny, I hate my nose, I am too fat, but these negative thoughts and utterances have to be destroyed.

There is power in the tongue and in your thoughts, I am not saying it`s an easy thing to overcome but nothing is impossible. I still have instances of feeling inadequate or not up to par but they quickly evaporate, I have written my own story in life and it has successes and failures, but still I rise and overcome. I have been to the top of the hierarchy, and while my popular zenith days have eroded even sometimes to the point where some days it`s only my mother texting me I am fine and content with simplicity. And from being at the bottom and at the top, all I can say is look deep within yourself and never see yourself as a failure, worthless, ugly the only thing stopping yourself is you and the power of your mind and thoughts.

but i agree with what your saying not disagreeing :kony:, but i'm sure you got that crib and that car because you wanted to, not to impress some fly by night thot, whose here today and gone tomorrow.

I agree with you on perception, i'm 29 and i live at home as soon as ahcick hears that its oh , if i said im 29 on my own they perceive something different.

However I live in a million dollar house and pay half of the mortgage and half of the bills and I have like nearly 400,000 equity in it, but if i was renting some studio for 900 a month with no equity because I have my own spot I'm perceived "better". Thankfully I don't care whatany women thinks about me whose not my mother.

 

[Stuntone]

All I'm saying is do things because you want to, you want to be successful in life then be successful because you want to, not on some once im making 100k the types of breezies that will come my way , Most women you come across in life are seasonal and are not worth the jumping through hoops and all that, all for what? puzzy "the cashier at mcdonalds has the same puzzy as halle berry"[/QUOTE]

 

[MikelArteta]

i cant take credit for that line

its patrice oneal, but its true though

 

[onelastdeath]

it wasn't always like that, I wrote about in detail before

Spoiler

I believe the way you view yourself and the way you converse about yourself if in a negative light, will impede your success and treasures that are stored up for you. Growing up as a young kid I had a speech impediment, words that began with certain letters I struggled immensely to even enunciate, in essence this just made me withdrawal into a coc00n and become an incalculable unobtrusive individual.

On top of that I was a skinny kid with glasses, in my eyes I might as well have been a mute hunchback the way I viewed myself. I would just look in the mirror and just see a big nose on a big head on a wiry stick figure with a soft voice and a vocabulary that would always be made fun off. Of course my wonderful gracious mother would always say I’m handsome but I was her offspring and would always be viewed marvellously. Anyways grabs remote and presses Fast Forward through the thinking myself as a skinny low self esteem chapter >>>>>

There came a moment when I was shackled in a group project with two other females who I shall call J and A, soon I was acquaintance-zoned as we met up for the next month as I worked away, listening inquisitively as they gossiped about the latest hearsay. I guess I became somewhat of a male “she`s all that“, as I took my glasses off and was told “hey your kind of cute“. These were the ancient days when bulky digital cameras with low mega-pixels were expensive, but J had one and decided to snap away at me. Unbeknownst to me at the time, J and A created a profile for me at a social media site that shall remain nameless and uploaded my pictures, to this day I have no idea why.

Days later I was told the news and as well that my profile was Top 10 on the site and my inbox was filled with messages of approbation, I was flabbergasted. I received the login credentials and totally took over as I string off a list of analogies. The pauper was now the king, the loser was now the winner, and the boy who ate gruel daily was now eating steak and lobster. This new found fame along with me moving to an upscale community, plucking contacts in my eye and starting a new school, I was literally on cloud nine. Imagine being 17 and a legit model signed to a agency who lived in a different city and had every guy chasing after her thinking you are the sexiest man she has ever laid her eyes on that was me, I won`t perjure myself but I revelled in the attention.

My little flip phone that could was bursting at the seams with contacts, phone calls and text messages. Best friends getting into quarrels over me, stalkers, being chased and never having to do the chasing, and an MSN Messenger list exceeded capacity that I needed a second one. The sad part though is that I should not have needed this entire gamut of outpouring praise to view myself in a positive light, because NOTHING ABOUT ME CHANGED except my confidence. I was still skinny, shy, my voice was still soft, just that the words I spoke were no longer negative; I looked at my reflection and saw something that could be admired. So you may look in the mirror and have negative thoughts – I`m too skinny, I hate my nose, I am too fat, but these negative thoughts and utterances have to be destroyed.

There is power in the tongue and in your thoughts, I am not saying it`s an easy thing to overcome but nothing is impossible. I still have instances of feeling inadequate or not up to par but they quickly evaporate, I have written my own story in life and it has successes and failures, but still I rise and overcome. I have been to the top of the hierarchy, and while my popular zenith days have eroded even sometimes to the point where some days it`s only my mother texting me I am fine and content with simplicity. And from being at the bottom and at the top, all I can say is look deep within yourself and never see yourself as a failure, worthless, ugly the only thing stopping yourself is you and the power of your mind and thoughts.

but i agree with what your saying not disagreeing :kony:, but i'm sure you got that crib and that car because you wanted to, not to impress some fly by night thot, whose here today and gone tomorrow.

I agree with you on perception, i'm 29 and i live at home as soon as ahcick hears that its oh , if i said im 29 on my own they perceive something different.

However I live in a million dollar house and pay half of the mortgage and half of the bills and I have like nearly 400,000 equity in it, but if i was renting some studio for 900 a month with no equity because I have my own spot I'm perceived "better". Thankfully I don't care whatany women thinks about me whose not my mother.

that was deep breh. You really came from the bottom, mentally.

And nah, I did it for me. Independence is Golden, and a reward in itself. But the girls just come with it. Not by choice, it's just the generation we live in

And breh you seem like you have it all together. Keep going ;blessed:

 

[Chris.B]

it wasn't always like that, I wrote about in detail before

Spoiler

I believe the way you view yourself and the way you converse about yourself if in a negative light, will impede your success and treasures that are stored up for you. Growing up as a young kid I had a speech impediment, words that began with certain letters I struggled immensely to even enunciate, in essence this just made me withdrawal into a coc00n and become an incalculable unobtrusive individual.

On top of that I was a skinny kid with glasses, in my eyes I might as well have been a mute hunchback the way I viewed myself. I would just look in the mirror and just see a big nose on a big head on a wiry stick figure with a soft voice and a vocabulary that would always be made fun off. Of course my wonderful gracious mother would always say I’m handsome but I was her offspring and would always be viewed marvellously. Anyways grabs remote and presses Fast Forward through the thinking myself as a skinny low self esteem chapter >>>>>

There came a moment when I was shackled in a group project with two other females who I shall call J and A, soon I was acquaintance-zoned as we met up for the next month as I worked away, listening inquisitively as they gossiped about the latest hearsay. I guess I became somewhat of a male “she`s all that“, as I took my glasses off and was told “hey your kind of cute“. These were the ancient days when bulky digital cameras with low mega-pixels were expensive, but J had one and decided to snap away at me. Unbeknownst to me at the time, J and A created a profile for me at a social media site that shall remain nameless and uploaded my pictures, to this day I have no idea why.

Days later I was told the news and as well that my profile was Top 10 on the site and my inbox was filled with messages of approbation, I was flabbergasted. I received the login credentials and totally took over as I string off a list of analogies. The pauper was now the king, the loser was now the winner, and the boy who ate gruel daily was now eating steak and lobster. This new found fame along with me moving to an upscale community, plucking contacts in my eye and starting a new school, I was literally on cloud nine. Imagine being 17 and a legit model signed to a agency who lived in a different city and had every guy chasing after her thinking you are the sexiest man she has ever laid her eyes on that was me, I won`t perjure myself but I revelled in the attention.

My little flip phone that could was bursting at the seams with contacts, phone calls and text messages. Best friends getting into quarrels over me, stalkers, being chased and never having to do the chasing, and an MSN Messenger list exceeded capacity that I needed a second one. The sad part though is that I should not have needed this entire gamut of outpouring praise to view myself in a positive light, because NOTHING ABOUT ME CHANGED except my confidence. I was still skinny, shy, my voice was still soft, just that the words I spoke were no longer negative; I looked at my reflection and saw something that could be admired. So you may look in the mirror and have negative thoughts – I`m too skinny, I hate my nose, I am too fat, but these negative thoughts and utterances have to be destroyed.

There is power in the tongue and in your thoughts, I am not saying it`s an easy thing to overcome but nothing is impossible. I still have instances of feeling inadequate or not up to par but they quickly evaporate, I have written my own story in life and it has successes and failures, but still I rise and overcome. I have been to the top of the hierarchy, and while my popular zenith days have eroded even sometimes to the point where some days it`s only my mother texting me I am fine and content with simplicity. And from being at the bottom and at the top, all I can say is look deep within yourself and never see yourself as a failure, worthless, ugly the only thing stopping yourself is you and the power of your mind and thoughts.

but i agree with what your saying not disagreeing :kony:, but i'm sure you got that crib and that car because you wanted to, not to impress some fly by night thot, whose here today and gone tomorrow.

I agree with you on perception, i'm 29 and i live at home as soon as ahcick hears that its oh , if i said im 29 on my own they perceive something different.

However I live in a million dollar house and pay half of the mortgage and half of the bills and I have like nearly 400,000 equity in it, but if i was renting some studio for 900 a month with no equity because I have my own spot I'm perceived "better". Thankfully I don't care whatany women thinks about me whose not my mother.

My only mistake in life so far is leaving home at 24.

My money was so stacked to the point where if I were to say it half of the coli would call it ducktales.

 

[MikelArteta]

that was deep breh. You really came from the bottom, mentally.

And nah, I did it for me. Independence is Golden, and a reward in itself. But the girls just come with it. Not by choice, it's just the generation we live in

And breh you seem like you have it all together. Keep going ;blessed:

, life hasn't been easy but gotta keep striving and salute on all your accomplishments.

Before I used to be extremely shy then I got to the point of no longer caring, I had like 1,000 matches on tinder not once did i message a chick first, same when I used dating sites throughout the years. Just would log in sit back and in they come. I dont even use dating sites or tinder anymore, I told myself if I'm suppose to be in a relationship she will come to me on some going to mcdonalds at 2am when im hungry being the only person eating their big mac and she walks in and asks is this seat taken. Not that I'm all that :kony: or ish, I just don't care, I don't need a chicks money, i could hop on tinder or whatever and get puzzy if I wanted it, but beautiful women and sweet personalities do nothing for me anymore, it's like a team that's been in the playoffs for 10 straight years but only get out the first or second round, the playoffs is just a beautiful woman, the second round is just a personality. I've been in the game to long to just settle for that, I want a championship

To the buffalo bills, cleveland browns, sac kings, etc. type nikkaz the beautiful girl (playoffs), or the beautiful girl with the prsonality (playoffs and making the second round) is what they aspire. Not I


Anything less than a title at this stage in my life is a failure.
Dman I need to write about this some more.

 

[onelastdeath]

, life hasn't been easy but gotta keep striving and salute on all your accomplishments.

Before I used to be extremely shy then I got to the point of no longer caring, I had like 1,000 matches on tinder not once did i message a chick first, same when I used dating sites throughout the years. Just would log in sit back and in they come. I dont even use dating sites or tinder anymore, I told myself if I'm suppose to be in a relationship she will come to me on some going to mcdonalds at 2am when im hungry being the only person eating their big mac and she walks in and asks is this seat taken. Not that I'm all that :kony: or ish, I just don't care, I don't need a chicks money, i could hop on tinder or whatever and get puzzy if I wanted it, but beautiful women and sweet personalities do nothing for me anymore, it's like a team that's been in the playoffs for 10 straight years but only get out the first or second round, the playoffs is just a beautiful woman, the second round is just a personality. I've been in the game to long to just settle for that, I want a championship

To the buffalo bills, cleveland browns, sac kings, etc. type nikkaz the beautiful girl (playoffs), or the beautiful girl with the prsonality (playoffs and making the second round) is what they aspire. Not I


Anything less than a title at this stage in my life is a failure.
Dman I need to write about this some more.

pm me breh

 

[aaaaaaa]

it wasn't always like that, I wrote about in detail before

Spoiler

I believe the way you view yourself and the way you converse about yourself if in a negative light, will impede your success and treasures that are stored up for you. Growing up as a young kid I had a speech impediment, words that began with certain letters I struggled immensely to even enunciate, in essence this just made me withdrawal into a coc00n and become an incalculable unobtrusive individual.

On top of that I was a skinny kid with glasses, in my eyes I might as well have been a mute hunchback the way I viewed myself. I would just look in the mirror and just see a big nose on a big head on a wiry stick figure with a soft voice and a vocabulary that would always be made fun off. Of course my wonderful gracious mother would always say I’m handsome but I was her offspring and would always be viewed marvellously. Anyways grabs remote and presses Fast Forward through the thinking myself as a skinny low self esteem chapter >>>>>

There came a moment when I was shackled in a group project with two other females who I shall call J and A, soon I was acquaintance-zoned as we met up for the next month as I worked away, listening inquisitively as they gossiped about the latest hearsay. I guess I became somewhat of a male “she`s all that“, as I took my glasses off and was told “hey your kind of cute“. These were the ancient days when bulky digital cameras with low mega-pixels were expensive, but J had one and decided to snap away at me. Unbeknownst to me at the time, J and A created a profile for me at a social media site that shall remain nameless and uploaded my pictures, to this day I have no idea why.

Days later I was told the news and as well that my profile was Top 10 on the site and my inbox was filled with messages of approbation, I was flabbergasted. I received the login credentials and totally took over as I string off a list of analogies. The pauper was now the king, the loser was now the winner, and the boy who ate gruel daily was now eating steak and lobster. This new found fame along with me moving to an upscale community, plucking contacts in my eye and starting a new school, I was literally on cloud nine. Imagine being 17 and a legit model signed to a agency who lived in a different city and had every guy chasing after her thinking you are the sexiest man she has ever laid her eyes on that was me, I won`t perjure myself but I revelled in the attention.

My little flip phone that could was bursting at the seams with contacts, phone calls and text messages. Best friends getting into quarrels over me, stalkers, being chased and never having to do the chasing, and an MSN Messenger list exceeded capacity that I needed a second one. The sad part though is that I should not have needed this entire gamut of outpouring praise to view myself in a positive light, because NOTHING ABOUT ME CHANGED except my confidence. I was still skinny, shy, my voice was still soft, just that the words I spoke were no longer negative; I looked at my reflection and saw something that could be admired. So you may look in the mirror and have negative thoughts – I`m too skinny, I hate my nose, I am too fat, but these negative thoughts and utterances have to be destroyed.

There is power in the tongue and in your thoughts, I am not saying it`s an easy thing to overcome but nothing is impossible. I still have instances of feeling inadequate or not up to par but they quickly evaporate, I have written my own story in life and it has successes and failures, but still I rise and overcome. I have been to the top of the hierarchy, and while my popular zenith days have eroded even sometimes to the point where some days it`s only my mother texting me I am fine and content with simplicity. And from being at the bottom and at the top, all I can say is look deep within yourself and never see yourself as a failure, worthless, ugly the only thing stopping yourself is you and the power of your mind and thoughts.

but i agree with what your saying not disagreeing :kony:, but i'm sure you got that crib and that car because you wanted to, not to impress some fly by night thot, whose here today and gone tomorrow.

I agree with you on perception, i'm 29 and i live at home as soon as ahcick hears that its oh , if i said im 29 on my own they perceive something different.

However I live in a million dollar house and pay half of the mortgage and half of the bills and I have like nearly 400,000 equity in it, but if i was renting some studio for 900 a month with no equity because I have my own spot I'm perceived "better". Thankfully I don't care whatany women thinks about me whose not my mother.

nikka. I read your little spoiler. You are not that good looking. shut the fukk up

 

[MikelArteta]

nikka. I read your little spoiler. You are not that good looking. shut the fukk up

1. i don't care what another male thinks of me

2. I have nothing to lie about.

3. People on here have already seen the women I've messed with, so try harder.

4. Don't be jealous, my life hasn't been all cherries and rainbows

 

[The Don]

Totally agree....50 said it best...."Stupid, chase the paper they come with the shyt." The only thing about making it is u don't know what the women is in it for so she will simp after you but when she has the baby or the ring the ball is back in her court cuz either way you gotta pay But simps gon simp and these nikkaz with their Instagram thirst and trickin on anything ways have almost ruined women. The simp needs to be destroyed cuz now (if the woman has anything going for her) you almost always gotta simp a little to get the p*ssy either way they win